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When a little girl messin' with your mind....What do YOU do?

Moe-D

Moe-D

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Hi!

Dont know if Im in the right place, might be darkside too cause aint no sex, love or relationship. :!

Introduction to the situation. A girl, that Ive known for like ages ( 10Yrs + ), moved into my town like 2 years ago.
She lived like 400km's from me before She moved here but I kept in touch with her whilst she was living out-of-my-town.
Anyway the first two years the girl had a boyfriend, while she was living in-my-town. I knew the guy, really did think He's a little jerk, because He was treating Me like a dick, trying to steal He's girlfriend and shit like that (which I wasn't trying to do.. I respected Her way too much).

Okay so like a month ago She broke up with the dick, I didn't know about it and the girl called me like "Hey "Moe" Ive noticed that we havent seen each other for a long time even though were both living in the same city" -kind of phone call. So I went to see Her, we had a fun night.. Nothing bigger than seeing each other and drinking couple of dem beers and talking shit like that (Im not an self-confident alfa-male, who goes straight to the point).

Okay so after that we have seen each other couple of times.

Last Monday, I knew she was throwing a party at Her place. So i was thinking like "I'll go there like 8 P.M".. Later She called me, we had a good talk and she was all like "come heeeeeere". I was eating in a nepalese at the moment so i was like "I'll call you soon, girl" (really feeling happy that She's up to meet me.) During my meal we were texting each other, and it was my time to go see the girl, plate was done and friend's were too drunk AND my battery dies from my phone FUUUUCK!!!

Didnt know exaclty where She lived so I was disappointed & drunk, went to home to sleep and load my batteries and I was thinking like: "Fuck, but I was drunk anyway.. Tomorrow's another day"
So, the Tuesday came. I was planning to call the girl like "Fuck, Im sorry my battery went dead last night" But INSTEAD She called me asking Me for Her place to meet some Her friends and eat good after the last night drinking, of course I was down on!! But I had to do some shit first and im like "Hey, are you still there if I come down in like.. hour?" And She's like yea yea, cool.

At this point I was so happy from the fact that SHE actually called me and everything.

Went to get my bike (the shit I had to do first) and called Her.

I knew the suburb that She was living in and i was like "I'll come down there and call you again, so we can meet somewhere" (cause I didnt know presicely where she was living, what door n' whateva) And She was all happy like "Yeah, come quick".

WENT THERE. CALLED THE GIRL. NO ANSWER. CALLED AGAIN. NO ANSWER. WELL ILL GO SIT BY THE PARK FOR A WHILE, STILL NO CALL.
STARTED TO GET CONFUSED, WENT TO SEE OTHER FRIENDS. STILL HOPIN SHE WOULD CALL.

AND FUCKIN NUTHING CAME.

Its Thursday and I still dont know what the fuck happened.......... Does it sound weird to you???
Who the fuck invites one someplace and doesnt answer the phone!?!?

A Girl, that I've known for fucking ages, who I had a crush on like from the first time I met Her....
And I know that She wouldnt do shit like that to me.. Feeling weird and cant stop thinking about it..

Doesnt help that im on (mild) WD's too, I really thought that I could meet her and feel special and warm..
Guess that is up to subuxone up in my case.. :(
(Still wont do it.)

Moe.
 
Please be more direct and brief. Then this thread can proceed with some clarity of focus.

What is the question exactly?
 
Yeah I know it's not the most focused shit in internet, sry.
I dont know if theres any question? Should there be? Just needed some opinions or sumthing.
Biggest question going through my mind is what happened?
 
You will never know.

I'll let this slide for a bit. If it generates some fruitful discussion, then so be it. If not, may I suggest you give the Blogs section on this site a go? Because, this reads more like an diffuse rant than anything worth sinking teeth into.
 
Yea, defo :)

But seriously what women can do to a man?
I mean, we havent ever even had any kind of relationship or anything..

Only good memories as I think way back, but still I feel im so stuck in this situation.. Dont feel like calling her as she didnt pick up earlier.. What would you do?
 
"You will never know"
Shit maaan that aint making me feel any better.
But I guess its better to tell people the truth than be like "ISS ALL GOOD".. hmph
And the bupe ghostin in my closet like "SNORT MEEEEE"
Fuck these two upcoming days really, if I could just hibernate couple of days straight from here.
 
Ignore her. If she comes back around, well, then you can go from there.

She is probably just being a space cadet, and making moves without using any reason.

Females--especially the youngins--seem to act in accordance with their ever fluctuating moods and/or personal agenda. Their view is filtered through a very limited set of perspectives.

Give this some time to make happen. If she doesn't get it together or you, then move on as if nothing ever mattered.

You will be the better for it.
 
Yeah.

Thanks, noodle :) Advice taken.
And Mel's too.
Already texted to Her Tuesday. Still nothing..
The word space cadet made a lot of sense.
spacecadet.jpg
Pic related.
 
this seems to me indicative of a person who likes to control others for an ego boost. avoid. of course there may be some perfectly good reason, but seriously?
 
No problem brova.

There is a method to me madness. =D

We usually frown on inserted images here in SLR, but that is a nice visual tie in.
 
Yeah, I've been controlled a couple of times.. Since I'm a little sensitive person :/
But I just couldn't believe this shit from Her.. All going through my head ATM is: "Does she think i dont bump into her somewhere" "Did She knew about me having a crush on her, and just playin" "Did her phone fell off the balcony" "Did she meet someone else at her place"..

Yeah, i against i. I've been searching for the perfectly good reason.. But starting to fear that she was just gaming with my easy & naive mind.
 
Yeah, space cadet rules 4 real..
and the girl in this case is the ball, and the field where the ball flips and make all the buzzy lights to blink is my head or sumthing.
 
So, I think that is a wrap then kid.

A culture that feeds on itself does not need itself. It needs God, which is really an illusion and all in your head. And that is real talk.

I sometimes laugh at an entire industry that prides itself on a very narrow hedonistic self-centered focus. But, that is neither here nor there.

Players play games. Maybe she is playing you. Maybe she is just practicing. Maybe she just isn't that into you.

*shrug*

Why should you care? She doesn't.

If she is in your pocket or something similar, then stop dropping dimes on her and watch her cut the cord.

That, or just ignore her, as was suggested before.

Good luck.
 
I dont know is she into me or not..
Apparently not if thinking about couple of days before..
But if I think about 10 years that ive known her, at least I should be something called "friend"
Maby the 10yrs period didn't mean anything to her, but means a whole lot to me and that is why I care.

And the fact that I dont know if shes into me or not is bothering me.. Always had a good time with her, made her laugh, been supporting her & even spy her in the shower when i was a little lad (Hopefully she doesnt know that). And the fact that lately I havent been callin' for her, she have been calling for me..
Well I am very sure if She's not going to call me no mo, I have to get over it :)
 
I think it was a revenge thing.

The night your battery died you'd had a nice meet up, she invited you to the party, waited while you ate and then.... nothing. Not your fault as it turns out, but she wasn't to know and it can't have been very nice to have you not turn up. You say you were gonna call to explain & apologise but she rang you first - did you get round to apologising?

I think she just wanted to do to you what she perceived as you having done to her. All games really. If you get on well I'm sure you can put this bs behind you but you need to go to a lot of effort to explain and say sorry for your original No Show first. Girls are like that ;)
 
Yeah, shared a thought of that possibility too, of course..
Just gotta get contact to her somehow i think.
Dam, women are hard 2 handle, if it was like that the 1 "little" mistake I made just made everything hard again.

TY, bad!
 
Your battery died, you didn't respond, and you didn't go to her party that one night. Things happen, and you know it! Something easily could have happened to her that prevented her from meeting up with you as well.
 
Didn't have to time to read the actual post but, from the title it seems as if this person is causing you mental duress. My advice is stay away before it gets worse.
 
Moe-D said:
Yea, defo :)

But seriously what women can do to a man?
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This is an interesting question...but I can't be 100% sympathetic since you technically blew her off first. Maybe she was thinking "How could HE do this to ME?" She didn't know why you flaked, maybe she tried calling you a bunch of times while your phone was dead and you never answered. Hard to say.
 
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