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What makes bad sex so bad?

KoreyS

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This thread is geared more towards the females, but guys feel free to speak about bad sexual experiences and why they were bad in the first place.

When girls say "that sex/ guy was so bad in bed" I always wonder what caused it. What makes it so bad? Provided they had an average-large penis, I can't think of what could possibly make it that bad as some people describe it. Obviously everybodies sexual preferences vary when it comes to rough sex or "love-making" or whatever, but why so bad? The only thing I can think of is that I know some guys literally lack any ability to thrust their hips at all. I've seen a few amateur cuckold porn videos where the dude is fucking the other dudes wife or whatever and he mounts her in missionary and just lies there. I always think he's starting off gentle and about to work his way up to pounding her but he literally just lies there the whole time kissing her or rubbing her without going in and out at all lol. Is this what usually happens when you guys have "bad sex"?

In the past when you had really bad sex, what was it specifically that caused it to be bad?
 
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1. Not lasting long enough for me to get any kind of pleasure from it
2. The guy being really selfish and only taking care of his needs. 1 & 2 sometimes go together.
3. If he's got a fetish that I'm not into and won't stop insisting on us doing it. A guy I slept with once had a piss fetish, which I really don't, and would NOT stop asking me. It was a huge turn off after a while.
4. Clumsiness/bad technique.

I guess that pretty much covers it...
 
i'm a guy but i'd assume for a girl one example of bad sex would be a guy just shoving it in and going hard right away and making it hurt the girl more then she enjoys it. As a guy though, i've been in situations where the girls on top and doesn't really move much just kind of moves an inch up and down with it in, that I find sucks or if there going down and drag there teeth xP
 
i'm a guy but i'd assume for a girl one example of bad sex would be a guy just shoving it in and going hard right away and making it hurt the girl more then she enjoys it. As a guy though, i've been in situations where the girls on top and doesn't really move much just kind of moves an inch up and down with it in, that I find sucks or if there going down and drag there teeth xP

What about when she rides you and instead of going up and down (in and out) she moves back and forth or to the sides like she's working a joystick lol
 
To be honest, it's better than her going up and down while on top really really wildly and then it slips out and she accidentally comes crashing down on your erect phallus and bending it
 
If it slips out she's either not used to how small it is (not trying to offend) or she doesn't know what she's doing, or of course shes heavily intoxicated :P
 
lol I'm only kidding bro. It has actually happened to me probably once or twice a long time ago. I think it was more due to her just being so vigorous with it. I think it's pretty common for any dick size to slip out every now and then during sex
 
people who dont know when too much pressure is being applied. basically lack of attention paid to your reaction and just carrying on doing things that aren't working.

blowjobs involving teeth...
 
Well since from what I gather, you're a straight guy, I'd suppose so yes, hahah.

But back on topic, basically anyone who doesn't consider what the other person wants.
 
sometimes when a girl that you with, will not even explore the experience of me giving her head, however must trouble it has been for her in the past and then it just get's put aside and a wham bam thank you mam happens instead which we both seen to enjoy but I can't help feeling the wham bam thank you mam would be so much more pleasurable for her after the oral satisfaction. Good sex is had but not super great as I always aim to please and I obviously haven't pleased to the maximum amount if she hasn't had an orgasm
 
just because there is a penis doesn't mean it will be pleasurable.
I dislike it when guys are sloppy kissers (thats the first biggest turn off) and if they're too eager. And try to shove their fingers in my v with no grace whatsoever when they see that their penile isn't getting me off.
 
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