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what does your sig-o think of you being on bluelight?

iheartthisthread

iheartthisthread

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If this has been asked, forgive me and please merge it... I couldn`t find it....
Do you have a signifigant other? Do they know you are on here? Maybe they have an account too. Do they get mad at you for spending too much time on here? Do they think it`s a good thing? Just wondering...
 
my girlfriend doesn't know that i post here. it isn't a big deal, and i haven't purposefully not told her (we don't live together, so we don't share absolutely everything) but i prefer not to tell real-life friends my username, as i am more open about drug use on bluelight than i am in 'real life'.
 
She thinks it's very cool. She posts here too and is very big on e-communities.

We take a fair few RCs. Really important to give back as much information as we can.

6-APB FTW!!!
 
My GF likes what I do here but she doesn't have an account that I know about.... but she's not into online forums, I don't think she ever has been. However in contrast, I've been active on a good amount of forums since 28k dial-up.

She knows all about Bluelight though like the mission, the BLUA, Harm Reduction & More. She uses Bluelight as a source for a different, possibly more unbiased perspective on harm reduction. Usually she'll start on Google and end up on a thread on BL.


Hey OP... what does your SO think about BL?
 
we both have accounts here and go through phases of posting and lapses of not posting much/if at all.

ive never asked if my interaction on the board bothers him (and assume that due to it being unmentioned, isnt an issue at all).

i adore reading his posts and the fact that we can cross reference information between one another when a topic of common interest arises.

respectfully, i wouldnt participate in threads such as the nudie thread in the lounge; but have no great desire to anyways, so its no loss.

...kytnism...:|
 
tricomb... She knows about forums from my past... We met on myspace ( how cute ) she also knows i frequent garden forums on the web... Doesn`t know i`m on this particular site though...
 
Yeah, he knows. He would rather me educate myself on here than just go randomly take shit without reading up, or whatever. There's no issues whatsoever.
 
my husband knows and doesn't care. he has an account on here but rarely posts. i don't think he cares about me posting here, it doesn't detract from our time together or anything like that.
 
Yeah my fiance knows i go on BL ^.^ i have no idea his opnion on it so i cant say though...just i do know he hates it if i talk about our personal issues or etc.
 
All of my SOs have/will know. I'm a forum junkie. LOL The only thing that makes it difficult is sometimes I want to vent or talk about it on SLR and I can't. I just post in the private forum. I'm not sure what they think of it. Usually, they think it's lame, but it's something I like and I was doing before they came around, so they don't have a choice in the matter. :)
 
My boyfriend knows I'm on here. He doesn't have an account but he uses BL often to get info about drugs. He posts on another forum somewhat similar to BL (but it isn't as awesome :P )
 
she doesnt get it

she thinks its odd

niether one of us has a facebook and she says its practically the same thing

i dont think it is but she does

oh well, she is kool bout me and my BL time
 
Pretty much everyone in my life whos important to me knows im a bluelighter. My so's all knew and know im a bluelighter and dont mind it (one got bothered how i flirt here but they seemed to get over it). Bluelight (and my recovery which is largely ties to TDS and SLR) always came first, as without the help of BL in my recovery, nothing else is possible. I love bluelight and my fellow bluelighters <3
 
My hubby has absolutely no idea I am on here at all. I won't tell him. I only get on my phone and delete the history frequently.

He dosent allow me to have social networking accounts because he doesn't like me talking to guys. Even the ones I grew up with and never messed around with. He thinks someone will take me away from him. Im like ok what ever. If we do break up for good I don't want a boyfriend. I want to be single. Rant/

Anyways no. If he found out y'all would probably never hear from me again. :(
 
Zoeylynn said:
My hubby has absolutely no idea I am on here at all. I won't tell him. I only get on my phone and delete the history frequently.

He dosent allow me to have social networking accounts because he doesn't like me talking to guys. Even the ones I grew up with and never messed around with. He thinks someone will take me away from him. Im like ok what ever. If we do break up for good I don't want a boyfriend. I want to be single. Rant/

Anyways no. If he found out y'all would probably never hear from me again. :(
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The hell? why be with someone so insecure..?
 
Fucking hell, Zoey - that sounds like all kinds of toxic :( He doesn't allow you? :\

As for me - my husband is also a bluelighter, and so there is absolutely no issue. I post more than he does now (he never actually posts here any more), but i don't post much either nowadays.
 
Zoeylynn said:
My hubby has absolutely no idea I am on here at all. I won't tell him. I only get on my phone and delete the history frequently.

He dosent allow me to have social networking accounts because he doesn't like me talking to guys. Even the ones I grew up with and never messed around with. He thinks someone will take me away from him. Im like ok what ever. If we do break up for good I don't want a boyfriend. I want to be single. Rant/

Anyways no. If he found out y'all would probably never hear from me again. :(
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Wow. That is terrible.
 
No, that is not really his business, but I don't see why it would matter. If someone has no problem with drugs they are probably ok with that. Would also be kind of stupid, in the sense that you might reveal information you would like to keep private. On the other hand, I don't cruise Craigslist looking for other guys to fuck, unlike him. It's easy to be with someone so immoral.
 
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