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What men really think about women's bodies

queenbee1127

queenbee1127

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Honest opinions on women's bodies - cellulite, stretch marks, jiggly bits - do you notice them? If so, do they affect your attraction to that woman?

I've read several items lately indicating that men don't notice these things, and are so preoccupied with getting/seeing you naked that they never cross their mind. Just curious.
 
When a woman says shes gained weight and its noticable i tend to like the bigger version better. Big butts and curves are attratictve imo
 
Yes, I notice those things. But looking at a woman as a whole their relevance is rather small. I completely ignore them during sex because my horny mind seems to ignore everything but pleasure coming from the act itself. I think that a lot of women greatly overestimate the importance of their physical imperfections.
 
I notice those things. But if a woman takes care of herself physically, and is confident in and out of bed, then she's sexy to me regardless of imperfections.
 
I actually find women more attractive when they have some defects like cellulite, a bigger nose, etc. etc.

Particular defects on a woman brings out her personality. You gals should just embrace your beauty & be proud of it.

It's the insecurity that becomes unattractive.
 
The vast majority of guys would prefer beautiful women, all other things being equal - if they had a choice .

Most guys don't have their choice of any girl, so good hygiene and a sexy personality is enough for a reasonably attractive woman to get a man they like.
 
if you look close enough, even the most beautiful appearing people have faults. no one is perfect (except me). imperfections are points of interest, that give a person character, and individuality. most guys don't really want a plastic perfect woman.
 
If you have a few flaws, most guys will hardly even notice. Yeah there are things almost everyone is insecure about. That's life. Plus, don't you think the guy is going to have his own flaws? Of course... because of everyone does! It's okay! Be confident :)
 
I am sure all men are different, however this should answer the question for everyone. All men have certain parts of the female body they like more then others. These parts are very noticed. If a man loves breasts and a female has breasts with stretch marks or defects, he will definitely notice and it could matter. The only thing that changes how much defects matter is love. If the same man truly loves a female with defects on her breasts then her breasts will look perfect and any defects will not matter.
 
Fortunately not everyone is attracted to the same thing. If they were no one would be fucking I suppose. Personally I'm not really into the whole model look. I like a woman with some curves and meat on her bones. But as they say looks are only superficial. It sounds cliche but at least to me personality trumps everything else anyways. The only thing I am jaded in I guess is big tits lol.
 
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Okay you all can do your eye rolls, or our yeah yeah yeahs if you want to but here are my thoughts. The female body is a work of art, everything is where its at for a reason. Kat Williams said stretch marks don't matter because that means if a woman has stretch marks she was big then got little or she was little and got big. I have moments when me and my wife are alone in the bed and I just want to look at her body. I literally want to kiss and or lick each and every part. A womans body amazes me, the placement of the breasts the length of the legs, all of it. So no stuff like that doesn't matter to me, because I don't focus on one individual thing I look at the whole picture, which a womans body is a work of art, but when you love the woman you are with its is even more beautiful.
 
As long as she's not overweight.. everything else doesn't bother me, but i can't respect someone who doesn't take care of themselves physically.
 
malakaix said:
As long as she's not overweight.. everything else doesn't bother me, but i can't respect someone who doesn't take care of themselves physically.
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What is overweight to you? Just curious. Are you talking rolls and obvious obesity or do you mean anyone who is clinically considered "overweight" even if they carry that weight in an attractive way?

This thread wasn't meant to reflect any kind of insecurity about my own body, btw, I just wanted honest opinions. I have cellulite and stretch marks and the man I'm with has told me how he loves my body.
 
it's about the whole package, every individual woman has their own ideal weight where their body looks the best that it can. for some its heavier than others. it's really impossible to generalize imo.
 
Skinny women look good but fat women feel good.

Jiggly bits sound like some kind of gelatin based confectionery.
 
queenbee1127 said:
Are you talking rolls and obvious obesity or do you mean anyone who is clinically considered "overweight" even if they carry that weight in an attractive way?
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Both. I don't really know what 'carrying that weight in an attractive way' means.. that's subjective. Im physically fit and i like to stay in shape.. im attracted to people who also share this same mentality; it's what i'm attracted too, just like some men are attracted to larger women.
 
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