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Useful tips (or suggestions) on how to "DEEP THROAT" better? Advice needed, please?

Ineedanswers2015

Ineedanswers2015

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Useful tips (or suggestions) on how to "DEEP THROAT" better? Advice needed, please?

Does anyone have any useful tips on how to "deep throat" more effectively?

Don't get me wrong, I am decent when it comes to blow jobs. However, I could definitely use some tips for improvement, so maybe YOU can help me?

I realize that everyone has different gag reflexes, and my gag reflexes are rather strong, which bothers me when trying to deep throat a guy.

If I had to say, my throat area is short, so maybe I will never be able to deep throat like some women?
Does that even truly matter?

Here are a few things that I have tried, which helped, but not where I'd like to be.

1. Definitely when he is sitting down and I'm knelt down in front of him (angle helps with deep throat).
2. I've heard to grasp your left hand tight, which is suppose to help with gag reflex (ah, not so much)?
3. I've tried to take it slow and let it slowly go in, but I still reach that point where I begin to gag.

I am speaking of about 8-9 inches long. :\

My gag reflex is the biggest challenge.
Please give me some feedback on what I can do?
Thank you.
 
Im a guy so i dont really know "tips" but the girl laying on her back with her head hanging off the bed (or any furniture that the guy can stand behind)is the best position for deepthroating Imo..
 
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P.o.T.u.S said:
Im a guy so i dont really know "tips" but the girl laying on her back with her head hanging off the bed (or any furniture that the guy can stand behind)is the best position for deepthroating Imo..
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That and practice is the best advice. I have known some people to use throat lozenges / sprays that can numb your throat and reduce the gag reflex. Also timing your breathing can help, feeling like your going to suffocate can make you panic and set your gag reflex going.

Did I say practice!
 
1. Definitely when he is sitting down and I'm knelt down in front of him (angle helps with deep throat)
How about having him stand on his feet while you do your job? I found that this position helps a lot. It goes straight into your mouth (imo) which gives a chance for your throat to be more 'receiving'


2. I've heard to grasp your left hand tight, which is suppose to help with gag reflex (ah, not so much)?
- Do you mean you have to squeeze your fist? I did it but then I gave up. It helps but I just couldn't. My main focus it his, not my fist. And it's kinda tiring too. Imagine having your fist squeezed for at least 15 mins..

3. I've tried to take it slow and let it slowly go in, but I still reach that point where I begin to gag.
-Like the other say, practice. I admit 8-9 inches is long. Do you watch porn? How gag is your gag? Like vomitting? If it's only a mild gag, and make your eye tears a bit, I guess it's not wrong. I also learned to not to breath while deepthroat.

Like they've mentioned earlier, practice really helps.
 
P.o.T.u.S said:
Im a guy so i dont really know "tips" but the girl laying on her back with her head hanging off the bed (or any furniture that the guy can stand behind)is the best position for deepthroating Imo..
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True that has worked better in the past.
 
Bearlove said:
That and practice is the best advice. I have known some people to use throat lozenges / sprays that can numb your throat and reduce the gag reflex. Also timing your breathing can help, feeling like your going to suffocate can make you panic and set your gag reflex going.

Did I say practice!
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Yes!
That also happens to me. I do panic and causes the gag reflex to get worse.
Practice makes perfect?
 
KidsPls said:
1. Definitely when he is sitting down and I'm knelt down in front of him (angle helps with deep throat)
How about having him stand on his feet while you do your job? I found that this position helps a lot. It goes straight into your mouth (imo) which gives a chance for your throat to be more 'receiving'


2. I've heard to grasp your left hand tight, which is suppose to help with gag reflex (ah, not so much)?
- Do you mean you have to squeeze your fist? I did it but then I gave up. It helps but I just couldn't. My main focus it his, not my fist. And it's kinda tiring too. Imagine having your fist squeezed for at least 15 mins..

3. I've tried to take it slow and let it slowly go in, but I still reach that point where I begin to gag.
-Like the other say, practice. I admit 8-9 inches is long. Do you watch porn? How gag is your gag? Like vomitting? If it's only a mild gag, and make your eye tears a bit, I guess it's not wrong. I also learned to not to breath while deepthroat.

Like they've mentioned earlier, practice really helps.
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Yes, squeeze your fist, which is aggravating and sometimes frankly hard to remember. LOL Exactly 15 min. + is tiring.
I do watch porn occasionally.
No, not vomiting, but mild mostly gagging.
Thank you.
 
They have a product in such stores as Spencer's called Deep Throat Spray. It's basically just a numbing spray that numbs the back of your throat for about 10 minutes. I'm a guy so I've never used it. But it couldn't hurt to try.
 
Dr.Hulkster said:
They have a product in such stores as Spencer's called Deep Throat Spray. It's basically just a numbing spray that numbs the back of your throat for about 10 minutes. I'm a guy so I've never used it. But it couldn't hurt to try.
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Sore throat tablets / lozenge has the same effect and a fraction of the price - position and practice is easier.
 
Well like you said OP it's always just going to depend on you and your gag reflex - although your gag reflex can be worked on, it's also a matter of practice tbh - but I find that the angle is the first most important thing, along with going in slowly and DEFINITELY not trying to continue if you feel you're going to gag. Might not end great otherwise :p sorry I don't have any better tips but like I said, I really think it's a matter of practice!
 
Pagey said:
Well like you said OP it's always just going to depend on you and your gag reflex - although your gag reflex can be worked on, it's also a matter of practice tbh - but I find that the angle is the first most important thing, along with going in slowly and DEFINITELY not trying to continue if you feel you're going to gag. Might not end great otherwise :p sorry I don't have any better tips but like I said, I really think it's a matter of practice!
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Oh no! This was helpful.
I need to not rush and just be patient and take it slow like you said.
I can do my best. :o
Thank you!
 
I've noticed and been told it's easier for girls when her and i Are 69ing. The position with the bend of my throbbing cock fits perfectly in her throat plus she is so turned on from me licking her.
 
Just force it down. Dicks that are 5" long are harder to take all the way than 7+ because they constantly hit your gag reflex.

Also, deep throat is way overrated. Focus on what your partner wants, how he reacts. and every bj Ive ever had was better as a hand/mouth combo. Some guys like fast and loose, I like slow and heavy... and drooling all over my lap/balls, along with slurping sounds, are a complete turn off. Think about it...that drool cools very quickly, now they guy has slimey cold goop all over his nads. do I like watching deep throat porn? fuck yeah! It's an awesome ability. How it actually feels is a different matter.
 
Kid Amine said:
Just force it down. Dicks that are 5" long are harder to take all the way than 7+ because they constantly hit your gag reflex.

Also, deep throat is way overrated. Focus on what your partner wants, how he reacts. and every bj Ive ever had was better as a hand/mouth combo. Some guys like fast and loose, I like slow and heavy... and drooling all over my lap/balls, along with slurping sounds, are a complete turn off. Think about it...that drool cools very quickly, now they guy has slimey cold goop all over his nads. do I like watching deep throat porn? fuck yeah! It's an awesome ability. How it actually feels is a different matter.
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Oh, yes! Hand/mouth is a great combo! ;)
Unfortunately, I am no longer in the relationship, but he wanted deep throat.
Thank you for the helpful insight! :D
 
Ineedanswers2015 said:

Oh, yes! Hand/mouth is a great combo! ;)
Unfortunately, I am no longer in the relationship, but he wanted deep throat.
Thank you for the helpful insight! :D
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Im single and have come to the forgone conclusion i was put on this earth to have girls practice deepthroat on me to improve their techniques.

My number is 631-DTH-ROAT
 
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