Virtual Reality porn with BF

[Audrianne]

So I will start with saying that I have a very high sex drive and even though my bf and I have sex often, I still like watching porn a lot. Let me clarify I have never cheated on him or nor on any of my exes, but I have always loved playing with myself while watching porn. I even talked my bf into incorporating porn in our sex life which we did a few times. I don't have problems watching it or him watching it because for me, it's not even real. We have a great sex life as well, and include some kinky stuff in bed too. Lately I have been having this sexual fantasy of having my bf use a virtual reality gear and have him watch a virtual porn while I simulate the acts of the female porn star (while watching it in a computer in our room). Like if the female porn star is giving him a blowjob in the vr porn I will do that to him too while he has the vr gear on or if she's fucking him I will do that to him too. I have mentioned it to him a couple times if that's something he would like for us to try but both times he said no. He's reason is that he thinks him watching a VR porn may seem to real and he doesn't want to have sex with anyone else besides me. I told him I am ok with it because I know for a fact that it is not a real woman just a virtual porn. The thought of it just turns me on. Do you think he's just saying that he doesn't want to do it just to make me feel good? Is it something normal that I would like to do something like that? And how can I get my bf to say yes doing this?

 

[Bearlove]

With regular porn it is all fantasy - you see something so you project your fantasies or just get aroused by watching other people and imagining yourself in that scenario. When you start to cross over into VR then your also crossing over from watching/imagining to actually participating with another person (mentally).

I personally feel that with VR you would be replacing your partner, you would be getting fucked/fucking another person mentally.

You cannot get your BF to say yes to this - if he doesn't want it then respect his decision.

 

[ChipTrippyFox]

While sometimes it may seem unreasonable (to a woman) for the man to say no to anything sexual, it sounds a little bit like you resent him for doing so.. but I don't think he is wrong for saying no and surely a man asking this same question would get a bit more flak about pressing a sexual act their partner denied previously.

Bearlove said it quite well and honestly I don't think you should try to press the issue with your BF cause it sounds like he will just continue to say no.

I'm not sure if you're the type or not, but try to avoid getting upset about it.. I'm sure your sex life will thrive just fine as long as you don't dwell on strictly what he can (or will) do for you.

 

[Melvinberger]

This sounds like a fantastic idea!