I had no idea that fake texts even existed, thanks.
WTF, talk about fucked up communication skills, she wouldn't argue( all married couples have fights( I don't mean domestic violence, but arguements, at least once in a while) I would just tell her I never read them, and it is nice when you shut up, ah peace and quiet. Oh the silent treatment, good you never shut up, then laugh.
Unfortunately I tried that and everything else. She was so cold, aloof and distant.
Sorry to hear that, people change(many times for the worse).
Stop making fun of the old ugly wallpaper in some of the rooms in my house.
Discussion mostly are done by a person, prepared and to a group (or maybe one on one) about a subject. The discussion leader keeps things on topic. Something within a relation I don't see happening without a mediator around.
WhaaaaaDiscussion mostly are done by a person, prepared and to a group (or maybe one on one) about a subject. The discussion leader keeps things on topic. Something within a relation I don't see happening without a mediator around.
So its not a serious discusion, does sound like something triggered the flight fight response during. Not the right circumstance for a good talk.
I now would excuse myself politely, use the standard phrase 'we ll talk bout it when the cicumstances are calm and acceptable for me. Turn and leave the place for a while'.
Then I didnt know this and went all in try to act reasonable/ trying to stay on topic [basickly throwing Gasoline on her fire] which led to 1 1/2 hour of screaming from her with the kids around. The real victims.
@Jnowhere having an arguement, how many words are used for these kinda situations, in a different context then their meaning. Its about summing up why you are right. I somehow feel this will only contribute the fight. The point the situation seems now is beyond btw. Mediation/ seperation?
"I would just tell her I never read them, and it is nice when you shut up, ah peace and quiet. Oh the silent treatment, good you never shut up, then laugh."
So nicely worded, this is fameliar ground glad we seperated. Otherwise that cycle would have gone on (she still tries) but its broken. And besides loosing my kids, i feel sort of free. Cant totally deny it happened it left a scar.
A conflict [between 2 people] as the dictionary explains is when both are devoted to come to some mutual ground. Again not a fight. But that sounds more like how you interpret it. But dont know if the same goes for her.
[ @RyGly76 and F4E1 are human woman complicated or not? ]
The spoken word already inadequate at times, written words are worse.
And mobiles 'the thought removal device, Beato, R.'
Texting is done (not by all) most seemingly in the spore of the moment. Better ignore, I deleted them for myself. One time reading was a mistake, re-reading them would be stupid . And I like being as a Donkey, never bumping to the same rock again.
Hope you don't share kids, as it complicates things.
Sharing kids with this guy's ex would be a nightmare. She would more than likely try to turn their kids against him for revenge.Discussion mostly are done by a person, prepared and to a group (or maybe one on one) about a subject. The discussion leader keeps things on topic. Something within a relation I don't see happening without a mediator around.
So its not a serious discusion, does sound like something triggered the flight fight response during. Not the right circumstance for a good talk.
I now would excuse myself politely, use the standard phrase 'we ll talk bout it when the cicumstances are calm and acceptable for me. Turn and leave the place for a while'.
Then I didnt know this and went all in try to act reasonable/ trying to stay on topic [basickly throwing Gasoline on her fire] which led to 1 1/2 hour of screaming from her with the kids around. The real victims.
@Jnowhere having an arguement, how many words are used for these kinda situations, in a different context then their meaning. Its about summing up why you are right. I somehow feel this will only contribute the fight. The point the situation seems now is beyond btw. Mediation/ seperation?
"I would just tell her I never read them, and it is nice when you shut up, ah peace and quiet. Oh the silent treatment, good you never shut up, then laugh."
So nicely worded, this is fameliar ground glad me and my ex seperated. Otherwise that cycle would have gone on (she still tries) but its broken. And besides loosing my kids, i feel sort of free. Cant totally deny it happened it left a scar.
A conflict [between 2 people] as the dictionary explains is when both are devoted to come to some mutual ground. Again not a fight. But that sounds more like how you interpret it. But dont know if the same goes for her.
[ @RyGly76 and F4E1 are human woman complicated or not? ]
The spoken word already inadequate at times, written words are worse.
And mobiles 'the thought removal device, Beato, R.'
Texting is done (not by all) most seemingly in the spore of the moment. Better ignore, I deleted them for myself. One time reading was a mistake, re-reading them would be stupid . And I like being as a Donkey, never bumping to the same rock again.
Hope you don't share kids, as it complicates things.
Spoof text messages are fake often really damaging text messages that are sent from a third party, commonly a stalker or person of ill intent, that show as coming from another person. Basically anyone can send a text and it will show up as coming from anyone the spoofer chooses.
as a younger fella i've had relationships that have almost entirely been on phones. not a defense, mind you; it's been hellish
Sharing kids with this guy's ex would be a nightmare. She would more than likely try to turn their kids against him for revenge.Discussion mostly are done by a person, prepared and to a group (or maybe one on one) about a subject. The discussion leader keeps things on topic. Something within a relation I don't see happening without a mediator around.
So its not a serious discusion, does sound like something triggered the flight fight response during. Not the right circumstance for a good talk.
I now would excuse myself politely, use the standard phrase 'we ll talk bout it when the cicumstances are calm and acceptable for me. Turn and leave the place for a while'.
Then I didnt know this and went all in try to act reasonable/ trying to stay on topic [basickly throwing Gasoline on her fire] which led to 1 1/2 hour of screaming from her with the kids around. The real victims.
@Jnowhere having an arguement, how many words are used for these kinda situations, in a different context then their meaning. Its about summing up why you are right. I somehow feel this will only contribute the fight. The point the situation seems now is beyond btw. Mediation/ seperation?
"I would just tell her I never read them, and it is nice when you shut up, ah peace and quiet. Oh the silent treatment, good you never shut up, then laugh."
So nicely worded, this is fameliar ground glad me and my ex seperated. Otherwise that cycle would have gone on (she still tries) but its broken. And besides loosing my kids, i feel sort of free. Cant totally deny it happened it left a scar.
A conflict [between 2 people] as the dictionary explains is when both are devoted to come to some mutual ground. Again not a fight. But that sounds more like how you interpret it. But dont know if the same goes for her.
[ @RyGly76 and F4E1 are human woman complicated or not? ]
The spoken word already inadequate at times, written words are worse.
And mobiles 'the thought removal device, Beato, R.'
Texting is done (not by all) most seemingly in the spore of the moment. Better ignore, I deleted them for myself. One time reading was a mistake, re-reading them would be stupid . And I like being as a Donkey, never bumping to the same rock again.
Hope you don't share kids, as it complicates things.
If males had menses,it would be a world wide holiday every month for a weekWhen my girlfriend is at certain more volatile parts of her menstrual cycle, and we get into an argument, she will send very long text messages.
Sometimes I'll say something and in apprehension of it I'll follow it up with, "please no wall of text"
Man imagine if men had hormone fluctuations like that. Women experience massive hormone fluctuations in a very short period of time (some of them highly neuroactive, like estrogen and progesterone):
My ex used the girl counseling my youngest kid [autistic] so all private correspondation, everytime a copy including her own bizar replys went to third person. This was not known to me, just found it out later. Like all other things leading up to this.
It is though she seems splitted, my kids love me. Guess thats my luck, never put my frustration on them, just tried to stick around and be a dad (an almost dead one in this torturing situation).