wow, got to say, reading this is interseting. Seem like pill reports is responsible for alot of us here.
I joined bluelight because of a link to Pill Reports but i stayed, or became a member or however you see it becaues there was a void in my life. My best friend had gone overseas to the UK, my girlfriend cheated on me with her Drug-Dealing ex-boyfriend, I had a job that I worked ridiculous hours but just after I had just resigned from my job because I shagged the company secretary. All my other friends had slowly but surely grown away from me with my constant clubbing and drug use/abuse. I had people to go clubbing with every weekend - but they werent really friends.
Even overseas, the European forum is addictive with the sensible and charming people. I like bluelight though, because it compliments my life, my friends and is a wonderful resource for information.