the_ketaman
Bluelighter
Ok so I went to a gay sauna for the first time the other night. It had been on my mind for quite some time but was always too scared due to HIV, rape etc Once I actually chose a venue and ventured inside I found it was quit the opposite of what I was expectinng.
I spent time in the sauna/steamroom and spa and learnt how to cruise and the guys I did play with were done with the highest level of safety. All my preconceptions are totally gone BUT I apparently chose the cleanest, most encouraging of safe sex and is cleaned very well, very regularly.
Ive been reading a lot though and ive seen that many sex venues which I will now call SOP's are nothing like what we have in australia. Many dont promotoe safe sex. Some have HIV poz nights and HIV Neg nights which is unbelievably irresponsible for any business as surely theres going to be positive people at the neg parties. Ive many of them overseas can be pretty horrible places. Sure theres probably hot guys galore but the whole bareback, unsafe sex thing is very offputting,
I heard of a story of a guy getting fucked in a sling and he got given a shot(as in IV injection) and he though it was crystal meth but it was ketamine and it knocked him out for over and hour while a plethora of men pounded him withor without a condom. He thinks he got HIV from that incident and that scares the crap out of me. Course I used meth myself and usually do when I have sex but id d never let someone else do me up especially if they didnt mix up in front of me!
What are your opinions or experiences or sex venues/SOP's?
I spent time in the sauna/steamroom and spa and learnt how to cruise and the guys I did play with were done with the highest level of safety. All my preconceptions are totally gone BUT I apparently chose the cleanest, most encouraging of safe sex and is cleaned very well, very regularly.
Ive been reading a lot though and ive seen that many sex venues which I will now call SOP's are nothing like what we have in australia. Many dont promotoe safe sex. Some have HIV poz nights and HIV Neg nights which is unbelievably irresponsible for any business as surely theres going to be positive people at the neg parties. Ive many of them overseas can be pretty horrible places. Sure theres probably hot guys galore but the whole bareback, unsafe sex thing is very offputting,
I heard of a story of a guy getting fucked in a sling and he got given a shot(as in IV injection) and he though it was crystal meth but it was ketamine and it knocked him out for over and hour while a plethora of men pounded him withor without a condom. He thinks he got HIV from that incident and that scares the crap out of me. Course I used meth myself and usually do when I have sex but id d never let someone else do me up especially if they didnt mix up in front of me!
What are your opinions or experiences or sex venues/SOP's?