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RobotRipping;11411526 said:yeah i hope those young white affluent males really feel that existential pain that their rich ancestors brought about in the first place. I think the world will be a better place with these pieces of shit addicted to pain meds rather than being competitive in our fucked up society. sorry i'm rooting for the underdog junkie who grew up with nothing and still keeps their shit together as opposed to their rich junkie counterparts who should inevitably fail.
However, it should be considered an advantage
bagochina;11420293 said:Are you implying life is a game? Or an adventure?
MemphisX3;11418282 said:getting angry at someone else's good fortune because they're parents were successful and wanted them to have nice things is so fucking petty. i hate that shit. i grew up "privileged" and i cant stand it when people get mad at me because my father worked his ass off and wanted his kids to experience the fruits of his labor.
if you want to get mad at someone get mad at your parents for not having the same drive, opportunities and/or ambition.
RobotRipping;11425191 said:yeah you're precisely the kind of pieces of shit i hate in life, you are the antithesis of my life and why i work as hard as possible to reach my own goals and not be an asshole about it when i do.
-Thich Nhat Hanh“Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything - anger, anxiety, or possessions - we cannot be free.”
-Thich Nhat HanhWhen someone says or does something that makes us angry, we suffer. We tend to say or do something back to make the other suffer, with the hope that we will suffer less. We think, "I want to punish you, I want to make you suffer because you have made me suffer. And when I see you suffer a lot, I will feel better."Many of us are inclined to believe in such a childish practice. The fact is that when you make the other suffer, he will try to find relief by making you suffer more. The result is an escalation of suffering on both sides both of you need compassion and help. Neither of you needs punishment.
The Dalai Lama offers wisdom about anger:
1. Anger is the real destroyer of our good human qualities; an enemy with a weapon cannot destroy these qualities, but anger can. Anger is our real enemy.
2. If we live our lives continually motivated by anger and hatred, even our physical health deteriorates.
3. Anger or hatred is like a fisherman’s hook. It is very important for us to ensure that we are not caught by it.
4. We have a saying in Tibet: “If you lose your temper and get angry, bite your knuckles.” This means that if you lose your temper, do not show it to others. Rather, say to yourself, “Leave it.”
5. According to Buddhist psychology, most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities. The pursuit of the objects of our desire and attachment involves the use of aggression and competitiveness. . . These mental processes easily translate into actions, breeding belligerence.
Such processes have been going on in the human mind since time immemorial, but their execution has become more effective under modern conditions. What can we do to control and regulate these “poisons”–delusion, greed and aggression? For it is these poisons that are behind almost every trouble in the world.
5. Hatred can be the greatest stumbling block to the development of compassion and happiness. If you learn to develop patience and tolerance towards your enemies, then everything becomes much easier–your compassion towards all others begins to flow naturally.
6. Happiness cannot come from hatred or anger. Nobody can say, “Today I am happy because this morning I was angry.” On the contrary, people feel uneasy and sad and say, “Today I am not very happy, because I lost my temper this morning.”
*everybody* has problems--internal, familial, societal--and money (or the lack of it) is just a smokescreen for the fact that we're all in this mess together, figuring out how we can move forward and do something meaningful when we're all headed to the maggot farm whether we have a cottage in the hamptons or a piss-soaked mattress in a warehouse.
Amen to that, I come from basiclly the same type of situation & have come to the same conclusion. I grew up mostly in a bad neighborhood, then moved to the suburbs when I was in HS. I didn't go to a private school or anything like that, but the community was pretty affluent. But most of the addicts I knew that grew up like "Evan" are still hopeless addicts that either still depend on mommy & daddy, rob & rip off everything & everybody, or both. When I was still all fucked up on of my rules was not to deal with anybody from the suburbs. Only the most fire dope from the grimiest ghetto would do for me!bunge;11418174 said:Having had my own addiction and related issues over the years and not coming from an affluent background but knowing people that do. I can safely say that ive observed both sides of the poor/wealthy divide and both sides seem capable of getting themselves into the same level of shit but the ones with a tougher upbringing seem more able and willing to climb back out again.
mydoorsareopen;11412043 said:it's good to remember that not even the most idyllic childhood in the richest neighborhood can protect one from the pain of sentient existence.
Exposing your children to "the right kind of hardship", which builds character but doesn't cripple them, is a tough balancing act, especially in a society that abounds in quick fixes that money can buy.