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What To Do When You're Married and You Hate It. No Sex. No Intimacy. Just the Kids.

Lysis said:
OP is looking for support to continue the behavior. There is nothing in his OP that says "I feel bad for what I'm doing, and how do I fix it." Other than stop dicking the poor wife around, there is no personal attack. My observation is of the negative sort, and I don't believe in blowing rainbows up the ass of someone who is treating someone poorly.
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Harsh, but the truth is often cold and hard.

So, was the sex dynamite before y'all got married? Just a rhetorical question, really.

If your "relationship" is at a point where you have already sought women outside of the relationship, I would say at that level of betrayal it might be time to let it go.
 
man being in your shoes I would divorce so fast!! you are old fart 45 years,you wasted your life since 30.... if I was you I would start enjoying blowjobs and everything to make up for all these years

divorce.... really what you gonna do,die and think about all that shit you never had? ( or very little )
 
^ Typical American 8)

It depends on what you value. Is marriage for life? Is it non-negotiable?

Investment advice can be applied to marriage, if you like: Stay the course and filter out the noise.
 
Cohesion said:
It depends on what you value. Is marriage for life? Is it non-negotiable?

Investment advice can be applied to marriage, if you like: Stay the course and filter out the noise.
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Agree with your advice, I was in a similar position and had held the belief that marriage is non-negotiable so I took the option to filter out the noise, much better to exhaust all options before throwing in the towel unless of course your looking for a reason to end it.
 
^ You would allow someone to belittle you and cheat on you like the OP is doing to his wife all for the sake of "sticking it out?" Sad.
 
I think OP should definately tell his wife that he cheated on her becose thats bad and he deserve to feel bad for doing it

second thing to tell her is that he isnt satisfied so either she better gain some sex skill or divorce

cheating is gay,be man and tell her your jimmies remain unrustled and you aint gonna let it stay that way
 
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