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When did you lose your virginity, and to whom? Glad it was them?

KoreyS said:
Uhhh the word is masturbating lol. Dildos aren't just there to "stick up there".
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Eh, before they lose their virginity I doubt that many girls masturbate using dildos precisely because it would hurt. I lost mine 4 years ago and I still don't, simply cuz I don't really see the point I guess.
Supposedly it only doesn't hurt for girls who do a lot of physical activity cuz that's already ruptured the hymen, or loosened it or something. I figure that's why it didn't hurt at all for me since I was super athletic at the time. Dunno, but I'm certainly glad it didn't.
 
this thread has been done before - it needs merging - but I lost it, after many offers from very sexy but DRRUNK gals, one in particular I actually ended up turning down 3 times haha, at the age of 17 - it was with my first serious girlfriend.

We were gonna fuck the day we officially got together, about 1.5 months after we met, but when I went to stay round hers, I met her bro for the first time, got a bit too stoned and drunk with them all, and ended up KOing up in Sophia's bedroom - I could hear everything around me, but I was in a intoxicated state of coma (there's a word for it I think begins with a C, but it's like a coma, but you're awake, but there's no movement or any sign of relationship to external stimuli - I cannae remember what it called - someone help me out?).

So the next day she went away to Switzerland and germany for a month, and when she got back, I picked her up at the airport, was well romantic, and we went back, had a nice dinner, then went straight to my bedroom, got naked and workedd our way up to fucking. Well, almost - because she got on top of my dick, but in a strange position, it wouldn't go in - she said "I think you're too big!" I was so surprised and crushed at the same time, panic hit me for a split second, as I'd waited for a really great gal, and it wasn't going to work! Then I climbed on top of her and spread her legs and it worked out nicely. I don't actually remember much of it, except it was good and loving. We had a satisfying sex life, but nothing special in teh grand scheme of things - there was love involved though, so it was good enough for the pair of us.
 
Ummm i was 15 and she was 15 - both under age lol. And i was hooking up with her friend beforehand, but i think she decided that wasn't her night to lose her virginity, got nervous or something - no problem, i've never been one to force it...so i moved on to the next girl lol. We were drunk and on pills etc so the love was pretty free back then :) And to be honest it was not that good, although a new experience.

I think the best sex i had was on meth/pills for 4+ hours, even though neither of us "finished" it was super sensual and passionate, but the bed was soaked in sweat after
 
Pagey said:
Must've had some pretty bad cramps the next day. I don't think I've ever gone for more than an hour and I was pretty sick of it by the end, lol. But that was sober.
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Cramps during lol at about 2 hours and onwards. Little breaks in between for more drugs of course.... And yeah the next day both of us walking funny lmao
 
My experience was hilarious in retrospect, happened about a week after i turned 20. She was 24.

I had been hanging out with this girl for a month or so in our circle of friends, we both eventually got closer and she asked a friend of mine for my number; i invited her over to my place and she brought some weed with her. I honestly don't enjoy weed but i went along with it which turned out to be terrible idea because i couldn't focus on sex, combine that with been my first time and me not telling her.. i just couldn't stay hard. So this was awkward.. I had to do something about this, so i told her i would be right back. Went into the next room and drank some Jack Daniels from the bottle to offset the effect of the weed, i came back and was good to go.. forgetting that she could smell it on my breath, at this point i could only think she must of thought i could only have sex with her if i was drunk.

We had sex but didn't finish up because i forgot i had my brothers birthday dinner to goto; it was a mess of a first time.. But i called her the next day, explained everything and she was cool, we continued to see each other for a month before she left to travel. The follow up sex was great.. we were both into each other.

What i do regret though is how it ended when she returned from travel, that still plays on my mind.. a combination of alcohol, acid and sleep deprivation lead to a huge misunderstanding and misinterpretation that i still don't understand to this day 4 years later that caused her to cut all communication with me and associated friends.

Oh well :)
 
4 hours as your first time for a girl would hurt like fuck. Holy shit no way. I remember thinking "jesus christ please hurry up cuz this hurts."
 
Lysis said:
4 hours as your first time for a girl would hurt like fuck. Holy shit no way. I remember thinking "jesus christ please hurry up cuz this hurts."
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If that is directed at me, go re-read my post. It was not 4 hours on the first time, but on another occasion.
 
I was 19. I am glad it was someone I cared about.

She wasn't a virgin.

:)
 
spare9 said:
I was old by today's standards. 22. Got it over with after like two weeks of seeing this guy. We had both joked about sex quite a bit and he said he wanted to do it with me. I was embarrassed to still have my V-Card at 22 so I just sort of got it over with. It hurt. A lot more than I expected. Pretty much consisted of me lying there gritting my teeth, saying "ugh just get it over with, are you done yet?". Haha. We ended it about four months later.

I regret it because I didn't really have any romantic feelings for him, just horniness. lol. And his longest lasting time was like eight minutes....heh. Now I just feel like sex is overrated and unsatisfying. Some people say it's different if you're "with someone you love". Sounds corny to me. Who knows.
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Yeah, some women just don't enjoy sex. I don't know if it would be different for you specifically, but I do know I enjoyed it much more my first few times being with the man I was in love with, rather than not. -shrugs-

KoreyS said:
I'm surprised it hurt so much for the girls, especially the ones that lost it a bit later than usual. I would have figured at least something had been in there already to loosen it up a bit. A finger or two, a banana, a dildo, a brush handle, a tampon... something.
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I myself had never had anything larger than the width of my two middle fingers inserted, and even then it was just to massage my g-spot, not really 'finger' myself. It's more the in-and-out-at-sometimes-fast-paces that hurts (that, and my boyfriend is considerably thicker than my two fingers). Which I will say, did hurt quite a bit. But, after a few times, you get used to it, and it's more enjoyable than painful.
 
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