StoneHappyMonday
Bluelighter
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My slippers are black. That's quite Gothy isn't it? Am I a Goth? Emerging New Goth?
You mean their personal style in the way they dress like other members of the group?
) and painted me nails. However, I also got lumped in with the hippies for also being fond of bright colours, wacky prints and having long hair. Also got lumped in with the metallers/"grebos" due to a fondness for leather jackets (but always thought that a tenuous link at best).
no, you're not a Goth, you're just trying to be funny.My slippers are black. That's quite Gothy isn't it? Am I a Goth? Emerging New Goth?
^ glad you joined in![]()
As I said, kinda loosely "categorise"
And I don't think it's a load of old wank, people gravitate towards people they assume they have something in common with; clothing, hair etc are the first impression and therefore the first insight into one's character.
People judge by the cover, it's a fact.

I just wear what I'm given.
Nail/head.
This was one of those eternal college-era conversations that got pretty heated at times. Never did understand it. Each lil group professes to be all about "individuality" and "self-expression" whilst simulataneously all dressing alike, listening to the same music and arbitrarily hating their traditional "enemy" group without ever having actually interracted with them thus engaging in the mortal sin they all blame each other for doing without once looking in the mirror. Such a load of old wank.
Fantastic read - I recommend it highlyA passage of "Watching The English" by Kate Fox said:... Under the microscope, our much-vaunted eccentricity is not quite as admirably individual, original and creative as we might wish. Most of what passes for English sartorial eccentricity turns out, on closer inspection, to be rather sheep-like conformity.
But still - we do at least appreciate and value originality, and we can take some pride in the collective eccentricity of our street-fashions.
We are at our best when we are 'in uniform' but rebelling just slightly against it, refusing to take ourselves too seriously, indulging that peculiarly English talent for self-deprecating humour. We may lack the sartorial fluency of other nations, and our dress sense may be laughable, but fortunately we have a sense of humour, so we can always laugh at ourselves.
people do stuff they shouldn't all the time! Doesn't mean it doesn't happen.They do but are wrong to do so. People just don't fit so snugly into moulds like that. Not people worth knowing anyway. I just don't identify with any particular defined social group and never have. I value actual individuality too highly to besmirch it that way. Which probably makes me a hipster wanker or summat :D
(just to make clear - i am not a hipster)
(but am a wanker)
Back when such things seemed to matter to the people around me I tended to get on best with goths, ravers, hippies, crusties and grebos, I suppose. I struggle with tracksuits and trainers but has been demonstrated to me since that they're not all bellends.
My boyfriend wears my underwear all the time, it's proper sexyI wear womens underwear, I find it provides me with superior scrotal support.
Can we please delete the thread? It's been taken too seriously. Plus no fucker knows the song.

On reflection I probably joined Max's moaning old git some years back ....as did SHM
Can we please delete the thread? It's been taken too seriously. Plus no fucker knows the song.
Oi. Fuck off. I'm a Gothic.

My boyfriend wears my underwear all the time, it's proper sexy
Oi. Fuck off. I'm a Gothic.
OP- tis your thread you can wind it up any time you like
