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The Sad Thread (Anti-Snoo)

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kate said:
I'm quite sad to see a "sad thread" in EADD :|...nevertheless sadness is ok and much underminded as an emotion. And we should just be with it. Nowt wrong with that really :) just one of the many million emotions us humans do lol...

Been spending a lot of time practising mindfulness meditation and learning to just live with these ebbs n' flows of emotions, letting them be what they are and letting them flow past as that is what they'll naturally do <3

Let sadness pass over and give it a wave :)
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Exactly. Ebb and flow. Things have been good lately, and will do again, am just feel like I'm wearing thin with one obstacle after another so close together, barely time to catch my breath. But now I've calmed down I know that it will be okay in the end <3

Glad to hear about all your mindfulness meditation Kate. My life is clearly crying out for that yet I never seem to do it. Tis a fantastic thing for dealing with the craziness and messiness of life!

It is sad to have a sad thread, but life can be sad, and talking about it can help.. TDS is great but sometimes you just want to share a sad day with your friends in EADD. There are some wise peeps in here, and a problem shared is a problem halved, and all that.. nice just to write it down, or to know that someone is listening sometimes!

Haha looking back my post sounded more angry than sad (had just been on the phone to the council haha) but am definitely more sad than angry, as I might have to leave my beautiful flat behind and I am worried about several people close to me <3

But, as ever, this too shall pass.
 
smackcraft said:
feeling really depressed and i dont know why :(
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Sweetheart I hope things change for the best for you, they will. nothing ever stays the same. Take any help offered and hold on in there <3

effie said:
Exactly. Ebb and flow. Things have been good lately, and will do again, am just feel like I'm wearing thin with one obstacle after another so close together, barely time to catch my breath. But now I've calmed down I know that it will be okay in the end <3

Glad to hear about all your mindfulness meditation Kate. My life is clearly crying out for that yet I never seem to do it. Tis a fantastic thing for dealing with the craziness and messiness of life!

It is sad to have a sad thread, but life can be sad, and talking about it can help.. TDS is great but sometimes you just want to share a sad day with your friends in EADD. There are some wise peeps in here, and a problem shared is a problem halved, and all that.. nice just to write it down, or to know that someone is listening sometimes!

Haha looking back my post sounded more angry than sad (had just been on the phone to the council haha) but am definitely more sad than angry, as I might have to leave my beautiful flat behind and I am worried about several people close to me <3

But, as ever, this too shall pass.
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I miss you and still really don't know you, but do in a kinda strange way if you know what I mean...bless you, you are a beautiful being and I wish I could give you a hug right now <3

Trouble shared is a trouble halved indeed.

Take a big deep belly breath - focus on it, our breath is us at this very moment in our life, and concentrating on it and it alone grounds us. What's gone in the past and what's in the future is just a fancy flight of the mind it can't touch you right now in this moment...that's very freeing. Phew :D

BREATHE NOW...deep belly in - out =D Doeit lol it works promise...just do it ;)

Nothing else matters as long as your breathing %) so give it some time and attention, and don't bother if your mind wanders just bring it back to your breathing - IN & Out :)

Try...and let me know eh ;)
 
Thanks kate, i know you are right and cant wait to get out of the zone im in, it just feels like ive been there too long already

ive missed too many opportunities to get me on the road to better things and as i say that i find the root of why im probably feeling this way

I found out recently that i could of had a number of jobs but cos i never checked my e-mails missed every single chance and then i read another e-mail today from another mate saying he had tried to call me on my old mobile with chances of jobs too

I guess its because of that im feeling this way but it could be other stuff too but the more i think of it i reckon its the missed chances cos the way im looking at it is with the lack of work going around what if them jobs were the last of any going around for a good while and i have to sit waiting for god knows how long again .

Hope your doing fine btw kate ?
 
Sad that since I did the buphedrone binge and failed to turn up to pick up my old stuff the previous email conversations me and angelsmoke had had that were nice emails with good feelings has turned into her being angry with me. Is understandable, was my fault. I let her down and it wasn't fair on her.

Just really sad that I have turned what was more of an amicable relationship after the split turn into one filled with anger and regret. :( :(
 
And there's no use in crying about the damage that you've done inside.

I was just crying happy and sad tears as I've just read something beautiful to do with my ex who passed away. His brother put it on his facebook.

I was listening to Spiritualized - 'Let it come down' album, on repeat, and this song came on and I thought it was fitting for this thread...

Spiritualized - Anything More

Lyrics...

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Though my body gets tired
My mind does it no favors at all
And there's so little time
To do something, something, anything more

And there's no use in crying
About the damage that you've done inside
There's so little time
To do something, something, anything more

And your eyes say it all
Just like the way they did before
There's so little time
So do something, something, anything more

Don't cry,baby,cry
As long as you and I
Do more than just survive
Don't cry, have a real good life

And you know the things we do
Mean more to me than you
But the rain just came right through
Don't cry, we'll have a real good life

Though my body gets old
My mind does it no favors at all
There's so little time
To do something, something, anything more

And there's no use in crying
About the damage that you've done inside
There's so little time
To do something, something, anything more

And your eyes say it all
Just like the way they did before
There's so little time
So do something, something, anything more

There's no use in crying

More lyrics: http://www.lyricsfreak.com/s/spiritualized/#share
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Asked my folks for a loan so i could do something seeing as everyone else is going out and im going to be sat here my self once again on a saturday night ...

i think the answer was obvious since im in the sad thread
 
mugabe came and collected his stuff today. I am so broken up about all this. We actually had a really nice day together, ended up spending maybe a couple of hours moving stuff and the rest just talking. I'd forgotten how comfortable it was with him... how much he can make me laugh even on a day like today.

I feel awful. I don't think we could make it work, and I think we'd both have to be damn sure to try again. I think it's probably for the best.... but fuuuuck, it hurts!!!
 
am also sad about the same thing, was so hard to leave and say goodbye again. Really emotional day. Moving all my things here really finalised the whole thing. :(

We have agreed to have no contact at al for 2 months, am sad about that too, after the split I have enjoyed having email contact and looked forward to reading emails from her. I think that a sustained period of no contact is probably for the best though as it should help us try and move on. Doesn't stop it being painful and sad though :(
 
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Best Wishes to you both I've been with my partner 25 years, and almost lost her last year after my breakdown.

My love goes out to you both <3
 
Thanks atm23 :)

I was just about to write in the snoo thread about getting a smoothie maker on freecycle, she even told me when I could pick it up, but then I was guzzumped by someone else who could pick it up sooner :(

I replied saying I could be there in 5 minutes, maybe she will change her mind and let me have it
 
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im sad because the night before last i was beaten and mugged, im still in shock, and the bruising is so painful its keeping me awake.
 
bignbrown said:
im sad because the night before last i was beaten and mugged, im still in shock, and the bruising is so painful its keeping me awake.
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sourcing sympathy from the chicks that is =p

just kidding with ya mate , aye its not good when uv had a doing and you have the bruises and the aches to remind you of it ... dont worry tho one day them guys will pick a fight with someone and get the shock of their life when they get the shit kicked out of them instead

i have to tell you though i know u dont like the grassing thing and i dunno if its the same down south or not but i remember this guy i used to speak to in a pub where i done chefing for a wee while , anyway he was black and blue from the bruises all over his face and got some kind of pay off of a few grand but i remember him saying that if he could thank the people for the cash pay out he got he would

maybe something to think about, you know some pennies towards yer holiday
 
actually, someone from work got a right royal beating and claimed compensation for time off work and trauma and stuff. The money didn't actually come from the criminals but there is some sort of criminal victims fund that can pay compensation to victims of violent crime, has to be reported to the police though.
 
Thats terrible BnB. Did you report it?

Have you been to see your GP? Get something prescribed for your anxiety. Meds can really calm the nerves. Depending on how upset you are support care would really be of benefit.

Hope you feel better soon.
 
smackcraft said:
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sourcing sympathy from the chicks that is =p
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haha im not looking for sympathy.

Im much better now but thanks for the concern, im prescribed pregablin for anxiety anyway and thats been helping. A little GBL on the side doesnt go a miss either :)
 
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