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Whats your number????

tackyspiral

tackyspiral

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How many people have you had sex with... not counting oral... but anal and regualar sex counts
specify whether you are a guy or girl
If you are not totally sure give an approximate number
Do you remember all thier names
How old are you now and how old were you when you lost your virginity

i am 23, female and i lost my virginity at 16
i think my number is around 20 i dont remember everyone's names
I kinda feel like a ho but really over that long of a time period is that a lot of people?
 
Hmm, I had to count. I think I remember all the names except for two, and I don't know if I ever knew their names....

Anyway, I am counting 15. I may have forgotten a few, but that sounds about right.

I am 36 now, lost my v card at 18. I have had one relationship that was 4 years, I have had three super long term fuck buddies and I have been married for 10 years and with my husband for 15 so between 18 and 22 or 23 I had around 14 partners. Sounds about right. Just the other day I was thinking about this....

My husband on the other hand, lost his virginity at 15 and was a total player until we got together, I think he has slept with at least a hundred women, easy. He has done well with the monogamy, though.
 
i thought you were asking for cell phone numbers....:p haha

uhhhh lost my virginity at 15, dont remember her name though
slept with probably about 6 people in the last 2 years
remember 2 of their names

last long term relationship was like a year ago lmao
easy to find a hookup, not easy to find a girl you can enjoy spending more than one night with

and naaah tacky thats not bad at all.
 
I am here to give some perspective:)

Lost my virginity (I rather chose to get rid of it): 14
Total number is somewhere between 70-80 (incl women)
I started writing my list pretty early, I could never remember all the things now.
Currently 28, longest relationship just ended (it was partly open relationship)

So. Dudette! Why would you feel like a whore if even I don't! You are allowed to have as many or as few sexual encounters as you wish! Sometimes we need a one night stand, sometimes something more, sometimes sex is last thing on our to do list.

As long as you stay safe and are doing the things that make you happy or give new experiences... Stop worrying, start enjoying;)

PS. It's smart to never give out your number:
To your mom
In party situations
To the guy you're sleeping with/dating... Just: no guys in general
To colleagues

Not that you should be ashamed but people tend to judge and bring you down and who needs this shit, right? I once got threatened with Jesus and whatnot.

So, be proud, but number is only for you to know:) (and of course us, fellow bluelighters:)
 
Male
Lost my virginity at 15 now 21 approaching 22.
Slept with 12 women.
I can remember there names. 6 were in relationships, 6 out.
In the last 2 and a half years only slept with 1 woman and she is my current partner of 1 and a half yrs.
I was sex focused in my teens but now I'm getting older, sex isn't a priority.
 
opium said:
easy to find a hookup, not easy to find a girl you can enjoy spending more than one night with

and naaah tacky thats not bad at all.
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Come on, girls are awesome! And they're everywhere. Probably you are just searching too hard/not hard enough. Or maybe you need to start slow: find a girl who you wouldn't mind spending TWO nights. Aim low:D

Actually wanted to add that most of my score happened while in university, and when I did the math I got one new partner a month was the average. Doesn't seem so bad that way, right.

But full disclosure: I am slut at heart. I like sex but I can separate it from "feellings" and "does it mean somethings". Most girls I know can't and need spiritual connection with their sex, so naturally their scores are lower. And it's okay, we're all different.
 
Roughly 70. About half were one-night things. That is 11 years of sexual activity. Several years however were monogamous.

I don't remember a lot of their names.
 
girls are awesome, thats why im straight. but after a while its too much drama.

then it gets to later on, and they want expensive things and i just want a pizza

and the mom update thing was a joke hahah im not a sick fuck
and yeah i havent been searching AT ALL. i work sleep party. thats it.

my dad even tried setting me up on eharmony cause hes afraid ive been single for too long LMAO. thats for old people. and its only been a year
 
as a female i think its harder to find a guy that wants to be in a relationship than just wants to "hook up"
and honestly my number might be a little higher i think i mentally pretend stuff didnt happen when it was a one night stand...
and as far as the number i suppose with girl on girl oral is still actual sex so i guess that adds another one or two
In the past year alone i have had 3 or 4 male partners .... 3 of which i wish hadnt happened one is my boyfriend with whom i have been faithful to for the past i dunno 8 months

wow i just reread this and my number is def closer to 30 and i guess i just feel ashamed about some of the "numbers" not the actual numerical value quite as much
 
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Yeah.. I was also trying to joke and since it seems I'm stalking you, Opium... I must give out a good vibe, I'm sure:)

But I assure you sleep-fuck-party regime was one of my favorites. Get it out of your system and maybe you start doing other stuff. Gardening maybe. Knitting... Millions of possibilities!

But. Back to topic: how can one find someone who is MINDBLOWING in bed if:
A) one him/herself hasn't learned to be mindblowing him/herself
B) doesn't have enough examples for comparison?

So... I take it as a sport and academical survey. Having sex for humanity!

Honestly. Now I will log off. Sorry for weirdness, I quite enjoyed it.
 
i think its important to note that while i think its good to have the experience of at least a few diff partners the amount of times one has had sex leads to more sexual prowess not necessarily the number of partners a person has had IMO
 
Of course! To each his own. But I myself need occasional hunting nights and occasional other things. Plus one of the important thing to remember: you can be mindblowing for one but mere meh for someone else!

Conclusion: sex stuff is difficult on so many levels. best to find a level you are comfortable and go from there.

omg. i might never stop writing gibberish. must. log. out.
 
Okay. one more thing.

Guys. Question for you. Is it only me or women usually cum so... well, at least for me its always the awkwardest moments with girls to figure out did she cum or not. Maybe I'm not lesbian enough but guys, chip in: how do you know? If girl is "the silent type"?
 
I'm a 26 year old male..

Lost virginity at.. 18?

Had sex with.. 3? Girls..

All of which were long term girlfriends.. 1 of which i am still with.
 
I lost my virginity on my 13th birthday I am currently 17 and I have had sex with 8 girls and 5 were older than me and I don't remember there names just the sex we had.
 
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