I don't blame anyone but myself for my previous addictions. I made the choice. I used the drug(s). No one strapped me down and forced me to get high. My choices, my consequences.
However, the topic is "what" do you blame for your addiction. If I could blame something, I would blame my addictive personality I guess? But iunno that just seems fucking whack.
I feel you on that addictive personality bullshit. It's a cop out. Even sober people have an addictive personality. We're naturally wired to do things that feel good hello haha. And of course if something feels good, we're gon want to repeat that experience. Some people are addicted to shit like exercising and not eating. Others are addicted to their morning cup of coffee. Mine jus happens to be frowned upon by society. Oh yeah and it's also ruining my life and my relationships with other people.