Unrequited

[Australopithecus]

Would you get with someone who had always really wanted you?

What if you were supposed to get with them but you's both had by accident ended up with someone else?

If you had unrequited feelings for someone would sex with them give you closure?

If the situation was reversed would you have sex with someone else to give them closure?

 

[Lysis]

1) Yes, if I was interested.
2) That's fine. As long as I'm happy.
3) No, that would make it worse.
4) No, if I'm not into them, I'm not into them.

 

[rangrz]

1. Yes, so long as she cute, who am I to turn down a romp in the sack?
2. See 1.
3. See 1.
4.See 1.

 

[Libby]

^you are awesome.

1. If I'm getting something out of it too, then yes.
2. I don't understand the question. What is "supposed to"? and what is "ended up"? I would do whatever I wanted to do but I would not lie about/betray someone I had a personal relationship with.
3. Don't see how having sex with them would do anything more than having sex with them. I think if it was made clear by this person that they don't feel the same THAT would give me closure over unrequited feelings, and If I want to fuck and they did too, I would fuck them but that's unrelated.
4. See 1.

 

[Cyc]

Nothing wrong with a pity fuck.

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

1. Yes, so long as she cute, who am I to turn down a romp in the sack?
2. See 1.
3. See 1.
4.See 1.

hah totally...

 

[Tude]

Would you get with someone who had always really wanted you?

What if you were supposed to get with them but you's both had by accident ended up with someone else?

If you had unrequited feelings for someone would sex with them give you closure?

If the situation was reversed would you have sex with someone else to give them closure?

If he was a nice guy, sure.
How do you end up with someone else "by accident?"
Probably not.
Same as first answer.

 

[Edvard Munch]

The third question relating on sex and closure brings to mind a reasoning that this "Closure" is based on either simply wanting to have sex with him or her, or committing the deed to what is felt as the most extreme sentiment of love for the sake of having that experience.

What you consider "Closure", is deeply disturbing and the fact that you'd consider sex as closure really is repulsive and borderline sociopathic.

You need therapy.