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What should I do. I want to try to get her back.

Andrew508

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So my gf broke it off with me a 3 weeks ago because I wasn't around her as much as she needed. We'd fight a lot about it. Me saying I'm around a lot and doing the best I can. Broughte back 3 times. But recently maybe she just got tired of it. She really is in love with me and told me 2 months into being together. She'd also get emotional when we fought, like she wanted to be with me. Recently my mother and her messages each other. ( My mother loved her after me bringing her around to meet her multiple times). She told my other we broke up cause I wasn't around as much as she wanted me to, and that "he's a really great guy that will find a girl that's less needy as her."
My mother told her about my past and how bad I dealt with a divorce when I was younger and other things blah blah. She told my mother that she feels awful, I'm assuming about what she read. My mother thinks if I think this in the one for me to keep trying, and to send a message just saying "thinking of you and wanted to say hi see how things are going" nothing mushy.
Is this that way to go after what just happened? After over 3 weeks I really think this is the girl for me. And trying to change for her. What should I do?
 
my girl broke up with me yesterday because i was upset i dont get to see her much anymore because she has a kid. we are talking today but i feel she is mad and its probably over. idk if i will try to get her back or not. but if u want your ex back, go get her.
 
I can't say with any certainty that what I feel now, two years after the break up and still chasing, is a reflection of true change or regret.. I too was a neglectful boyfriend and I took our bond for granted, assuming that nothing could shake us after 5 years together.

but I still want her back, and she is still in my life- if you want it, then prove it. (:
 
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