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what is the FIRST thing you look at

What's this hand business? I don't get it.

Apart from that, pretty predictable answers... girls = eyes. Guys = asses. Yup. Just as I thought. Another reason to get paranoid every time I walk away from a guy :D

Anyway who am I to break the trend.... eyes all the way. ;)
 
Eyes... I make people very uncomfortable because when I talk to anyone I stare directly into their eyes. I don't know why people turn away, looking directly into someones eyes and speaking is VERY powerful IMO.
 
I do it to anybody I'm talking to, but not in an intimidating way... I just naturally look at there eyes, it seems to make everything you/they say has much more meaning... or it seems like it.

I have yet to find somebody that can comfortably look back into my eyes and have a conversation with me... that'll be the day :) Don't think I go around just death staring people, 99% of the time people don't even notice I'm looking at there eyes because they face away when they speak.
 
From the front: eyes, nose, lips, breasts, abs
From the back: waist, hips, ass, and legs (I can not abide cellulite)
 
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Chubba75 said:
Eyes... I make people very uncomfortable because when I talk to anyone I stare directly into their eyes. I don't know why people turn away, looking directly into someones eyes and speaking is VERY powerful IMO.

yeah i try to do this too...i can lie staring directly at the eyeballs. (perfected it with the rents! LOL) But of course i never lie unless absolutely necessary 8) . Heres a trick: if you're uncomfortable looking someone straight at his/her eye when talking to you, try staring at the point directly between the eyes, above the nosebridge. Works like a charm!!!! Just dont get all crosseyed if it takes too long~=D
 
Eyes and lips. Basically the face as a package. Also hands. My eyes generally wander to the rest of the body after I've sussed out their face ;)
 
I go straight for the eyes, not staring just a quick little glance. It basically tells me most of what I need to know about how that person's going to act, whether I even want to talk to them.

After that it's face, stomach, legs, breasts, I guess in that order. Haven't made a mental catalogue really.
 
I think it's different for each guy. there's usually something that catches your attention, like pretty eyes or nice hair, whatever. there's nothing general for every guy you scan. and if I get close enough, their smell is really important too, don't you think?
 
Hypnotik1 said:
This is prob cheating or whatever but i dont know if i can say theres a 'certain' thing i always look for....

Its the total package for me......its how the face and rest of the body compliment each other plus how she dresses and the way she carries herself. Theres a lot of body language to read also that u can tell alot about a person.....

There may be one single thing that i really like about a girl but then there could be something that i dont.......

So its the total package.....know what i mean??


Same here.
 
from the front?

the porportion of the breasts to the torso they are attatched to.

from the back?

the porportion of the ass to the small of the back and the tops of the thighs
 
I am extreamly attracted to sholders. They have to be nice but no overly muscular. Just right=)
 
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