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Weed and serious relationships?

papasomni said:
also try to remember what she said about you acting out in front of her friends. I think that was the big thing to her. I don't know how you act so I really can't say. But, it seemed to be the main point of her side of the story. You might want to think about that. A good relationship is worth making an effort to sustain. They don't come easy.
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I understand why the others are not in the same mind frame. Everyone is drinking, only me smoking.

So you see, different mind frame. I value what she says, and honest to God I want to make her happy.

But you know when you smoke weed, you can't control it, and I just be myself. Now you really think that I'm acting like an idiot, maybe just from a different point of view.

I know how to act in a Party, just sucks no one smokes with me, but I know some people that are coming to the next party and they like to smoke as well, so I will show them the vap, I have a feeling that they will enjoy what I have learned throught Bluelight.


I give all the Credit to Swift Serenety, to show me the way for a new and better method of smoking.

And the best is that its a healthy High, smokeless, makes me feel better about it.
 
thanks! xDD

and i really dont understand why your girlfriend is tripping because you act how you do around her friend, when they are all drinking. im pretty sure they dont care much at all
 
ime, if you give into a demand like this, the things she wants from you will just keep piling up...

i think it is a very unfair situation, because her reasons are things like "you're a different person when you smoke." because these are her reasons, there is no way that you guys can come to happy medium on this issue--you either give in 100% or she complains so much that you won't bother smoking, so you won't have to hear her complain. it's not a situation where following other solutions (like a vape, etc), will really help you, because if you she's a jealous person like you say, then i'd bet anything that she's simply jealous that you like weed, and the other things she's said to you(don't like the smell, etc.) are just her attempts to sound less petty.

an ex gf would complain about me loving weed more than her. any person who's that jealous is inevitably exhausting to date.
 
there's caving in to demands, and then there is realizing that the one making those demands does so because they want to see a better you. often times the girlfriend/wife will be right when she bitches and nags, they just want to see their guy reach his true potential instead of wasting it.

before you get high, think about it. if your day hasn't worn you out then instead of getting high you could consider tackling home improvement projects, or perhaps taking a course of study in your free time. get high less so you can make time to better yourself is all that i'm saying. you may miss being stoned off yer ass as much, but remember that every little thing you do to better yourself will make you more attractive to your girl and that will in turn upgrade your sex life :)
 
caius said:
ime, if you give into a demand like this, the things she wants from you will just keep piling up...

i think it is a very unfair situation, because her reasons are things like "you're a different person when you smoke." because these are her reasons, there is no way that you guys can come to happy medium on this issue--you either give in 100% or she complains so much that you won't bother smoking, so you won't have to hear her complain. it's not a situation where following other solutions (like a vape, etc), will really help you, because if you she's a jealous person like you say, then i'd bet anything that she's simply jealous that you like weed, and the other things she's said to you(don't like the smell, etc.) are just her attempts to sound less petty.

an ex gf would complain about me loving weed more than her. any person who's that jealous is inevitably exhausting to date.
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^^^^^ Amen To That

I'm in a living /breathing jealous relationship.
 
thujone said:
there's caving in to demands, and then there is realizing that the one making those demands does so because they want to see a better you. often times the girlfriend/wife will be right when she bitches and nags, they just want to see their guy reach his true potential instead of wasting it.

before you get high, think about it. if your day hasn't worn you out then instead of getting high you could consider tackling home improvement projects, or perhaps taking a course of study in your free time. get high less so you can make time to better yourself is all that i'm saying. you may miss being stoned off yer ass as much, but remember that every little thing you do to better yourself will make you more attractive to your girl and that will in turn upgrade your sex life :)
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What makes you think that I don't improve myself, Weed has made my mind expand alot, made me see, what many times I was blind to.

I believe theres a time for everything, and for me I love to chill, That does not mean I'm wasting my time.

Even thought I smoke weed, I do everything around the house, and do not lack on responsability because of smoking.

The point is that I'm not becoming less attractive to my gf, but maybe more attractive to other girls, thats why she becomes so insecure about herself, even thought she has been insecure caused by her past relationships.


Maybe if your a teenager and smoke weed, that maybe a problem handling many aspects of your life that is still growing.

I'm 30, and I have been blind for about 20 years I would say, since I started to smoke weed, I have been less selfish, more caring, and I have taken initiative in many things in life, that I was intimidated for.

Yes, I have changed, my mind has expanded and I'm not blind anymore. I have seen the truth through my experience in smoking weed.
 
Very nice vapo mang, specially for a home made one :D.

I agree with everyone else and you, the girlfriend is quite jealous. Just ask her to stop smoking cigs and you'll stop smoking weed, I doubt she'll quit cigs xD
 
yeah exact same bong my friend has haha, nice little thing! though his is a lot dirtier :(

Liking the xbox 360 as well!
 
ControlFreak said:
^^ damright, Now you know that sometimes I feel alot of preassure of her. but I also don't like when she smokes cigs. she does it, and prefer if she smoked with me weed. but she can't, cause piss test at work.

Man I think that is only the 1st of December they are having, after that should be fine, cause this guy that works with her, will smoke with me at Christmas Party on the 12th of December. So she should be alright to smoke with me.
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Sidetrack:

While you're partying on the 12th, I'll be in my local courthouse watching a friend get up to 90 years in prison. Burn one down for him, brutha.
 
what job in the uk does she have that has random drug tests? police? my god what is the world coming to!?!
and not that i'm saying your wrong at all...but maybe just think about it from her point of view, imagine if it was you that had the drug tests at work so couldn't smoke but she could, on your "chill" days would you really want to watch her smoke knowing that you couldnt? its a tricky thing and i think most people would be a little offish at that but i dont know. Like i know if it were me and smoking weed was a thing you did 'together' and that was taken away from her it might bum her out a bit and cause her to nag?
but also i know how annoying it is when people nag, i don't think your at all wrong to smoke weed when shes there, i just felt her side was maybe a little under-represented!
-Poppy x
 
PurplePoppy said:
what job in the uk does she have that has random drug tests? police? my god what is the world coming to!?!
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She works with autistic children, She is a shift leader in her Unit, and they just started doing that.

Reason is that the funds to pay for every staff, Tax payers Money, 2nd reason each child gets £200.000.00, they want to find out the Uk Government if the money that is payed out from the Tax Payers money is accounted for.

Its pretty stupid, I'm glad they don't drug test me at work.

I'm going to a Huge Party in March, Trance energy in Holland. I will be taking xtc/mdma, if my gf would take with me, how long would be out of her sistem, for clean drug test result?
 
That sucks for you man. Have you really sat down and tried to talk to her about it? Was she a stoner before getting tested at work? I had 2 girlfriends in my life that gave me shit about smoking herb, but I was young and they weren't serious so I just continued to smoke as I saw fit. Since then I won't get into a relationship with someone that doesn't smoke herb. I'm sure some people will say that's probably a stupid thing, but it's never been an issue. The way I look at it is, I'm a pot smoked and probably will be my entire life. I don't feel anyone should give me shit about it. And on top of that, although I'm single now, when I am in a relationship I really enjoy lounging around getting stoned with my gf.

Anyways, good luck with your situation.
 
That really sucks. I'm a 'Leo' girl, and my 'Libra' boyfriend pretty much got me into smoking weed... I dont have any problem with him smoking it, and vice versa. We've been together for almost two years...

It's a pretty touchy thing with what you're dealing with... Cause unless you really adore your weed, you cant exactly turn around to her and say 'If you dont like it, leave' kinda thing. I wish I could give you an answer, or hell, even some pointers. But I cant think of anything... I just wish you the best of luck. Hope things dont get bad over such an ordeal.
 
Buy a vaporizer don't make one. And buy a good one, its a good investment and it will last a long time with the right care. Make sure you get one with a temperature setting on it.

I wouldn't change for a girl. Don't budge an inch. The next thing she won't like your haircut and the clothes you wear and you'll be changing them.

Girls are cunts!:P
 
ControlFreak said:
I'm going to a Huge Party in March, Trance energy in Holland. I will be taking xtc/mdma, if my gf would take with me, how long would be out of her sistem, for clean drug test result?
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MDMA remains in your system for 2-3 days assuming your pills are pure and don't contain any adulterants.
 
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