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think ill ever get laid?

Confidence, confidence, confidence. That's all you need.
Although my first advice is to get your life on track. I can't imagine being able to muster enough panty-dropping confidence with all the shite you are dealing with atm.
 
Oh and forget that love prior to sex crap, it's shite and will really fuck with your emotions as well as decrease the number of partners you may have.
 
dont put the pussy on a pedestal. girls are not goddess made to be worshipped and you dont need a plan of action scrutinzed to the smallest detail. they are human beings just like you, treat them like one. people can smell insucurity and trying to hard a mile away. talk to them like you would talk to anyone you have just met. make the setting sexual after you have a good line of communication going. the more you stress it, the harder it will be. oh and defenatly do not go for the pity thing, not only is it incredably sad, but girls dont like pathetic people (not saying you are, but you dont want to come off that way)
 
fuck all this shit in this thread, you need to quit worrying "will i ever get laid" and just let it happen on its own. you are not going to die if you have to wait another year or so to finally lose your virginity. let it happen on its own. life is a journey, and alot of that journey you will be moving along totally in the dark, finding your way though, this my friend, is one of those moments. nobody can advise you enough to get you set up for getting laid for the first time, you will have to find your way to this on your own, and figure out the way there for yourself. good luck.
 
jam uh weezy said:
Melvin's army, talk about anything. Pretend the girl is an old friend, talk about what you did over the summer. It doesn't matter. Ask her for a stick of gum. She doesn't have gum? Ask her what kind of gum she would have if she had any. Girls will literally talk about anything that doesn't make them either a. uncomfortable, or b. bored. And they'll talk to anyone that doesn't make them a. feel uncomfortable, or b. bored. They're very friendly if you abide those two things.

Use your brain, it's literally a tool of interaction. Please don't go walking up to fifty girls at a time asking if they have gum either. I was using that as an example.
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quoted for being right on fucking target. great advice with the old friend thing, and spot on with the thing about what girls will talk about. overall a good post worth repeating :P

p.s. wonky lookin haircut man, or is that the angle? haha
 
don't worry man. your pretty good looking . enough anyway.

when it comes, it' will come (hopefully)

usually, these things just take time and happen natually

i was a late bloomer, (lost my virg at 18) and trust me; its taken 7 girls since then to give me just a taste of my sexual capabilities. don't rush it.
 
You will probably find an ugly chick, maybe even get married and have ugly children.
 
I wouldnt even trip about it bro.. I wasnt a sexual person til I hit 18. Im a late boomer but who cares. Before i was 18 during high school, i was more into the whole innocent stuf with girls, didnt even think about sex at all til I met this girl when i turned 18 during college.. then the rest was histroy from 18-24... lol..
 
Oh and forget that love prior to sex crap, it's shite and will really fuck with your emotions as well as decrease the number of partners you may have.
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yea, im throwin that out the window. ill bang the next slut that comes close to me. thanks for the advice.

people are telling me to have confidence... ive got plenty of that, just depends on my mood i guess.

im still reallllll dependent on benzos though. thats my one thing.

oh and i still want a few needles and some OC more than ANY girl in teh world and ive been clean from opiods for over 40 days now...
i really really just want to be with opiates instead of girls almost :P
anyone else feel the same way?
 
i did when i was younger like you... chosing opiates over women was one of the stupidest if not the stupidest thing i have ever done.... you never know that lady might just make you forget all about those needles....or she might like doing them with you.... either way go with the flow and give the ladys what they want when the time is right.
 
haha thanks ifonly. I think the bright light in the picture is distorting the shape of his hair....
you never know that lady might just make you forget all about those needles.
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Using women as a means as escape from your problems is setting yourself up for disappointment and hurt.
 
First thing you gotta do is drop the drugs! At this young of an age you're still learning and growing into yourself and your mind. Quit fucking it up! Once you're confident in who you are and what you stand for things like getting laid will become much easier.

One more vouch for the "drop the love" thing. Fuck some hoes, get some experience under your belt and some confidence in handling women first, then try to love one. :)
 
Sex and love aare very different. ppl today have sex regardless of any "love" factor. its kinda sad actually. There are many girls i wish i didn't have sex with. to be honest man...


heres a deep secret of mine. I was in your position, very embarassed about my virginity. I went to mexico, met a hot mexican stripper who was 19, and basically, to make a long story short, I payed $37 bux to fuck her for an hour. This is after I bought a couple of lapdances. I don't think she was a whore, but I was a hot white kid ;) (still am)

I don't regret it too bad. it helped get me out of my "shell". afterthat, i went to college and basically went van-wilder style on a buncha bitches. Sometimes i like to take viagra and E and hookup with B L bitches.

P.S. Ssylx (sp?) is really hot, so listen to her advice
 
I lost my virginity at 20.

It's late and I was embarassed but it all sorted itself out in the end. Sexual confidence can have a big bearing on self esteem but ultimately your other problems will still be there after you have sex.

Oh and don't go fuck a prostitute. It's pathetic and sex isn't meant to be currency. The fact is that whatever people who have sex with whores like to delude themselves into thinking, when you're having sex with a prostitute only one of you is really having sex. The other one is at work, and you're a client.

You don't have to worry about being in love with them (although the best sex is always with someone you love) but at least try to make sure you're both enjoying it.
 
I'm 21 very good looking indeed, very confident and living away from home and attending university, by all accounts I should be getting more woman then any other demographic, but I haven't had sex in 6 months, since I broke up with a very long term girlfriend.

So the above by themselves wont do it, but they wont hurt. Now, your a good looking dude, you seem confident enough, your in more or less the same position as me, so I will try and help you by telling you what I think is my own problem.

To me it seems like a generally disinterest in socializing, and a lack of any real excitement (socially). The cause, maybe bad health giving you a constant not too fantastic mood, not necessarily unhappy, just not energetic enough. Maybe a closed attitude making others defensive around you, and making you closed to others? I'm not sure really.
 
jam uh weezy said:
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Melvin's army, talk about anything. Pretend the girl is an old friend, talk about what you did over the summer. It doesn't matter. Ask her for a stick of gum. She doesn't have gum? Ask her what kind of gum she would have if she had any. Girls will literally talk about anything that doesn't make them either a. uncomfortable, or b. bored. And they'll talk to anyone that doesn't make them a. feel uncomfortable, or b. bored. They're very friendly if you abide those two things. ...
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Can any chicks confirm this ?

you'll get a stick of gum =D
 
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