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The DADDY Question!!

luvinmike

luvinmike

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Ok ladies... How many of you call your sexual partner DADDY?And does it turn him on?I find it arousing... And I'm not sure why!
 
No, I don't think it's arousing at all, I think it is a sign of underlying father issues.
 
DeeDeeDrug said:
Sometimes, but not like on a serious tip or anything. And I definitely don't have daddy issues.
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And yet conversely I would never call my bf daddy and my father tried to kill me, so I definitely have daddy issues. Go figure.

llama112 said:
No, I don't think it's arousing at all, I think it is a sign of underlying father issues.
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Maybe it's actually the complete reverse of what you'd expect, it occurs to me writing the previous sentence that I never ever say the word 'dad' or 'daddy' whatsoever in my life, I don't think I ever have. Since my father (fuck did it again) isn't a dad to me it just never occurs to me to use the word in any context.
 
Yea kinda. He very passionately didn't want any kids. Didn't succeed though. I'm alive, so instead he went to plan b and took off. You'd think he'd have just done that to start with rather than risk going to jail. That's gotta be more of an imposition in his grand life plan to travel the world with his whore until he dies of old age than just going "daughter? What daughter? i dont have any kids, you got any idea how hard travelling the world with my girlfriend (whore) until I die would be with kids?" If it ever came up.

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What? I said straight out i have daddy issues... ^^^^^ there's proof right there. Can you blame me, he tried to kill me then ran off to travel the world with his whore. I've come up with three excuses to say it in 45 seconds. It's therapeutic.

I also have a bad habit of trying to make people like me with humor to offset how much I hate myself. I have low self esteem, who wouldn't if their dad tried to kill them so they could spend the rest of their life etc etc whore etc.
 
I'm sorry your dad is a cunt. Don't worry, he'll get what's coming to him. Fortunately, you're still here and hopefully you can get to a point where you love yourself.

I have low self esteem too and daddy issues probably. My mom and dad divorced when I was too young to remember. My dad is a good guy and he saw me when he could. Maybe I would have turned out differently if I grew up with a mom and dad in the same household.

Calling a man "daddy" in bed is a major turn on, especially when I know ahead of time that he's really into it. I've only done that a couple of times because some guys don't fit the "daddy" label at all. It has to be the right kind of person,
 
JessFR said:
Maybe it's actually the complete reverse of what you'd expect, it occurs to me writing the previous sentence that I never ever say the word 'dad' or 'daddy' whatsoever in my life, I don't think I ever have. Since my father (fuck did it again) isn't a dad to me it just never occurs to me to use the word in any context.
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Quite possibly.
 
quiet roar said:
How can calling a lover "Daddy" be anything but weird?
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Ray Charles sings about being called Daddy by his lover and it's not weird.

I dunno, it felt kind of weird the first time, but, after a while, you get used to a girl calling you daddy and sucking your fingers while fucking
 
I think it's sexy

but I look at it from like I'm the Daddy or her kids n her life Daddy n shit
 
quiet roar said:
How can calling a lover "Daddy" be anything but weird?
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Much 'weirder' things happen during sex. I've never asked a girl to do it but I certainly don't mind mid coitus. Sex is a time when I think a lot of people let themselves go and do what feels good. A chance to escape a vanilla lifestyle maybe.
 
I imagine if I started calling my girlfriend mummy... That would have to be weird.

In this context, the daddy is not the father but the cliche strong, dominant man. I think calling your partner 'father' during sex would be slight weird. :D
 
SterlingM.Archer said:
Much 'weirder' things happen during sex. I've never asked a girl to do it but I certainly don't mind mid coitus. Sex is a time when I think a lot of people let themselves go and do what feels good. A chance to escape a vanilla lifestyle maybe.
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Sexscapism
swilow said:
I imagine if I started calling my girlfriend mummy... That would have to be weird.
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Lol that's a good point.

I've had gfs that like to mother me, but calling one mummy during sex would indeed be odd.

I've said "thanks mum" in a patronizing tone when being mothered, but I wouldn't ever say it during sex
 
I once got walked in on by the father of my gf's dad when I was a horny teen banging her in her parents' loungeroom

She yelled "DAD?!?" really loudly on that occasion, while we were banging, but had never said it previously.

But last gf would say it regularly during sex

I guess we're all different, right?
 
Vagina Lover said:
Sexscapism

Lol that's a good point.

I've had gfs that like to mother me, but calling one mummy during sex would indeed be odd.

I've said "thanks mum" in a patronizing tone when being mothered, but I wouldn't ever say it during sex
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If most girls are even remotely like me... I wouldn't recommend guys ever say something like that in bed if they are hoping on sleeping with that girl again.
 
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