Ketaman, I'm sorry to hear about your potential exposure to HIV - I hope everything is alright man.
I don't mean to jump on a bandwagon here; but I see a pretty big contradiction in your post as well as folks like Halif.
I know you're probably under a shitload of stress, but it's also pretty clear from your posts lately that you're hitting it pretty hard.
Well done in getting off the smack - but be careful of those benzos....and the meth.
I know stress+downers makes for forum posts that are all over the place...but all the same;
Fuck I really can't stand how hard it is to aquire benzo's nowadays. And I have to say a big fuck you to the people that doctor shop or use them to get high because I have debilitating anxiety and panic attacks and I need pills but so many people have ruined it for the people that are in desperate need of relief at times that I buy off the street and let me tell you it's fucking expensive doing it this way but I haven't got a choice.
At least I don't have to worry about it for a few days but Temazepam sucks so ill be necking handfuls. Should have asked for nitrazepam, I wonder if they would have given it to me but I know it works so much better in much smaller doses compared to just about every other benzo.
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don't mean to have a go at you - I empathise with you and can only begin to imagine the horror of the situation - the HIV fear - and the attitude of some doctors when it comes to anti-anxiety medication.
But it's worth pointing out that you seem extremely well-versed in the various benzos and their effects - as well as admitting to buying them diverted from legitimate scripts. Just for anxiety? Or for "come-downs" too?
Surely this sort of thing is part of the so-called "problem"?
TBH I'm not sure that prescribers adhering to strict rules in giving this stuff out is always such a bad thing.
Benzodiazepines will
not give you anything more than very short term "peace of mind".
What they will give you, is a nasty bunch of rebound side-effects, including - ironically enough - anxiety.
And really insidious, very dangerous addictive potential. It seems like some Drs aren't even well informed about benzo physical dependence and the dangers in detoxing too quickly.
So....I really don't mean preach or to kick you when you're going through a tough time - please don't take it that way - but for a harm minimisation board, you report some pretty risky behaviours with a disturbing regularity. You clearly know what you're doing - you're not a dumb guy by any means - but it's hard not to look at your posts over time and not be a little concerned for your wellbeing.
I mean that in complete sincerity - not being patronising or condescending.
Your honesty and perspective on AusDD is invaluable - particularly the insights you give straight BLers into the gay drug/party scene (and the different types of potential harms that arise).
I hope things all turn out ok - please look after yourself in the mean time. Binging on drugs (of any sort) is not going to do your anxiety any good, unfortunately.
But I don't think blaming anyone - except perhaps the pharmaceutical companies who have long supplied us with these "safe" drugs to calm our varying levels of traumatised consciousness; then take them away again when they realise the dangerous potential in the toxic crap they have been happily profitting on for decades.
Take care of yourself, Ketaman.