QT_McWhiskers
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Oct 16, 2010
- Messages
- 4
32 male on okcupid...um, Australian if it helps.
I have found a really appealing and promising lady and have chatted with her for a few days, and yesterday on chat we exchanged some youtube vid links, and she's linked me to an article her friend wrote about her...
But more of the initiative is coming from me, I write way more than she does, though she does write substantially more than other girls I've messaged; or attempted to start convos with.
A guy who is too enthusiastic and too verbose in the dating site world is seriously hamstringing himself IMO by being that way...but that's just who I am. I hate writing two lines of an email, I have other thoughts I'd like to put on there, so it grows to 2/3 paragraphs. Ok, editing is fine, but I don't want to pretend to be cooler than I am.
I don't want to ask her any more silly questions about how work was, or follow up stuff about something she wrote she liked on her profile...and I don't want to Mug Myself either by just spraying a bunch of overly-enthusiastic verbal-jizz her way about who I am.
What can I do? I want to be interesting to her but not demanding or needy.
Are there any websites that are like co-op little get-to-know-you games that people can play on, that I might be able to send her a link to?
What do you Blue and Green Lighters do to not let dating site opportunities die in embryo?
Last: it's too early to ask to meet...I have a whole bunch of house-moving and job-seeking I need to do in the next couple of weeks. And she works graveyard shifts.
I have found a really appealing and promising lady and have chatted with her for a few days, and yesterday on chat we exchanged some youtube vid links, and she's linked me to an article her friend wrote about her...
But more of the initiative is coming from me, I write way more than she does, though she does write substantially more than other girls I've messaged; or attempted to start convos with.
A guy who is too enthusiastic and too verbose in the dating site world is seriously hamstringing himself IMO by being that way...but that's just who I am. I hate writing two lines of an email, I have other thoughts I'd like to put on there, so it grows to 2/3 paragraphs. Ok, editing is fine, but I don't want to pretend to be cooler than I am.
I don't want to ask her any more silly questions about how work was, or follow up stuff about something she wrote she liked on her profile...and I don't want to Mug Myself either by just spraying a bunch of overly-enthusiastic verbal-jizz her way about who I am.
What can I do? I want to be interesting to her but not demanding or needy.
Are there any websites that are like co-op little get-to-know-you games that people can play on, that I might be able to send her a link to?
What do you Blue and Green Lighters do to not let dating site opportunities die in embryo?
Last: it's too early to ask to meet...I have a whole bunch of house-moving and job-seeking I need to do in the next couple of weeks. And she works graveyard shifts.