Where Rehab Meets Reality

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Around dusk on Feb. 17, Dr. Drew Pinsky was sitting at the computer in his hillside home in Pasadena, Calif., when he received an e-mail from a friend with some troubling news. Mindy McCready, a 37-year-old country singer and a star of the third season of “Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew,” a television show that made its debut on VH1 in 2008, had shot herself at her house in Heber Springs, Ark.

“She lost her battle,” Dr. Pinsky, 54, recalled the friend writing. “I sent back, ‘Did she die?’ ”

“Yes,” the friend replied.

Ms. McCready was the fifth participant of “Celebrity Rehab” to die within two years and the third from Season 3, which ended in March 2010. When he got the e-mail, Dr. Pinsky said recently, “I don’t remember doing anything. It is not my job to do anything.”

The singer was no longer a patient, but a few weeks earlier they had talked and he had urged her to seek help in the aftermath of the January death of her boyfriend, a music producer named David Wilson. Ms. McCready had, but Dr. Pinsky said she left the psychiatric hospital prematurely.

“I felt defeated,” he said. “The air went out of my body. I was confident that Mindy was going to take care of herself.”

It didn’t take long for the backlash to begin, particularly among those who have long claimed that Dr. Pinsky exploited celebrities too sick to withstand the scrutiny of a reality television show. In the week after Ms. McCready’s death, he appeared on “Extra” and “Access Hollywood” and was interviewed on “The View.”

“I didn’t want to seem avoidant,” he said.

When Sherri Shepherd of “The View” asked him if the public nature of Ms. McCready’s treatment had something to do with her death, Dr. Pinsky replied: “In a weird way I wish I could claim more responsibility for this. The reality is, though, I haven’t seen Mindy, say, in years.”

He said he was still shaken when he appeared on “The Dr. Oz Show” on March 5 to discuss the insidious and often fatal nature of addiction.

“If we were doing a show called, ‘Cancer House,’ and people died, you’d go, ‘Well, at least you got them a few good years,’ ” Dr. Pinsky told a sympathetic Dr. Mehmet Oz, adding, “Addiction is not a curable condition.”

Though Dr. Pinsky seems genuinely saddened by the deaths of Ms. McCready and the show’s other participants, those setbacks have done nothing to slow his frenetic workload. He acknowledged that being a media personality has now become his primary career, after years treating patients with addiction issues. Still, he said he had no plans to return to “Celebrity Rehab,” although recently he has reconsidered.

He can be found five nights a week co-hosting the sex-advice radio show “Loveline,” which started his media career nearly 30 years ago when he was a medical resident. He is the host of “Dr. Drew on Call,” an hourlong talk show on the HLN news channel, as well as a frequent commentator on CNN and a reality-show guest host. (He recently moderated the “Mob Wives” reunion special.)

He and the comedian Adam Carolla (his most famous “Loveline” co-host), 49, take their act on tour, performing in clubs and theaters. And he continues to see patients Wednesday mornings at his office in Pasadena.

But what continues to baffle Dr. Pinsky, and what resurfaced when Ms. McCready died, is that people hold him accountable long after his on-air doctoring is done.

“They think I’m a millionaire and they think I am, like, rampaging or exploiting people to maintain that,” he said. “And that could not be farther from the truth.”

He recalled a recent show in Redondo Beach, Calif., when an audience member grilled him about a pornographic tape made by Farrah Abraham, one of the stars of MTV’s “Teen Mom,” a show on which he was a guest host.

“Somebody went, ‘How about your teen mom Farrah and her porn tape?’ ” Dr. Pinsky said. “I went, ‘My teen mom Farrah?’ I’ve spent maybe three hours with her, probably 45 minutes across three different shows I hosted. I know her. I’m available to her. I care what happens to that young lady. But I don’t produce that show. I’m not her doctor.”

However fleeting the contact, he said he can’t escape a negative association.

“She becomes my problem because of the choices she is making,” Dr. Pinsky said. “I haven’t seen her in two or three years, but I am a failure if she makes bad choices in her life. It’s like, wow.”

It was lunchtime in Los Angeles on April 16 and Dr. Pinsky was already well into a 15-hour workday. Having finished two podcasts with Mr. Carolla, he drove through midday traffic to prepare for his 6 p.m. HLN show. Later, he said he dined with Mark Geragos, a lawyer who has represented Winona Ryder and Michael Jackson, then drove to Culver City, where “Loveline” was recorded live at 10 p.m.

Freeway snarls are familiar to Dr. Pinsky; he grew up in Pasadena. His father, Morton Pinsky, was a physician, and his mother, Helene Stanton, a Las Vegas stage singer.

“I’m a workaholic,” Dr. Pinsky said as he plopped down on a tangerine couch at Mr. Carolla’s studio. He said he began to have panic attacks at 19 and was told he had an anxiety disorder while a student at Amherst College.

“I was a mess,” he said. “But I found my way through.”

He graduated in 1980 and attended medical school at the University of Southern California. Then he began hosting the “Loveline” radio show, which he did as a lark, but it taught him that the media could help educate young people about protected sex.

“I thought: ‘Oh, my God. I have to be next to these guys because they attract ears,’ ” he said.

He later opened his own medical practice and was named a medical director for the chemical dependency program at the Aurora Las Encinas Hospital in Pasadena. He said he left Aurora in 2010 after his celebrity attracted unwanted media scrutiny to the hospital after a series of unrelated patient incidents.

Dr. Pinsky described himself as a codependent personality with a perfectionist streak. And he does exhibit people-pleasing tendencies. When Mr. Carolla was ready to record, Dr. Pinsky snapped to attention.

“He gets mad at me,” Dr. Pinsky said with a sheepish grin as he scurried away. The two have a relationship that is sometimes uncomfortable to watch (Dr. Pinsky the empathetic listener compared to the more temperamental Mr. Carolla), but the shtick seems to work.

“I’m not into comedy as much as people think,” Mr. Carolla said. “And he’s not into changing people as much as people think.”

Mostly, they like to perform.

“Drew likes being in front of the crowd doing his thing,” Mr. Carolla said. “I don’t know whether he needs it or craves it. But he certainly finds himself in front of people on a regular basis.”

In late March, weeks after Ms. McCready’s death, the two were at the House of Blues in Las Vegas for a stop during their “Loveline” reunion tour. To the crowd chugging cups of Mr. Carolla’s “mangria,” the comic’s acerbic wit was the draw. And even Dr. Pinsky was subjected to Mr. Carolla’s barbs.

“You latch on to a fair to middling idea and then you hang on to it like a pit bull hanging onto a rope toy that has no value,” Mr. Carolla said to his co-host, taking a jab at Dr. Pinsky’s reality television credits, which include not only “Celebrity Rehab,” but spinoffs like “Celebrity Rehab Presents Sober House” and “Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew.” “You’re a scholar. You are a man of science. Why? Why do you do this?”

Dr. Pinsky laughed and replied, “Wishful thinking.”

Later, Dr. Pinsky explained that “Celebrity Rehab” was his way of showing the public that addiction unchecked had serious consequences.

“If doctors are not allowing ourselves to participate in the entertainment aspects, we are not going to have any impact,” he said. “The medical practice is not getting better.”

Supporters say it is his benevolent nature that makes him relatable on screen.

“Although he has become a television personality, he has brought his actual personality to television,” said the actress Mackenzie Phillips, who starred in “Celebrity Rehab” with Ms. McCready.

Dr. Oz, the well-known cardiothoracic surgeon, said he gets nervous when people approach him and mention that he treated a friend or family member.

“I always ask, ‘Are they OK?’ ” he said. Unlike Dr. Pinsky, he said he has escaped criticism in his transition to television talk-show host largely because people view heart disease differently from alcohol or drug addiction, which is just as deadly.

“The failure is not seen as my failure, it is the failure of the disease,” he said. “But Drew is criticized.”

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http://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/09/f...ician-and-media-star.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
 
I just started watching it. Season 6. But they are trying to treat 'everyday' addicts and not celebrities. I just saw the first one last night with heroin, alcohol, opiate pills, cocaine etc addicts. It reminded me of intervention.
 
Many ordinary people love to watch celebrities fail as much as they love to watch them in their glory, because it balances out the jealousy for their riches, power, and fame. Dr. Pinsky was pandering to that public appetite, as much as he was providing a valuable medical service to people in need who've let their lives be open books. If he wasn't ready to accept the inherent controversy that came with a show like this, he shouldn't have hosted it. It's that simple.

I remember when Loveline was on MTV. Drew Pinsky and Adam Carolla are showmen first, and helpers of people second. Of course they can't openly state this, or else they wouldn't get any callers. But really, calling into loveline is a mere step above appearing on Jerry Springer. You get you work your problems out, we get to lampoon you and your problems on national radio / TV, and a good time is had by all, mkay?

Pinsky and Carolla always struck me as first class assholes. I'll grant that they're both highly intelligent men and far more complicated people than their onstage personae might suggest. But they are assholes, and certainly not people I'd open up to about any problems that truly bothered me, behind closed doors let alone on camera.
 
Many ordinary people love to watch celebrities fail as much as they love to watch them in their glory, because it balances out the jealousy for their riches, power, and fame. Dr. Pinsky was pandering to that public appetite, as much as he was providing a valuable medical service to people in need who've let their lives be open books. If he wasn't ready to accept the inherent controversy that came with a show like this, he shouldn't have hosted it. It's that simple.

I remember when Loveline was on MTV. Drew Pinsky and Adam Carolla are showmen first, and helpers of people second. Of course they can't openly state this, or else they wouldn't get any callers. But really, calling into loveline is a mere step above appearing on Jerry Springer. You get you work your problems out, we get to lampoon you and your problems on national radio / TV, and a good time is had by all, mkay?

Pinsky and Carolla always struck me as first class assholes. I'll grant that they're both highly intelligent men and far more complicated people than their onstage personae might suggest. But they are assholes, and certainly not people I'd open up to about any problems that truly bothered me, behind closed doors let alone on camera.

This.
 
Ms. McCready was the fifth participant of “Celebrity Rehab” to die within two years and the third from Season 3, which ended in March 2010.

When I say "nothing changes", I actually mean it.

A lot of people are unhappy with the lives they are living. Being rich or famous isn't going to automatically make you happy.

Money cannot buy happiness. (Don't believe me?)

“If we were doing a show called, ‘Cancer House,’ and people died, you’d go, ‘Well, at least you got them a few good years,’ ” Dr. Pinsky told a sympathetic Dr. Mehmet Oz, adding, “Addiction is not a curable condition.”

That's far from true in many different ways.

That aside, I'm getting this feeling that "Dr. Pinsky" is either a psychopath, or will one day likely commit suicide due to overwhelming guilt.
 
But it helps :)

It definitely does not.

In South Korea specifially, there has been a lot of rich and successful people who have been committing suicide. It's a very alarming trend not only for South Korea, but for Asia and the world in general.

When I walk around Skid Row, I think, wow, how have some of these people not done themselves in yet (not like they should, but that they are so likely to accidentally OD since they're poor and going from panhandling for a few days to scoring and getting high, the cycle repeats, etc.)... and I think, well, they're doing what makes them happy.

I could be homeless and I could be happy this way. I wouldn't want to... but I could.

If I had a bunch of money it wouldn't make me feel much better about myself. I know this because I was more depressed when I had four or five figures in the bank account (intead of like 3 or less lol).
 
But it helps :)

There are lots of things in life more important than money, but you need money to buy most of them.

Don't know what you are seeing as more important than money, but what I see as more important has no price tag.

Health is high up on the list. If you eat a much cheaper, vegetarian, diet, you will live 12% longer, with far less chronic disease than meat eaters have. Save money, be healthier.

Captain Heroin provided a nice example, but I saw a really great talk on the question of whether money can buy happiness . You very well might change your mind if you watch this.
 
idk if i can stand those celeb reality shows but flavor flav is the bomb
 
Being an addict, my wealth has a direct effect on my happiness, ya dig? I don't buy this hippy, money won't make you happy, bull. If the drug angle don't work for you, nutrition and shelter cost money and knowing that you'll be safe and fed has a huge impact on a persons happiness. Maybe I'm brainwashed by American culture, but I just can't see it any other way :\
 
Being an addict, my wealth has a direct effect on my happiness, ya dig? I don't buy this hippy, money won't make you happy, bull. If the drug angle don't work for you, nutrition and shelter cost money and knowing that you'll be safe and fed has a huge impact on a persons happiness. Maybe I'm brainwashed by American culture, but I just can't see it any other way :\

Yeah not having any money makes life much more strwssful which leads to unhappyness
 
having no money fucking sucks in our world anyway. Sure some people may be happy poor, in terrible health and without access to basic needs but i wouldn't be.

Example: poor family in the US - lack of access to proper medical care, lack of funds to send children to private schools and then to college, lack technology, fall behind in the world, are subject to disproportionate taxes, get looked down upon everyone higher up and so on.

You think that family is happy? maybe they are but they are oppressed if nothing else, and i'd wager what little material possessions they have, their minimum standard quality of life and hope for a better future is all that keeps them together.

I went from having a lower-middle class family, on the lower side, to being upper middle class by my teens. I can tell you one thing for sure, money may not buy happiness but it's a fucking hell of a lot better than having no money. In their cases it has nothing to due with money, they have such huge inner demons, regrets, pain and suffering - that's if they even have money left which some of them do not. Fame/fortune does not fix that giant void.

as for Dr. Drew he is a media whore, and knows it. Did he fuck those people's lives up by putting them on TV? i highly doubt it, many of them were some of the most tragic depictions of drug users i've seen and it wasn't just for TV, these people really fucking suffered, media or no media. God damn i wonder how steven adler is still kicking.
 
Example: poor family in the US - lack of access to proper medical care, lack of funds to send children to private schools and then to college, lack technology, fall behind in the world, are subject to disproportionate taxes, get looked down upon everyone higher up and so on.

You think that family is happy? maybe they are but they are oppressed if nothing else

I think that the family is oppressed, no doubt.
But I also think that happiness depends on none of the issues you mentioned (though I also believe in the spirit of fairness and human decency we owe it to the citizens of this world to stop such circumstances).

To me, happiness comes from within, not from any outside circumstances.
Happiness is a choice, and someone who is sick and poor can make that choice, just as someone who is healthy and rich can.
Did you happen to watch the video of the "really great talk" i posted a link for above?
If you watch that, it is pretty hard to come away believing that happiness depends on money.
 
I think in some city areas it'd be really hard to survive and be happy with hardly any money. But some places I've travelled to (mainly pacific islands) alot of them have hardly any money or modern possessions or access to health services and hospitals and live in hand made shacks and some of those families seemed happy as to me. Eating lots of fresh fruit and eating fresh caught seafood, spending alot of time in the ocean swimming and fishing etc. Playing soccer with a falling apart ball on the beach, playing games, doing art, a simple life by alot of standards, but as I said they seemed much happier than many or even most of the families I've met who have lots of money and alot more stress to keep on earning alot to afford all the new shit and keep up with the jones's.
 
Being an addict, my wealth has a direct effect on my happiness, ya dig? I don't buy this hippy, money won't make you happy, bull. If the drug angle don't work for you, nutrition and shelter cost money and knowing that you'll be safe and fed has a huge impact on a persons happiness. Maybe I'm brainwashed by American culture, but I just can't see it any other way :\

No one is saying that being homeless and poor is a great way to find happiness.
But simply that you cannot rely on money to make you happy.
I happened to find a great blog post that sums it up nicely.
 
Money is insurance against some guaranteed sources of stress and unhappiness. But not nearly all, or even the majority, of common and likely life stressors. Whether or not you'll see money as something that can buy happiness depends mostly upon what it is you fundamentally lack, and whether or not that's something money can buy.
 
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