psychetool
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Mar 6, 2003
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Why do girls like to get played ?
Girls seem to like the whole alpha-male bullshit egotistical CRAP. I'm a laid back guy who would like to actually show his REAL feelings to my girl rather then some trumped up cocky bullshit. Why do you fall for the whole cocky, i'm the best and most powerful, coolest guy on earth act ?
I have tried to be the 'nice guy' before, but the fact is the ladies just don't go for it. It seems, at least to me, that they want a self-confident (cocky) and beautiful man to live in eden with. Newsflash, nobody is like that.
I find it crazy that just to get some ass or good conversation that I have to put on this 'act' that they will fall for and enjoy instead of just being myself.
I'v recently put this theory to a test, and it stands up without fail. All the girls around the portland area at least seems to luuuv the whole alpha male thing yet don't dig the sensitive niceguy. I can get play with this stupid 'act' I put on or get nothing with being myself. Argh.
Sorry to bash, i'm just pissed right now and perhaps am venting. Here is my dilemma. There is a girl that I really like, I have liked for ages, but all she seems to like is my whole 'hard and cocky' side that I put on for the ladies. When I try to be myself and actually get into her mind instead of just her body she seems to freak out and back off! Then the next night I act 'proper' like a guy should all cocky and whatnot and she is whispering into my ear pulling me to the side to joke and all sorts of other flirty stuff.
Ok, i'll end this bullshit and just ask : Whats up with girls likeing the macho/arrogant guy ? I'm smart and strong, but unless I put on 'the act' I seem to get the cold shoulder. What gives ?
Girls seem to like the whole alpha-male bullshit egotistical CRAP. I'm a laid back guy who would like to actually show his REAL feelings to my girl rather then some trumped up cocky bullshit. Why do you fall for the whole cocky, i'm the best and most powerful, coolest guy on earth act ?
I have tried to be the 'nice guy' before, but the fact is the ladies just don't go for it. It seems, at least to me, that they want a self-confident (cocky) and beautiful man to live in eden with. Newsflash, nobody is like that.
I find it crazy that just to get some ass or good conversation that I have to put on this 'act' that they will fall for and enjoy instead of just being myself.
I'v recently put this theory to a test, and it stands up without fail. All the girls around the portland area at least seems to luuuv the whole alpha male thing yet don't dig the sensitive niceguy. I can get play with this stupid 'act' I put on or get nothing with being myself. Argh.
Sorry to bash, i'm just pissed right now and perhaps am venting. Here is my dilemma. There is a girl that I really like, I have liked for ages, but all she seems to like is my whole 'hard and cocky' side that I put on for the ladies. When I try to be myself and actually get into her mind instead of just her body she seems to freak out and back off! Then the next night I act 'proper' like a guy should all cocky and whatnot and she is whispering into my ear pulling me to the side to joke and all sorts of other flirty stuff.
Ok, i'll end this bullshit and just ask : Whats up with girls likeing the macho/arrogant guy ? I'm smart and strong, but unless I put on 'the act' I seem to get the cold shoulder. What gives ?