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Whats Behind The Dirty Things We Say During Sex?

I usually call her my whore, my little slut, my bitch, and she seems not only fine with it, but knows it to be true and she gets even more wet.
 
A guy (or girl, I suppose) talking dirty to me makes me so hot! Not necessarily things like whore/slut/bad girl. Things more like telling me what they're going to do to me. Like, I would love someone to just send me dirty emails or something haha. Unfortunately, my last guy was kind of shy/not creative/submissive. Oh and dominance is a turn on too. I'm pretty submissive in general so it fits. To have someone hold me down...mmmmm. Not in a rapey or creepy way though.
I, on the other hand, would send my guy dirty messages on FB detailing what I was going to do to him. He loved it and would wank while reading. ;)
 
Did my post get deleted about keeping my women under control/dominating them?

Did it come off sexist or something? I swear from my experience, females enjoy nothing more than a Alpha male who controls them.......... but I guess it was deleted
 
Lysis said:
^ You had to know that was sexist and was gonna get deleted dude. :\
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Come on now Lysis, it isnt sexist at all....... its really just............. nature if ya know what I mean. Never has a female felt more comfortable and secure than when in my control. but oh well. if you like betas, then thats your thing
 
daveslaine said:
Come on now Lysis, it isnt sexist at all....... its really just............. nature if ya know what I mean. Never has a female felt more comfortable and secure than when in my control. but oh well. if you like betas, then thats your thing
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I unapproved it, not Lysis, and yes it was sexist. You really can't go around referring to women as bitches and saying they're better off under your control. Maybe you didn't mean it badly but it doesn't come off great. If you want to talk about domination, please make it clear you're only referring to sex, because it didn't sound like that at all.
Back on topic pls :)
 
Yeah dude. It's sexist as fuck and more generally , the idea of one romantic partner keeping the other under their control except with their explicit consent and option to opt out any time for any reason is detestable.

Do some girls like it? Yes. But it's not true for all of them, and often isn't 24/7.

Alpha you say? That sounds beta as fuck to me. A real bad ass doesn't oppress the weaker. They defend them and help them to be their own person. A pseudo bad ass does, because they're insecure and because they can't stand up to anyone else.

Besides, I know quite a few girls who'd drag a bayonet across your throat if you tried to control them without explicit consent, and they'd have no problem doing it either... even if they did, I'd help them with a smile on my face.
 
Alpha you say? That sounds beta as fuck to me. A real bad ass doesn't oppress the weaker. They defend them and help them to be their own person. A pseudo bad ass does, because they're insecure and because they can't stand up to anyone else.
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pretty much ^
rangrz said:
But what is it you're not supposed to do?

None of the acts in the realm of stuff which is consensual and is reasonably safe is "taboo" or "not allowed" at least by my view. But not all of it is really a turn on, and a lot of it is kind of turn off. But a lot of stuff I do is taboo by usual standards, however I don't find hot for that reason, I find it hot for other reasons that vary by the act, etc.
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totally agree.
 
I fucking KNEW it :) You n that sexy weirdo DNA - jeeez some sick shit
rangrz said:
^

Most of the more over the top/grim/ghastly/weird ones are actually just trolling.
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saw this 5 mins ago, and knew I had to post it here
 
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