They both serve different purposes.
I'd like to show a virgin a nice hard pounding. Usually when i have sex i don't even like to be rode because i like to do it my way, flip them on their back, back onto their stomach, etc. Sometimes i get soft when there isn't enough rough hard friction. I also think there's something hot about someone not knowing how to suck dick, and then just throat fucking them instead. But on the other hand, i would like someone more experienced if, say, i had a long day at work and needed someone who knew how to get me off just as much as i knew how to get them off. Or, someone who could take control and "dominate" me in bed.
I go both ways in regards to sadism and masochism. And i think virgins and more experienced women easily fit those roles on their own.
When it comes to a lot of things in life.. i just go both ways. I am constantly in the gray area because i am not so attached to any one idea or person.
Even my hobbies eventually all change. My jobs, my relationships.. it excites me to try new things and spice it up.