The Angry Thread: Debt Until Death...

[Mugz]

The best place to steal a bike/car is from a busy street in broad daylight. No-one will say a word because there's other people there & they'll leave it to them to get involved, except everyone has the same mentality. If you were doing it in a quiet street & just one person saw you then they'd be more likely to say something.

Yup, the bystander effect if full force there, we learned about it in psychology, is also the best place to rob someone or attack someone, in public, as everyone assumes that someone else will stand up an be the heroe so passes the blame for ignoring it away from themseves. Is a pretty disgusting but fascinating thing about the human species when I thnk about it more.

 

[Evad]

I blame Kitty Genovese.

 

[smackcraft]

Was totally pissed off at my self knowing my sleeping pattern is fucked to keep the hand held house phone in my room from last night to get woken up fuck knows how many times by the same number calling over and over but was too tired to get up and put the phone out of my room

WILL NOT make the same mistake through tonight , anyway ive done something im totally against and got nytol , the last few times i ever used that shit i got dependent on it to be able to sleep and it started fucking with my head giving me paranoia which seems to be a symptom when i use it while ive been on my methadone script, before whenever i took it i never got any bad side effects except a dodgy belly in the morning which went away after some tea and toast , now i get para and can go to the extent of me getting all hypochondria at night time again and fuck no i do not want that back ever again !!!

 

[parttime crackhead]

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[dee_dee]

The best place to steal a bike/car is from a busy street in broad daylight. No-one will say a word because there's other people there & they'll leave it to them to get involved, except everyone has the same mentality. If you were doing it in a quiet street & just one person saw you then they'd be more likely to say something.

Really? I dont find anything fascinating about that kind of mentality whatsoever, disturbing yes.

I had someone barred for life from every single licensed premises in a particular area of a borough of London this weekend.

It all started off when i went to see a mate at work earlier this weekend and a pretty decent person whos str8 up and honest ive known from out and about for a while approached me and told me about some guy whod just sold him some coke which had turned out to be washing powder or speed or some other kind of shite whatever it was, lol.

Naive buying drugs in prime tourist hot spots from complete randoms yes, but do we like that kind of thing, definitley not!

Anyway, was shown who he was but he refused to give me the cash back so i gave him a warning that i knew everyone there and what was going to happen if he didnt, but im guessing as my eyes were like saucers and i was blatantly a part of the crowd i must of been kidding right? ha ha

Anyway everything had to be dealt with officially and legally of course but in this instance withought involving the old bill, but if he hasnt learn his lesson now then at least i no he wont be doing it within my radar to other naive but nice people.

I think it stands about 6 or 7 venues with the largest capacity being approx 2300 and the smallest capacity must be about 4 or 500.

Sometimes its that passer bys actions that can make a tiny difference.

Goodbye thief!

 

[parttime crackhead]

I didn't say it was fascinating. It's just a fact.

 

[Mugz]

I think that it is fascinating, human behaviour is fascinating and this is just another aspect of it.

 

[cherrycolouredfunk]

Just read over my court papers that came through after my hearing, and I have an ASBI (anti social behaviour injunction), with power of arrest and definite imprisonment (What the fuck?) attached if I am found in breach. Oh my days!

I've not breached once, but my neighBORE is finding any tiny reason to complain about me, if I go to the toilet too many times during the night, he has a go. But he can play music loud til 5am whenever he wants and isn't bothered. He films me coming in and out of my flat, counts how many times my buzzer goes off during the day and night. Told one of my mates who called on me at 9am, that 'I'd gone to bed and wasn't up yet as he'd been listening the night before' That made me feel sick. The neighbor who lives above me cant stand him either!

He snitched on me the other day, and someone from the housing place came out and demanded to see how many people were in my flat (I'm allowed no more than three by order of the court) all that had happened was my two mates called on me, came in, then went out to the shop, then came back in again, so my neighbor thought there was more than three people. The smug look on his face was soon wiped off when he realised he was wrong.

I was told off the record, by my arresting officer when I answered bail (For a seperate issue relating to my flat being raided) that he takes anything my neighBORE says with a pinch of salt and he knows he has an agenda. He also said, I would be amazed at the statistics of how many people actually do end up in prison for breaching ASBOs and injunctions. I need to get out of this flat, and possibly Bristol! I've fucking had enough!

 

[MrM]

Does he behave similarly to any of your other neighbours? Maybe a friendly neighbourhood meeting (without him present, obviously) where you could discuss the situation could help. You could type up the minites of the meeting (i'd use a voice recorder with permission of everyone present if possible) or else type the conclusions up as a letter afterwardsw and get everyone to sign it.
With someone like that i doubt it's just you getting shit.
O yes, and him filming your movements in and out the house is scary. Maybe he's waiting until you are out so he can get one of his mates to rob you (or so you could say you fear in the letter) or waiting until you are home alone so that he can do worse (again put this fear in the letter).

That's stalker behaviour and wonder if you could accuse him of stalking you if/when it does go to court. I'd be well tempted to use my camera and take pictures back at him if he tried that on me. If it was a sunny day i'd stand there with my SLR getting all his best angles with his video camera in hand until he got the point (or get a friend with a camera he doesn't recognise to do it for you if he video records you often enough that your friend wouldn't end up standing outside all day so you get him unawares).

 

[scrooloose]

Cunts like this tend to make themselves despised by everyone around them and tend to move on.Every street has them unfortunately.

 

[Jabberwocky]

it is stalker behviour, and harrassment, and invasion of privacy, your human rigths damnit! you don't know any lawyers who could type up a quick letter advising him of that do you?

MrMs idea is a good one, if enough people hate him enough people will come just to let off steam. i'd send the letter to him, the housing board, and to whoever can get it put in your case notes (if thats possible? it should be as it seems unfair not to get the rest of the tenants side of the story).

 

[Myshkin]

Have him stabbed, Cherry. He deserves it.

 

[brimz]

and I have an ASBI (anti social behaviour injunction)

Like a Super Asbo or something daft.

 

[cherrycolouredfunk]

^ Yeah, ASBO Cherry. I've just finished my bail, but now I still have this over my head. The boy I'm seeing is going to prison in a month, so it's good girl for me from now on....not that good though

It is stalker behaviour, the listening to me bit that he told my friend really sketched me out. I'm getting legal advice from housing support at my local drugs project. Everyone's suggestions here are spot on, Thank you MrM. I don't want to let him get into my life so much and have to spoil my quality of life even more by stooping to HIS level and recording everything he does. I do make little notes of when he's playing music louder than me and out of the agreed times, and all of the times he is aggressive to me.

There was a petition against me (Signed by four people) from neighbors to my left and right, who he is friends with, so I don't think i'd have any luck getting anyone on my side.

I think his plan is to get me out of this flat and transfer himself into it via housing association. He can fuck off with that!

Have him stabbed, Cherry. He deserves it.

:D

it is stalker behviour, and harrassment, and invasion of privacy, your human rigths damnit!.

This is exactly what I was told when I went for my meeting with the housing people at the drugs project.

 

[badandwicked]

^ Cherry do you mind me asking, I'm sure you'll say if you do. Have you ever been diagnosed bi-polar? I only ask as I sometimes think I recognise traits in some of the things you post. But then I might be talking complete shite.

 

[parttime crackhead]

Have him stabbed, Cherry. He deserves it.

Best post on this subject so far. No winky-face.


Although if you really want to go down the non-violent route MrM seems to have the right idea.

^ Cherry do you mind me asking, I'm sure you'll say if you do. Have you ever been diagnosed bi-polar? I only ask as I sometimes think I recognise traits in some of the things you post. But then I might be talking complete shite.

I think she just posts when she's happy about things or posts when she's raging about things to be fair. You could diagnose me as bi-polar if you sifted through the shite I post & compared the 'before having a joint' to the 'after having a joint' posts.

 

[badandwicked]

I think she just posts when she's happy about things or posts when she's raging about things to be fair. You could diagnose me as bi-polar if you sifted through the shite I post & compared the 'before having a joint' to the 'after having a joint' posts.

I wasn't really talking about how she expresses herself on here, more the day to day stuff that goes on in her life. Sorry to talk about you like you're not here Cherry

 

[parttime crackhead]

^ Aye apologies for that as well, that was a bit rude lol.

Anyway, speaking of anger. I just cut my hair to try & get the fringe out my eyes. Bad move. Fucked it.

NSFW:

Cannae real tell from that picture but it looks pish. Considering getting Mr Clippers out & ripping the lot off.

At least I won't have to be para about torching it when I light this joint.


Edit - More anger. Every fucking night at around this time two or three cunts stoat past my house singing what could best be described as football songs (I have no idea what they're singing but it sounds like that sort of pish), in fact it's not even singing, it's just random loud noise. They need to fucking die. It does my tits in. I swear it's almost every night, it would make a bit of sense tonight as there was football on & cunts will be walking home from the pub but this shit happens every night. It has to be the same two or three pricks as well as it's always the same noise. I'm choking to be capable of swinging a baseball bat hard enough to remove a head. Instead all I did was stand at the window with no top on looking angry, they looked up, they got the idea lol. No decapitation needed. Bet the cunts still do it again the mora though.

 

[cherrycolouredfunk]

^ Cherry do you mind me asking, I'm sure you'll say if you do. Have you ever been diagnosed bi-polar? I only ask as I sometimes think I recognise traits in some of the things you post. But then I might be talking complete shite.

You've got it in one.

 

[badandwicked]

You've got it in one.

Your crazy life reminds me very much of someone I knows who's been diagnosed as well. Most common amongst women, often diagnosed in young adult hood, triggered by a traumatic event like the loss of a loved one ...

Are you getting any help with it, have you been referred to a specialist? The girl I know hates her meds so doesn't take them. She can't see what an impact her illness is having on her. It seems hard to get a good doc & ages to find the right combination of drugs but I wish she'd persist.

The thing is unless you get it under control, this madness is going to follow you around where ever you move to. I'm sure you know this. Maybe you could try making dealing with it your priority in life, and staying away from the drugs will be easier as its all part of your investigations.

I haven't been on BL much, last time I read EADD properly you were all happy & excited & decorating your lovely new flat and the future looked rosy. I see things have changed a bit but someone of your resilience & intelligence can get things back on track You need to do it before the h and white take all choices away from you. Don't let this thing sabotage your life entirely. Sorry for the lecture