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Whats your number????

I'm 27, girl, lost my virginity at 14 and have slept with 8 guys. I know all their names, I was in a relationship with 6 of them when we had sex.
 
Girls..

If a man has slept with a lot of women.. would you consider that a good thing?
What about hardly any?
What would be a good amount?
1 night stands or relationship sex?

I've had one 1 night stand and that was with an ex.. and it didn't really happen cos I was too fucked.. merry christmas zzzzzzzzz
 
^Wouldn't paticularly consider that a good thing. If it's really, really a lot I wouldn't be so happy actually because that would make me doubt his fidelity (I know I know, that's not fair blablabla). And I think relationship sex beats one night stands any day.

As for me, I'm 18, lost my virginity at 15 and have had sex with 5 guys. I was in a relationship from when I was 15 to a few months ago though and the other 4 guys have been in the past er, 3 months.
Oh and yes I can remember all their names.
 
rickolasnice said:
If a man has slept with a lot of women.. would you consider that a good thing?
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Bad thing. If he's slept with a lot lot lot of people, then he's happy with just the physical side of sex. I can't really get in the mood unless there's a bit of an emotional connection too. I'd like the guy to want that connection.
That said, not a very bad thing. If a guy had just had a few years of nailing everything that moved, and it was a while ago, then the number wouldn't really bother me.

rickolasnice said:
What about hardly any?
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Bad thing. He's probably not very experienced, and experience is good.

rickolasnice said:
What would be a good amount?
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Humm, anything between 5 and 15.

rickolasnice said:
1 night stands or relationship sex?
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Preferably a mixture, so long as he didn't want *me* to be a one night stand.
 
Not counting oral sex as sex is lame, especially in the gay world where not everyone has anal sex. So I can't really participate.
 
Male
Lost virginity at 19
Currently 21
Have had sex with over 20 women. (Most of them were within the time span of a few months)
I can remember their names, but it would take some time.
 
^lol.

If I was to count my whacking off fantasy's, then it would be a complex number.

Seriously

I'm 25.
lost virginity at 15.
Sexed maybe 70 womens.
Oral/fingering/BDSM/misc fetish stuff sans penetration w maybe 25 more.
I can't remember them all.
 
rickolasnice said:
Girls..

If a man has slept with a lot of women.. would you consider that a good thing?
What about hardly any?
What would be a good amount?
1 night stands or relationship sex?

I've had one 1 night stand and that was with an ex.. and it didn't really happen cos I was too fucked.. merry christmas zzzzzzzzz
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it doesnt count as a one night stand if she was an ex my friend IMHO

I like when a man has experience and the ability to pick up girls and stuff

I also think people can learn a lot more from a lot of relationship sex than a lot of one night stands
 
13-15, can't remember exactly. I'm a dude in his early 20s. I've probably had sex less times than most people with my numbers though because I've never had a real girlfriend. Most of these were one night stands or chicks I hooked up with a couple times, then got bored of and moved on.

If we're talking about this purely for the sake of conquest, my numbers could be higher. There were at least 2 girls I brought home... but couldn't get hard long enough to have sex with thanks to painkillers and alcohol. Yeahhh, I know how bad that sounds for a young dude. I've realized since then that I like sex more than drugs so that hasn't happened since I was 18 or so.
 
Lost my virginity at 16
Had sex with 1 partner countless times.

Honestly I'm fine with the number. I don't want one night stands. I prefer to engage in sexual activity with individuals I'm in a relationship with and care about. I was more into getting fucked up on drugs than going out and finding someone to get laid with during college and what not.
 
Cloudy said:
Lost my virginity at 16
Had sex with 1 partner countless times.

Honestly I'm fine with the number. I don't want one night stands. I prefer to engage in sexual activity with individuals I'm in a relationship with and care about. I was more into getting fucked up on drugs than going out and finding someone to get laid with during college and what not.
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drugs become more important than having money for food, nevermind sex 8)
 
I'ma 25 year old straight male.

I\ve only fucked 3 bitches but have made love to literally hundreds of gorgeous men in a prison environment and no I do not remember their code names
 
^ hmm i didnt know they referred to it as "making love" in prison

as far as some guys not being able to get hard cuz they are fucked up... i am glad it happens otherwise my number would be a lil higher and and all the addidional "numbers" would fall under the "did i seriously do that, god damn it" category
 
what the fuck is a prison environment?
sounds like high school to me %)

and idk how many times id try and chill with a girl and be like,...uhh im not sure whats wrong...lets try again tomorrow night.
embarrassing trait of opiates, but its that love hate relationship i cant live without 8)
 
I lost it a bit over a year ago and have had sex with 2 people total, one in a relationship one out of (although we are friends).
 
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