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Theory: Internet Porn is responsible for the decline of the American Male

treezy z

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as i'm sure a lot of you known women are far surpassing men in education. not work as far as i know but education will probably lead to this.

i think this is because of internet porn. it rewires the sex drive and possibly makes (some) men not care about doing stupid shit to try to get laid (work money etc.)

i'm not saying women surpassing men is bad i just think porn addiction/consumption is really not that good for men and this could be one way it is manifesting.

but ya i'd like to hear opinions or if anyone has seen any scholarly shit on this post here.
 
I don't think you can base this off of gender. Some guys watch a lot of porn and don't get much done. But hardly all guys. As well, some guys surpass women in education and work. Some women surpass some men in education and work.
 
Perhaps rather than a "decline in the American male", it is an increase in autonomy and ambition of US women?

Just throwing it out there...
 
I think porn is one of many factors, but personally I do think it is a big factor. Another big factor is soft parents from the baby boomer generation over protecting their children from everything, starting right at birth with excessive vaccinations. Not enough visible death and suffering makes for soft people. And bubble wrapping everything for safety.
 
One thing I've noticed in most porn: there's an alarming absence of cunnilingus. I'm worried that a great majority of kids are going to grow up not knowing how to lick pussy. That is a travesty for most women.
 
^^I disagree, internet porn and weird stuff I downloaded from limewire,etc was how I learned to eat pussy (plus a little practice of course). And I could eat a peach all day. And she'd fucking love it over and over.

I think porn is one of many factors, but personally I do think it is a big factor. Another big factor is soft parents from the baby boomer generation over protecting their children from everything, starting right at birth with excessive vaccinations. Not enough visible death and suffering makes for soft people. And bubble wrapping everything for safety.

The effect of television on developing brains is way understated IMO

These I agree with. You'll forgive me if I don't consider myself one of these POS, but a lot of young people just need to get slapped around a little. Told they're not special, and in fact some of them make the world a worse place and should consider self immolation. Not that I'm not lazy and entitled on occasion, but reading something like totalfratmove just makes me want to find the nearest university and castrate bros.
 
Porns good unless you have to pay.

That started as joke, that during the time I had to type that made me realize that if your paying for it probably too much.

I don't think kayden kross would appreciate you downplaying her acting skills.
 
Porn is really bad for people, and does tend to make many guys underachieve in multiple ways. They get what they want when they want it, and get de-sensitized to what is real, get all into anal and other nastier stuff. if you read about the porn industry its absoluetly evil and gets worse every year.
 
you cannot blame porn for your problems- your lack of drive in life is down to you and you cannot say that a whole sex of people is doing badly because of porn. its just nonsense.
 
I would defiantly not say internet porn is changing the "man" maby you only think it's internet porn that is changing men because you don't like, and if so, that's so narrow minded!
Do you not realise that times are changing every day and humans are evolving every day. Everything in society changes the way people are.
 
@motiv311

If you have netflix you should watch "Naked Ambition: An R rated Look at an X rated industry."

I watched this literally yesterday, its about the AVN awards which is like the grammys.

But I dunno if I was really intoxicated or it was positive spin done well, but I actually had a lot of respect for Larry Flynt for the first time ever.

I also saw scenes of women losing, crying, and not assuming it was shame.

I can't stress the importance of sexual freedom enough
 
I watch a lot of porn, it's a hobby of mine, but the guys don't know how to treat a woman. They don't know how to give good cunnilingus after a great blowjob. They don't know how to combine the rough with the smooth. They don't know how to kiss passionately aswell as roughly. Loads of peeps watch this shit and think that this is how to have sex. I can tell you now, if guys treat women this way they gonna get nowhere fast. You've got to tune into a woman, not just slam her like she's some object.
 
Long story short: No

Short story long: Completely reasonable premise, completely preposterous conclusion.
 
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