I’m having a problem with a ex, and I love this girl. We started talking back in December and became a couple on her birthday in March. She fell for me real quick and said the “L” word to me two months after we became a couple. Then we started to fight about what I thought was little things, her on the other hand thought were big things. She’d get upset with when she would text me asking to go for dinner but would already have plans and I wouldn’t respond with a “well let’s hangout after”. So she started thinking I never wanted to be with her. When I really did. Then we’d make plans a day or two later. Little after that I broke it off with her cause I didn’t like the fighting, and thought it wasn’t gonna change. When I broke it off she looked like I crushed her heart. So emotional , asking why are you doing this to me and she wanted to be with me. Little over a week later I started missing her as a person and the good times we had so I contacted her asking if she’d like to hangout with me for the day. She loves the zoo so I took her to one then had lunch out in Boston. During the day she reached for my hand to hold it. We had a good day. Then on the ride home later in the day she asked me to join her to a family cookout. I declined saying it would feel awkward for me since we are not together and that it was the first time seeing her after I broke it off. She got upset about that. Then the fighting came again about her not thinking I didn’t want her around. So she’d stop talking to me for a week. I said I can change and I thought I was spending a lot of time with her until recently. We went to a resturant with a few of our friends had a good time then later went back to her house. Two days later she got upset again cause I was cooking dinner for my family and she wanted to do something . Granted yes I should of invited her of done something after. Another week goes by of no talking, now she says we’re done and she hates the way I treat her. And that she works at a compony so she’s always on the computer so I would always send Facebook messages saying how I “missed her”. Important things she didn’t want to talk about in a message. A week later of no contact I sent her flowers to her work. Then messaged her if she got them. I got only a “yes” then “stop spending money one me”
I asked why and said it’s cause I missed her and wanted her back. She got mad and ended up blocking me on Facebook and saying “good bye” and “I hope you find happiness”. Now a week later a buddy told me that they were all having dinner at her place with her roommates and her ex bf was there. Granted he lives 2 hours away and cheated on her when they were together. I just don’t understand why she’s treating me like this. I’d never cheat. Please help! I realized I’ve fallen in live with her and said that to her weeks before the breaks up.
I’d do anything to change and want her back, but I don’t wanna chase and lose her forever.
I asked why and said it’s cause I missed her and wanted her back. She got mad and ended up blocking me on Facebook and saying “good bye” and “I hope you find happiness”. Now a week later a buddy told me that they were all having dinner at her place with her roommates and her ex bf was there. Granted he lives 2 hours away and cheated on her when they were together. I just don’t understand why she’s treating me like this. I’d never cheat. Please help! I realized I’ve fallen in live with her and said that to her weeks before the breaks up.
I’d do anything to change and want her back, but I don’t wanna chase and lose her forever.
