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This Girl I work With

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6C The Second

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I've been interested in my coworker for over a year now. We immediately hit it off, but she was seeing someone. We talk about everything all day. Usually via text. Lots of Snapchats, some video calls. I went away to jail a couple months back. She was the only person besides my family to write me.

Anyways, I got out and got my job back. She's still there. Now she's single. We've talked about dating but she's said she doesn't want to get involved with anyone while she's still in school. She takes 50% more credit hours than full time cutoff level. She honesty is very busy with school.

We have hung out on a few occasions. Mainly, I see her at work...once a week. About to weeks ago, we kissed. That was it. I really really like this girl and don't know what to do. My plan is while on a smoke break out back at work, just forcefully kiss her and continue into making out. We have discussed how she likes guys to take charge. Anyway, that's the only plan of attack I can come to.

Thoughts?
 
I've always had the personal philosophy of not dating/hooking up with people I work with. It's saved me lots of drama. I would advise you not to pursue it, but it sounds like you already have.
 
I've only worked with my ex when we hustled and that worked out great, but that kind of work is a bit different than a normal job. I don't think you should force yourself upon her, if she doesn't want to date because of school don't try and make her date you. Also I doubt forcibly making out with her is a good idea, that sounds like a good way to have a sexual harassment suit filed against you.
 
Agreed with the above posters. Work relationships/hookups are almost unanimously coupled with poor outcomes. Also, like said above, if she's not quite on the page you think she's on, you could find yourself in hot water. Women have this special entitlement that us men don't have. She can walk right up to you, say in your ear "Fuck me right here, right now" and the instant you put your hand on her she can yell RAPE and you, my friend, have just lost your freedom. Not saying she will do this to you, but be careful because if you legitimately make her uncomfortable, she can fuck things up for you, big time.
 
She stopped by last night to pick up her checks. We smoked a cig and she gave me a ride home. We talked in her car for awhile. I hugged and then attempted to kiss her. She turned away. I said, "we might as well just try it." We then made put for awhile, I felt her up (over and then under her shirt/bra), fingered her and then got a hand job. Holy fucking hell. Never, ever did I think anything would happen between us. !!!!!!!!!
 
Seattle_Stranger said:
Agreed with the above posters. Work relationships/hookups are almost unanimously coupled with poor outcomes. Also, like said above, if she's not quite on the page you think she's on, you could find yourself in hot water. Women have this special entitlement that us men don't have. She can walk right up to you, say in your ear "Fuck me right here, right now" and the instant you put your hand on her she can yell RAPE and you, my friend, have just lost your freedom. Not saying she will do this to you, but be careful because if you legitimately make her uncomfortable, she can fuck things up for you, big time.
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I agree. Be careful getting involved with a girl. She can accuse u of rape and ruin ur life if she wants... Just forget her and enjoy ur freedom dude. Dont contact her in any way again.
 
Update: We had sex...like two years ago, but it was raw and it also happened with like 8 coworkers sleeping all around us which I thought was kinda fun.

Fuck her though. I have my reasons.
 
She was afraid of what others would think of my past. I feel that drug users are the realest of all people.

It's funny because your user name was her pet name. :-p

EDIT: I'm sure you are much cooler than her.
 
Ahhhh it's good to pursue things. Sometimes they work out. Sometimes they don't. But you don't know unless you take a chance.
 
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