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The Lonely and horny thread

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So, I've been wanting to post a thread here on BL for those who are lonely and horny for a while. Don't get me wrong, I definitely get horny, but that I can handle on my own.

This thread is for those who are wallowing in self pity, struggling to find a companion, despite wanting nothing more.

Have at it, blades and bladies. Here is our safe haven.

Let the pity party begin

Cheers
 
For me it depends on what city/country I live in if I'm gona be alone.

Sometimes being alone and horny can be better than putting up with the bullshit and hassle of relationship/partner.
I think you have to learn to enjoy, love being alone.

Find a drug/s and things you like doing alone.
music/movies. coke/weed. VR porn whatever it is. cam to cam, sex toys don't know.
I used to get lonely and hate it when horny. Now I try make most of it by really finding what I like and trying to look forward to it love it.

But I truly understand the lonely, horny feeling. Especially the no hope feeling when you live in a backwater with 0 options. It sucks when young. As you get older the less fucks you give in my experience.
 
garygroundwork said:
For me it depends on what city/country I live in if I'm gona be alone.

Sometimes being alone and horny can be better than putting up with the bullshit and hassle of relationship/partner.
I think you have to learn to enjoy, love being alone.

Find a drug/s and things you like doing alone.
music/movies. coke/weed. VR porn whatever it is. cam to cam, sex toys don't know.
I used to get lonely and hate it when horny. Now I try make most of it by really finding what I like and trying to look forward to it love it.

But I truly understand the lonely, horny feeling. Especially the no hope feeling when you live in a backwater with 0 options. It sucks when young. As you get older the less fucks you give in my experience.
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I understand your point of view.
 
I'm nearly 40, and all this talk of AI and so on, is nuts. LOL. Like a machine is gonna love me.

Technology has just gotten way out of hand. And it is hard to remember a time when the Internet, games consoles, smart devices and all that, never existed. People are too used to it that they cannot go 5 minutes of their waking hours without liking a post on Facebook, or checking for a reply.
 
garygroundwork said:
A machine isn't going to nag you, play games and take all your money either,
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Ever met one of these?
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Though I get what you mean.
 
having a partner doesn't cure my anxiety and doesn't make food taste better or make weed feel any better...

when i realized i didn't really care to have kids for several different reasons, i lost most interest in having a partner... however, i watch porn sometimes and think "would love to get some pussy" as a male... and then i also just miss the company of a partner... but as a guy, i watch a lot of porn, and listen to a lot of girls do asmr.. i don't really expect my partner to do asmr or make orgasm noises lol, so i'd almost rather just stay alone and get stimulated from all different people in the form of video.. kind of messed up.. if i weren't worried about passing on my really thin hair with huge cowlick to my kids, and then also my schizophrenia (which i think can be a gift too, so it's debatable whether or not that's a reason), i'd probably just be with a girl and have kids, but i got worried about that, so i mostly keep to myself now.

i'd pretty much get sick of even the sexiest girl... my girlfriend was good looking and had a really nice voice, and i remember times where i felt like i couldn't look at other girls or even appreciate a girl's singing or something. it wasn't even cause she was jealous. i just have this weird part of me that wants to be extremely loyal. like i couldn't fantasize about another girl while with a partner.. i feel like i'm repressing my thoughts having just one partner.. i realize i could like watch porn with a girlfriend, but that's not the kind of devotion i like, so mostly i just don't go for it at all.. i'm only 39 though maybe i'll get more lonely in the next few years... probably not though. just doesn't make much sense to me to be committed to a person in the way my mind starts thinking... i feel like i'd have to be getting some pretty consistent and crazy signs from god for me to want to have a partner.
 
lecroute said:
Ever met one of these?
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Though I get what you mean.
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When people do win anything, they're inclined to put it all back in to see if they can be even more lucky. So they're better walking away. 💰
 
more than a year "dry spell", I don't even remember, perhaps one year and a half? crazy, never happent to me, now I'm not specially horny, just the first months, I guess the kratom makes it easier. I just couldn't, didn't have a home of my own nor a proper job, so probably this will change soon, but it's quite clear to me that the only way to flirt nowadays is Tinder or workplace, otherwise seems pretty complicated, and well, better not to talk about the minimum standards nowadays...
 
Rosie O'Donnell recently revealed that she has come across the first straight man she "felt safe enough to trust and be vulnerable and love a straight man.”": Lyle Menendez, the oldest of two convicted patricidal/matricidal brothers. Apparently part of their bond was that both were reportedly molested as children. Rosie believes his alleged molestation by his parents to be a mitigating circumstance that should free him.

Now I'm lonely, horny, and disturbed.
 
Since my husband passed over 10 years ago I've only had 2 kinda serious relationships lasting a year or so but other then that I've been alone.
I don't miss sex, opiods ruined my sex drive and I don't miss someone nagging me. I think I'm so used to being alone that I'm ok with it.
Hopefully some day i do meet someone but I'm a drug addict with MS so even though I don't look my age and I'm in shape that is alot for someone to take on. Who knows what i will be like in 10 years or if I'm even here.
Everytime I start talking to a guy sex is brought up before even meeting and that's a turn off
 
Jerks are just making my sex drive worse. Horny af. I could go find some strange. But they'll put me in jail for even trying to put a hit out there.
Cops said I was a few cards short of a full deck.
They took those cards, and are playing with a stacked deck.
 
Jen X said:
Hopefully some day i do meet someone but I'm a drug addict with MS so even though I don't look my age and I'm in shape that is alot for someone to take on. Who knows what i will be like in 10 years or if I'm even here.
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If you don't mind my asking, do you have any pain issues with your MS?
 
Oh ya. I get flare ups and sometimes it's a couple weeks but last one was months. At one point i was shooting 80mg of hydromorph a day with morphine on top of it and it helps but I'm still in bed or on my couch.
Thankfully it's calmed down, knock on wood.
I put myself back on methadone though, the tablets seem to work better and I've never abused methadone. I was going crazy with hydromorph skyrocketed my tolerance. Methadone when taken 3 times a day is a great painkiller.
Sucks being an addict and needing pain relief but thankfully I live in Canada where I can get pain meds easily.
 
In my case I'm not horny, I'm just lonely and feeling a bit like shit, why there's not a thread about ghosting? it's the most horrible thing in modern dating, no one with some pride in the past would have done that, it's just so embarrasing and mean.
+2 days waiting for an email, absolutely no reason to cut the communication, it's so frustating, it sucks so hard.
How many days it's ghosting for you guys? 3? 7? for me more than 48h it's a sign already.
 
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Neuroborean said:
In my case I'm not horny, I'm just lonely and feeling a bit like shit, why there's not a thread about ghosting? it's the most horrible thing in modern dating, no one with some pride in the past would have done that, it's just so embarrasing and mean.
+2 days waiting for an email, absolutely no reason to cut the communication, it's so frustating, it sucks so hard.
How many days it's ghosting for you guys? 3? 7? for me more than 48h it's a sign already.
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Created a post for Ghosting. I've never really thought about it before (and don't have any experience with it) but it definitely seems interesting (and heartbreaking). I'm wanting to go looking into the subject, and I'm going to try and post some comments about what I find, in the new thread.
 
You mean like when she says, "Meet me at the corner of Tourist Land in 20 minutes", but when you arrive, you get the ol' radio silence?

Shucks. That's a stinger.
 
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