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When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?

I believe that if a woman hits a man, then he absolutely has every right to defend himself.
As a victim of domestic abuse however, it is not ok for a man to just lash out, but if the woman is the instigator, then she has to accept the fact that if you hit someone, regardless of gender, they have the right to defend themselves.
 
^^^I do not understand what your saying. What if the woman is afraid and lashes out first? Still ok for her to get punched?
Generally, we be different of size and strength; always exceptions.
But in my opinion, ANY MAN who hits a woman is a coward with penis issues.
Again, always exceptions for example, some men are victims of domestic violence and have every right to defend themselves and their children.
But we are talking about the O.P
Coward, Penis issues.
 
I haven't opened this thread before, i dont know why, but I could never have imagined what kind of answers you were getting. This is ridiculous.

You are all a bunch of little bitches. It's never okay to hit a woman. No exceptions. Even if the is all types of crazy and attacking you just contain her. You should all be ashamed.
 
FromHereToEternity said:
It's never okay to hit a woman. No exceptions.
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So if you're about to be seriously injured or killed by some psycho and a well placed blow is the only way to get yourself out of it you're going to just let her attack you instead? Seriously you need to get over yourself, you sound like you live in la la land.
 
Spanking is sometimes a great problem solver (only of she is into bdsm) it might instantly cheer her up then and behave.. (Joke)
But seriously I had a girl once who was a 'bit' of a masochist. She would like noting more than a good slap or her face with the palm of my hand (so not to leave bruises, she actually tought me how and where to hit. Although The spanking I found quite enjoiable) this was not really my cup of tea especially since she wanted me to slap her so hard she would pass out..never did that btw..even if she wanted me, that was something I wouldn't want to do, could't see the play part in knocking your girlfriend out .most of the play, spank on the ass or a slap i understand, but she eventually started really annoying me hoping I would get mure punch so to say, so that was that, stopped seeing her, but we also had lots of fun and learned a thing or two from her, and respect that community in general, but was never into real pain or humilliation stuff, hey but at least they /we experiment, for some it even may ha a therapuitic effect. And everyone was very acceping of each other and next to various games/play, seemed more in tue with feelings of others an very supportive of each other...But this is probably not the tread to go in further detail


I do hope se is doing well.and hope her head is ok tho and she never found a guy who would punch her lights out a few times a week...she liked the feeling.
So long story short in this case hittin my woman might have been not socially accepted but if we both wanted which I did not at the time for BDSM reasons that would be great. It would have made us happy, can't immagine she filing charges for me routinely hitting her lights out tho. So and if we wouldn't have stuf in writing about the arrangement, all I could say when police was infomed of a homely dispute: is that she alwys is asking for it! =D


And besides some of my lady friends started training MMA probably not good either to hit one of them, and they even might beat you up first :) (maybe do a self defece class=D)as It would probably send you to the ER..maybe a broken jaw or other bodyparts where you might not tapout?
Btw if interested in MMA there is a new documentary out about the life of GSP UFC champ, great guy, great story!


Anyway not a veryious serious post but reminded me of some interesting and unaual situalions.
 
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nolys said:
Well I am on steroids, us "juicers" are well known for being women beaters, I was hoping somebody would pick up on my sd mod status, blame it on that in order for me to start an argument. Things don't always play out the way you plan...
But in all seriousness if she's lifted hammers and knives to me and I've did nothing, I'm not going to hit her in any circumstances...
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yeah i wouldn't tolerate someone lifting knives to me either:\
 
In my honest opinion. I believe only a girly-man would scope down to the level of having to strike a woman to defend himself. A real man doesn't haven't to punch a woman to protect himself (unless she had a weapon of course).

I mean come on! Could you picture the "Most Interesting Man" punching/fighting a woman. Uhhh, No!! Only the "Most Doucheist Man" would.

This is just my opinion. I think a lot of people would agree with me (both men & women).
 
It's okay to hit a woman if she hits you first. Then again, it's okay to hit anyone if they hit you first. It's self-defense.
If you're worried about how unfair it might be because you might hit her harder, just remember that she chose you to pick a fight with. Simple.
 
Don't completely beat the hell out of her for slapping you, but feel free to use some reasonable level of force in self-defense, and, yes, even retaliation. Often, a woman's lesser physical strength will make a smaller amount of force permissible, but that goes right out the window if she's armed or unusually capable.

Any man who tells you you just have to take it is most likely a masculinity-obsessed meathead who's being sexist against himself. It's a lot like a woman telling other females to get back in the kitchen or a black man telling other members of his race that it's wrong for them to go to college or speak formally. Get some fucking self-respect.
 
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AFAIK the law see's assault as assault, doesn't matter what the gender is. If she hits you, you have every right to defend yourself. If you feel that subduing her (puch, kick, slam, etc...) is the only way to stop them from attacking you than you're in the right.

little BIG Pecker said:
In my honest opinion.
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You're a minority now. Why does it matter if a guy hits a women, especially if the cunt started it? Even if she isn't going to "seriously harm" someone, what does it matter if someone (male) slams her to the ground or knocks her out for thinking she's tough shit or having a rage-fit? No one should have to put up with someone punching or kicking them regardless of gender. You're also being sexist by saying that a women can't harm a man, It doesn't take a juicer (or male) for that matter to knock someone out or break a rib or nose, little effort/force is actually needed.
 
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Absolutely. Given the opportunity, a weaker person could do a lot of damage to someone bigger.

I like how you pointed out that their position can also be insulting to women. It did not escape my notice that a few of them said hitting a woman back would make a man feminine ("bitches", "girly-man").
 
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I'm trying to picture a man knocking out a woman after she took a swing at him, and justifying that. In the culture I live in; if that scenario were to happen at a party, I could definitely see a man coming to the rescue and

A.) Give attention to the woman

B.) Kick the guys ass

Maybe I'm uncultured and too old school. Who knows.... You bunch of whipper snappers
 
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Looks like the two posters above me ^^ would justifying a man knocking out a woman if she were to throw a punch at him. Must be Generation Z kids
 
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There are lots of ways to defend yourself without knocking somebody out.

Would it be acceptable to use that level of force on her? Not in most circumstances, but if she posed enough of a threat, absolutely. I would normally respond to most women with a few blows and (hard) shoves, but if she was trying to severely injure or kill me, nearly any amount of defensive force would be justified.

I have to say, though, it's really hard to feel sorry for her with the limited amount of information you've supplied. Can you expand on that hypothetical scenario?

little BIG Pecker said:
Must be Generation Z kids
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I am. And, for the purposes of this conversation, know that I consider most traditional masculine and feminine norms to be tools of oppression. The two genders should be judged by the same moral code.

If I seem to be be contradicting myself, I'm not; a man should also use some measure of restraint when engaging a much weaker member of his own gender.
 
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Hey, guess what! Not defending yourself against a woman is submissive! It's un-masculine! You must all have penis issues!

Take that, meatheads!
 
And just to reiterate one more time:

In my honest opinion. I believe only a girly-man would scope down to the level of having to strike a woman to defend himself. A real man doesn't haven't to punch a woman to protect himself (unless she had a weapon of course).

I mean come on! Could you picture the "Most Interesting Man" punching/fighting a woman. Uhhh, No!! Only the "Most Doucheist Man" would.

This is just my opinion. I think a lot of people would agree with me (both men & women).
 
Hey everyone... please stay on topic and do NOT insult each other! I do not want to have to close the topic. It's a legit topic but you've got to be mature enough to handle it.

Now, my opinion on the subject.
You should only hit another person if needed. If you're a "big guy" and a "small female" hit you, you should not beat her up, no. Because a small hit does not equal a beating. However, if a small female was attacking a big male, then yes he may need to use some force. I would never recommend anyone use more force than absolutely necessary to defend themselves though... regardless of gender, size, etc.
 
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