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My First Vaporizer

What do you guys /gals think?

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WOW

all I have to say is WOW, I gave two hits, the weed feels more in the troat, but was much stronger than the Bong, I can't even smoke more.

I see what your saying about it last longer. who ever thought about this is a genius.
 
English is not my first language

I speak Portuguese,

and I really was never good in writting my thoughts in paper, so if you can understand my situation, or been in the same situation as me, maybe you know the feeling.

She doesn't say she is going to leave me or anything, but she gripes about it all the time.

she comes from work, and the first thing she says, its stinks off weed. and she was cool about the smell before, is just that I'm dealing with jealousy.

"If I can't you won't either type of Policy", thats my situtation

but maybe she will be happy, that I made a Vaporizer out of a bulb, saved money on a vapo and weed.

Hope she will be cool about it.
 
well now 'she' is writting. That has nothing to do with jealosuy, because she stoped smoking looooooooooong time ago, when david started to over use it. so she doesnt smoke because of test, she just doesnt smoke because she doesnt like it anymore and see how her bf is getting dumb with it. being idiot on the front of her friends etc.

and she is just trying a bit to slow down her bf, because he is just getting very stupid after weed and anoying and thats not only mine opinion that opinion of people around us.
 
well now thats a different story isn't it? It seems there is a small problem that needs to be worked out. Just remember that each person is seperate and don't expect them to act according to your plan. respect each other.
 
yeah dude, just don't smoke up around her...that's common courtesy really.

If you're gonna be blazed around her - vape it or eat it...
WHen she's not around BUN DAT ZOOT!! hahaha -
That situation sucks, but if ya love her, then be a man and know what you have to do.
 
ControlFreak said:
well now 'she' is writting. That has nothing to do with jealosuy, because she stoped smoking looooooooooong time ago, when david started to over use it. so she doesnt smoke because of test, she just doesnt smoke because she doesnt like it anymore and see how her bf is getting dumb with it. being idiot on the front of her friends etc.

and she is just trying a bit to slow down her bf, because he is just getting very stupid after weed and anoying and thats not only mine opinion that opinion of people around us.
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this confused me. are you writing about yourself in third person? is this his girlfriend? have you asked him to slow down?
 
That was my gf writing swift Serenety^^^^^

She read what I had typed on this forums, and decided to write her side of the story.

She is out of her mind
 
How often are you smoking? Maybe if you cut back and don't smoke around her [don't keep it from her of course] she'll get off your ass about it. My ex used to gripe about my smoking [said i acted dumb and such] but she was a total bitch anyway so that's kinda irrelavant. If you just smoke on weekends, she might be less annoyed and be okay with it.

Just my 2 cents.
 
Wow interesting thread. This is my take on it:

To control Freak's girlfriend:
You need to talk to control freak about your concerns. You are obviously concerned that he is smoking too much, being silly in front of your friends, and not as bright or quick as he used to be. According to CF, you are nagging or annoying him when you say stuff like "it smells in here". If your problem is him smoking too much, don't nag him about the smell or his breath, TELL him what the problem is.

CF:
Your girl is concerned that you are smoking too much. You need to talk to her and work out something that you can both be happy with. Maybe you cut down to 1-2 times a week, or maybe you only smoke late at night, or maybe you do not smoke when you meet up with her friends. I'd be annoyed if my GF did as you say by complaining about the smell, your breath, etc. She should talk to you instead of nag. BUT, you need to work this out and tell her how to solve the problem.

Keep us updated :) Good luck
 
Damn man thats a shitty situation with the missus is all I can say. The vape should help things out with the smell etc though.

& Also, could you post a pic of your bong...I think you have the same one as a friend of mine.
 
Jack-Bandit said:
How often are you smoking? Maybe if you cut back and don't smoke around her [don't keep it from her of course] she'll get off your ass about it. My ex used to gripe about my smoking [said i acted dumb and such] but she was a total bitch anyway so that's kinda irrelavant. If you just smoke on weekends, she might be less annoyed and be okay with it.

Just my 2 cents.
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^^^^I don't smoke everyday, only when I'm off from work, and enjoy jut kicking back a bit.

I'm not a chain smoker, but yeah is funny, she does seem to act like a biatch, If I don't do what she wants me to do.

Is my day off, I can chill, I work my ass off, and then I don't even have time to kick back.

I need to make some rulez in the house, because is getting to me.
 
Newbierock said:
Damn man thats a shitty situation with the missus is all I can say. The vape should help things out with the smell etc though.

& Also, could you post a pic of your bong...I think you have the same one as a friend of mine.
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Had similar situation, girl was fine with smoking and joined in 50% of the time but then she got some trip laid on her by her mum that weed causes depression and the skitz and all of a sudden it was either quit weed or quit her, safe to say weed won and I have no regrets.
 
ControlFreak said:
^^^^I don't smoke everyday, only when I'm off from work, and enjoy jut kicking back a bit.

I'm not a chain smoker, but yeah is funny, she does seem to act like a biatch, If I don't do what she wants me to do.

Is my day off, I can chill, I work my ass off, and then I don't even have time to kick back.

I need to make some rulez in the house, because is getting to me.
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exactly!! i should of done that when i was just as pussy whipped.. actually more. take action now or prepare to become a slave.

how do i know this? it happened to me.
 
She seems to be alright with me smoking pot, now that I have address the situation.

I made a Vapo, I compromised myself, No smoke, no smell. Happier Relationship

I told her that I would make her a nice Vapo, if she would be nice to me. So cross fingers, hope she won't be so judgemental all the time.

Girlfriend Pressure Sucks
 
also try to remember what she said about you acting out in front of her friends. I think that was the big thing to her. I don't know how you act so I really can't say. But, it seemed to be the main point of her side of the story. You might want to think about that. A good relationship is worth making an effort to sustain. They don't come easy.
 
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