Rolling at home can be like a completely different drug than clubbing. I think home parties are the best! Here's how we do it at our place:
Before we drop we make a play list of music we love, and we get all our pillows and soft blankets out and have them ready in the living room. We fill a bowl full of Jolly Ranchers or other flavourful, sweet and tart hard candies. Massage oil is never far away. We make sure the house is nice, clean and smells fresh. We think of everything that might distract us or take away from our high, and we deal with that whether it's just housekeeping or having the bills paid or whatever else might be considered mental, emotional or physical clutter.
A few hours after a light supper we drop our pills and then while we're waiting for it to kick in we place a lot of votive candles around the place using glass candle holders and putting them where there's no chance that anything could catch fire. We put on some light, smooth trance music and sit around and chat, and then at some magic moment it all starts to come together.
Every time is a bit different, but there's almost always elements of dancing, great music, wonderful conversation, long comfortable silences, cuddles, touch, massage, deep connection and conversation, sharing fears and dreams. There are even times these gatherings can take a turn to the sensual or erotic. What often makes it so special is that you are with people you know and like / love and you are in control of the surroundings. It's a perfect combo.
I must say that after the first few years of only using E at a club I was worried it might be boring and dull to use it at home, but it only took one or two times for me trying it for it to become one of the ways that I think E shines the most. It's definitely more mellow and chilled without that added extra kick of all the flashing lights and pounding music, but damn it feels so good!