Precisely, Julie.
Besides, there was nothing whatsoever to prove that it was not actually done exactly as said in loginnotsecure's post. And I can't say as I knew off the top of my head, the speed of a human on foot. And neither was it specified where the father had been, 'close to' could be merely in line of sight.' Regarding running speed, I really wouldn't know. It's been a long, long time since I was able to run anywhere. My knee is fucked, along with nerve damage down the side of the same leg. Both hips are buggered up, too.
So, there wasn't anything to show that what was said to have been done, was not.
And assuming he is telling the truth, and did repair the thing and have it donated to a group where it could be provided to another with special needs, in fact I applaud him for that. Assuming of course that this was not said simply to wriggle out of responsibility. If it is the truth, then I applaud that action. The 'joke' however, isn't just in poor taste, it is fucking repugnant, at best.
Inso-you haven't offended me personally. It was just that you said you had no opinion one way or the other, and for any man to remain indifferent to a spesh girl or guy being jacked then mocked and abused, that shows that someone hasn't the courage to stand up and fight. We good? I am if you are. Don't be offended by the fact I am outspoken, I always have been, and always will be. Most auties and aspies are (and the one girl on the other bit of the spectrum, with Rett's syndrome (while this usually leaves girls with it [it's X-linked, and without the additional X chromosome in a male, other than those rare individuals with the likes of XXY or XXXY karyotypes, it is lethal in-utero, or within hours of birth], my friend with Rett's, she is a chimaera. a mutant who expresses the MECP2 protein loss of function mutation in only a portion of her cells, so unlike most Rett's girls, who never speak, never walk, and are severely mentally retarded, this girl, she is a damn genius, able to keep me on my toes, which is most refreshing, very smart girl indeed, physically far from wheelchair bound, in fact she likes cliff-diving and works as a gymnastics coach for special ed kids. Mute? hell no, she has a hell of a mouth on her, can go NV if she's had a seizure, but otherwise, she's a mouthy cunt, and I love her for it. Funny as hell. Damn sexy too

, she CERTAINLY is...well outspoken isn't the word. She eats curebies and spits out the pieces, still gibbering and screaming. It's sexy as fuck! to see her in action (and she's pretty damn well gorgeous to begin with; quite a stunning beauty

) Autism Squea..err..'speaks' must have nightmares about her, as no conference is safe from kassiane turning up and ripping heads off
Since loginnotsecure has me on ignore (if it wasn't for this, then what WAS the justification?) I'd be obliged if someone could quote this post, so he'd see that I actually applaud what he did, at least that part of it where he repaired the chair and made sure another spesh person got the use of it) although I am just as revolted by the 'joke', So he should see that, as long as it is of course, truth (not an accusation. I don't need to accuse, for he himself will know whether or not he speaks truly) I respect him for what he did in returning the chair, repaired first to the family, and then, once he knew they had a new one to where another spesh person could have use of it.
Julie-you are quite right there. To some, there are things that simply cross the line, and that just aren't funny. That is something I am familiar with. I'm autistic (classic/Kanner's neurotype), and although I certainly don't look upon it as a disability, a curse or anything of the kind; quite the contrary, I feel sad for those who aren't autie or aspie, not in a patronizing way, but because they can never be what we are, that they will never get to share in so many wonderful things that come with it. And that, it is saddening, that so many must go without.
And in a sense; perhaps a bit hard to explain the concept to neurotypical folk, not just auties, Rett's girls, aspies, I see all of these as extended family, in a manner of speaking, and so too, do I regard all spesh people with a degree of kinship. And I don't take well to those who would abuse my family. Few would, no? and the abuse of spesh people, it is something that is liable to trigger a most unpleasant response to whoever is guilty of it. And yes, I'd kill someone for it if I caught them doing it, battering spesh kids, that kind of thing. There are very few things in this world, thatI despise more vehemently than those who pick on spesh people, and those who abuse the vulnerable. It's one of the vilest, most abhorrent, repugnant and disgusting things anybody can do. And I will not tolerate it. I'll speak up whenever, to whoever, and wherever I see it. I just have no tolerance WHATSOEVER for such behaviour. None. And not the merest scrap of sympathy for those who do such things and then find themselves on the receiving end of what they made go around, coming around. With interest.
And if someone CLAIMS themselves that they DID such a thing, of course I am going to be fucking pissed.
Inso-about what happened, that is awful man, how is he now? I hope he's recovered and found his strength. And you are damn right, there is a special place in the bowels of hades for the kind of despicable, revolting, less-than-human fucking FILTH who would torment him. I hope they die of cancer. Slowly and with doctors who refuse them pain medication point blank. Fucking bastards. There is no place in this world for motherfucking vermin like that. None. If I had it in my power, I would make sure that such were known for what they were, to all, and that no man, no woman, no child, in no nation would give them sanctuary, and neither would they enjoy any legal protection from those who wished to visit upon them what they themselves had visited upon the innocent. Hell, I'd have it such as that not so much as a street curr would refrain from chasing them down and biting them.
I'm glad for your relative though, that he is lucky enough to be spesh. If you want, PM me, I can give you the address of a forum for my, and his kind, and also for relatives not themselves on the spectrum, but who are caretakers, or just relatives of those who are. Give you my username there too, if you take me up on the offer. I won't post it publicly, just because it could possibly lead if not back to me directly, people could likely pick me out, from here, if they went there, and although any pictures of me are in a section which is restricted to invite-only for seasoned old-farts (and a good deal of them are of me doing something in the lab, face covered by gas mask, goggles and blast-shield, all the same, I'd sooner that it were communicated privately. So do PM me, he might like it. It's a good place for those of our blood to let our hair down, kick back and shoot the shit, pretty much anything goes..
As far as rules...well there aren't really any. There is the obvious, as in legal requirements of the host themselves, such as no pictures of bestiality, no CP, that kind of thing, but otherwise, about the only thing forbidden is doxxing people, bringing it to meatspace stalking people etc.
The one and only rule, such basics aside, is 'say what you will, but be prepared to back up your position. If you can't, and you've just kicked a hornet's nest, then don't be surprised if you get stung'
And that is pretty much it. Otherwise it's just kick back and talk with other auties/aspies, take it easy, engage in lively debate, talk shit, anything really.