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The Sad Thread (Anti-Snoo)

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Aww that's shit atm. Have you spoken to your doc about the nightmares? Maybe you're tapering too fast?

Take good care honey <3
 
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I'm self tapering, if they knew I was taking Diaz they would pull the CBT, I'm not convinced the 2 are related but right now I I am considering stopping the tapper to see if it makes any difference, but this started before the taper and I've had similar with Lofepramine and these feel just the same. I'm not usually spooked by weird dreams at all, its not that I really remember much about them now I've got up but I'm left with that horrible disturbed feeling.

Morning aren't great for me as it is, such is depression with most IME gonna drop a couple of blues and go for a walk with the dog to try and get my self straight.

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Hope your feeling bet atm mate! I'm on Venlafaxine as well and if I miss a dose I feel like shit! Haven't had any nightmares but I have reall vivid dreams!

Anyway like insaid i hope your feeling better mate, walking my dog always helps me! :)
 
i dont normally post in the sad/angry thread as i reckon my life is ok with just little things going wrong in my life.

tonite i was in pub to have few drinks with young lad i know who heading to NZ tuesday.

his sister is in a wheel chair with some fucked up brain damage after a car ran red lights and smashed into her and my good friend who died.<3

just so sad to see the girl who use to party with me and come back to my house as a trusted fried in this state.
 
Reading this thread from start to finish has made me sad. Lots of shitty things have happened to people. I can't possibly moan about my trivial shit, in here.

Hope everyone is doing OK.
 
wife moved out last weekend, and has my number on block. just tried to visit her at her mums and they called the police. lol.

she has nicked the dogs as well, my only company.

ahhh life full of ups and downs
 
eh, lawdy watson's. nothing constructive to say other than, much <3

good luck and fingers crossed that you can sort things out between you. really hope you manage to get to a point where you're able to at least get back to talking n communicating over the next few days/weeks.

not having the dogs for company must be a real killer. pets are usually the ones to help keep a person sane in these kinda situations. my cats have got me through all kindsa miserable nightmares. non-judgemental little fur balls. I feel for you a ton
 
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Oh man I'm so sorry about that. Really hope that some sort of amicable situation can ensue at the very least. Look after yourself, do your best to eat as well as you can, emotional stress is really hard on your body and your mind will be saner and a better tool to have at this time with decent nutrition.
 
Mugz said:
:( sorry to hear that Watson :(

Fucking cheek of her to steal the dogs and call the police, hope you can manage to sort it out.


p.s. where is Mugobia?
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cheers mugz&marmz/J I fear this time it has gone past the sort it out stage, only time will tell I suppose.

at least we only have dogs to fight over and not children, its amazing how comforting those smelly little beasts can be.

Can't face work at the moment, explained to my boss and he gave me a 1/4 of skunk he had in the car and sent me home, what a legend.

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& Mugobia is a bit like Narnia, but with less snow
 
Sorry to hear that watson. Dare I ask what caused this? And is there no way you could even just accept the blame in the hope it will keep the peace?

Your boss sounds like a good guy anyway. Bad one on the dogs though :(

Hope things get better man!
 
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wife moved out last weekend, and has my number on block. just tried to visit her at her mums and they called the police. lol.

she has nicked the dogs as well, my only company.

ahhh life full of ups and downs
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That's harsh <3




What did you do?
 
kate said:
That's harsh <3

What did you do?
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Not so much what I did, things had been building up for a while & fueled by wine and valium everything came out + a whole lot more - we both said things to each other than can never be unsaid, can never be taken back. We both took it to the next level.

A massive row & trying to hurt each other as much as possible with words while on a combination of drugs that make you NOT GIVE A FUCK in hindsight was a terrible idea. I'm sure that if the same argument happened the morning after while drinking cups of tea it would have not gone anywhere near to the level it did.

I've not moved out because I want to fix things, She wants my head on a pike though :|
 
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Really feel for you on this one, I was on the sofa for a week only about a month ago and not long before that I had been checking the prices of fats in the area as I really thought it was all going to end. This is after 25 years and we have 2 kids.

Do you think that a professional body like Relate might be worth a try after the dust settles a bit, with the help of my CBT councellor I got my missus to write a list of all things she wanted me to do that I don't do, a very specific one so I know what it is that she expects from me. There is no list for the things she doesn't want me to do as i do so little ! She'd like me to stop using benzos but this is having virtually zero impact on her life and I've given up everything else including the booze.

I've agreed its a problem but one I'll sort out in my own time.

I know your situation will be totally different as each one is, you'll have to decide if you want to fight for the relationship or if its bust beyond repair, for me only being thrown out or infidelity would end mine, the rest of my threats of leaving were the ranting of a frightened child who is still a big part of me.


Best wishes and luck mate
 
Another load of nightmares, I still remember some at the moment, I won't detail them as it serves nothing but there are very disturbing, I don't think I even want to talk about it with my CBT councellor in detail. I'm thinking about getting some hash and eating small amounts as it tends to suppress dreams and now one can come up with any other suggestions in here BDD or TDS.

I will be seeing my doctor soon but its a side effect of the Venlafaxine and I don't want to come off it right now so I doubt he will be able to suggest very much.

I'm not sure I've come across much other then booze (totally out) or THC that suppresses dreams...anyone
 
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