my sister makes me so angry sometimes when she does something nice, like she did today, bought me some clothes, then expects me to be all over the top super OTT grateful for it. I thanked her for everything that she bought and had a good day but if for one second I am feeling a bit edgy and don't sound super happy then she gets crazy and accuses me of being ungrateful.
I know it sounds petty, being angry over someone doing something nice for me, but it is all the extras that come with it, I think in the future I will just say no if she wants to buy me anything or do anything nice as she always expects you to be super super super grateful or she will be offended and upset. Is not worth the stress and hassle sometimes.
I can't say anything to her about it either, as athough her attitude is very unnacceptable and her general manner of being is unaccceptable she is really really ill and has to have brain surgery soon or she will probably go blind or worse, so it kind of gives her an excuse to behave the way that she does. Doesn't make it any easier to live with though.
I am sad that I am going back tommorrow and I will miss her and my dad but I won't miss having to deal with living with her. It is a total nightmare, makes me want to punch a hole in the wall sometimes.