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What would make you give up your drug choice

family and kids.......nothing i hate more than seeing a parent 'high' in front of their children, it angers me.

I have met a great girl and significantly reduced my wild ways for her already, but eliminating things completely is a major challenge.
 
I have no specific drug of choice although I guess I use methamphetamine the most. More negatives than positives would make me quit it. Recreationally though, my DoC is MDMA and thanks to my SSRI medication I no longer have to worry as I cant gain any effects. Cocaine and Xanax were my two biggest DoC for a long time but i lost my connection for decent coke and after suffering through benzodiazepine withdrawals I'm happy to say they're no longer in my life. Benzodiazepine addiction is so scarce among young people in Australia and I'm so glad.

Back to the point of the question as I am quite bent atm: a beautiful girl that doesn't approve/take drugs would make me give up all drugs in a heartbeat. For far too long I've been with girls who love drugs. I just want ONE that says they'll leave me if I continue use. My friends complain about this trait but I long for it.
 
Strange man..


I ditched my girlfiend whom I loved thoroughly at 16-17 to get high. What kinda kid does that to their first love?
 
Probably nothing seeing as the drugs I most commonly abuse are Cannabis and Caffeine which pose no real threat on my life. However, friends have told me to stop taking pills so often, I didn't listen and soon enough I was in bed for 2 days after a very bad experience with piperazine pills. I have since stopped taking pills and will continue to do so until some confirmed MDMA pills come my way (one can only dream).
 
The foundation of any good relationship IMO is trust and truth, no holding shit back, be up front that way you will truly see if the said person cares for you enough to stick by ur side and help you thru the shit. Lie to her/him and its the start of a downward spiral.
 
Jakeperson said:
Strange man..


I ditched my girlfiend whom I loved thoroughly at 16-17 to get high. What kinda kid does that to their first love?
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Someone who values respecting their own decisions and who knows what makes them happy. It's not a bad thing. I think it's worse if someone gives up something they enjoy, just for someone else.

I am already with my perfect partner so this is purely hypothetical, but I doubt I could ever be with someone who didn't/hadn't ever used drugs. Intelligence is so important to me and someone who completely ruled out drugs, without an intelligent reason, would be put in the 'dumb sheep' category for me. If they had a real, well thought out reason for not using, and a fairly good understanding of chemicals and their neurological effects, of course I would respect that, but that's a rare category amongst people who have never used.
 
Mark Sandman RIP of the group Morphine said it best, "I propose a toast to my self control You see it crawling helpless on the floor
Someday there'll be a cure for pain That's the day I throw my drugs away"
 
Career already forced me to give up weed about 4 years ago. Sucks big time but hey I'd rather the $.

Unavailability has forced me to give up MDMA. Dam, saying that makes me feel like law enforcement has won there.
 
footscrazy said:
Someone who values respecting their own decisions and who knows what makes them happy. It's not a bad thing. I think it's worse if someone gives up something they enjoy, just for someone else.
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Yeah, I don't regret that decision now and probably wouldn't give up for any one. Although I am happy to cut down. What made that decision so bad was that it was my first love, whom I still loved when I broke up with and we'd been together for nearly 3 years. It involved a year or so of getting over her, self-medicating, self abuse as well as developing depression due to the pure hatred I formed for myself. Now we're both better off and I am happy than I have ever been :)
 
My current DOC? replacing it with a steady flow of shards...

jokes...

Probably just to have a drug scene like there was in 'the-day'... mdma at the ready when ever you wanted to party... it was nice. Which in it self doesn't answer the initial question - but replaces the problem with a much less serious one.
 
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