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tell us the story on how you met your current significant other/most recent ex

I met my current bf at a bar/restaurant that my friend works at and invited me for a drink. He was the bartender and served us. This was Oct 2010. I went to that bar quite frequently after that and got really really wasted. He held my hair while I puked, picked me up, threw me in cabs.. lol. Yeah. Um and a couple months later we went on a date. I went away to London for a few months. We officially started dating April 2011. I moved in with him that fall and we've been together ever since. :)
 
He held my hair while I puked, picked me up, threw me in cabs
This is true <3 LOVE! New years eve 2010 me and my girl got wasted when we got home I went to smoke real quick and came back and she was in the bathroom puking. I decided to hold her hair and the smell alone made me vomit. Woke up at 8am sleeping on the bathroom floor in our own vomit but her hair was fine!
 
This is true <3 LOVE! New years eve 2010 me and my girl got wasted when we got home I went to smoke real quick and came back and she was in the bathroom puking. I decided to hold her hair and the smell alone made me vomit. Woke up at 8am sleeping on the bathroom floor in our own vomit but her hair was fine!

Indeed! That was all before we started going out and he was working. LOL. If a man don't hold her hair up while you puke--he don't love you. :3
 
Thank you <3 This baby has been very wanted for a quite a long time, so both of us are absolutely gagging to meet the little one. Literally and figuratively, i feel something brewing that will fundamentally change our lives, in so many ways <3

I'm so happy it's all happening for you, congrats <3

I met my ex on BL.

The guy I'm currently dating, I met in a traffic jam. We were pulled up side by side, and I have a pretty, um, unique work car, so he commented on that, we had a convo while we were stuck in traffic, he asked for my number and I thought fuck it, and gave it to him. Pretty awesome meeting story, I reckon ;)
 
i figure i'll meet my next girlfriend at a small concert or when we park next to each other, make breif eye contact, while eating alone in our cars at a fast food joint's parking lot
 
At a glory hole.

LOL no actually we met through friends. I know of a bisexual and gay man from Northern CA who are a couple who met at a glory hole though.
 
I want to go a glory hole with a bone marrow biopsy needle, and wait on my wide, and then when a cak comes thru the hole, skewer it though the shaft and one of the balls (like not just the skin of the scrotum, but actually thru a testicle) and since the needle is so long, they won't be able to pull it back thru the hole without ripping the needle out of their cak and balls. Then I'll just run like hell and lol about it.

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I'm so happy it's all happening for you, congrats <3

I met my ex on BL.

The guy I'm currently dating, I met in a traffic jam. We were pulled up side by side, and I have a pretty, um, unique work car, so he commented on that, we had a convo while we were stuck in traffic, he asked for my number and I thought fuck it, and gave it to him. Pretty awesome meeting story, I reckon ;)

Thankyou :) <3 Things be good.

As for your meeting story - that is absolutely brilliant, a true classic meeting story! <3
 
so...i was in love, or what i thought was "in love" (i must hold onto the good times like they are still happening now and they must happen in the future or no one else can matter). with my ex. who was recently in contact with me where he was putting us in this like really forced feeling weird limbo stage that went beyond "let's see if it can work again" and went way more towards "i can be a dick whenever to say you haven't changed so put off acting like i'll ever be a useful boyfriend with a real life and just blame you and wait until you get your shit together and then live off that again." so this was the sitch with my ex.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnd then

his OLD friend who has been in a lot of bands and is a pretty big deal in san fransisco in "the scene" or whatever bullshit you want to call something like that, came back to this city from cali to try to play in a band with old friends here...anyway, i added him on facebook, we exchanged some messages and i met him. and right off the bat....there was just chemistry and awesomeness and understanding in this weird, bizarre, out of nowhere way. the next day i actually wept in my roommates arms because i didn't think i would ever be good enough for this guy.

well. my ex shows up one day before i've told him i've given up and moved on.....to his OLD FRIEND who has obvs made a conscious choice that he is going to choose me, and there was this weird walk about town with my new guy, my ex, and my friend who has been an old mutual friend of both of theirs. it was so fucking weird. my guy says he wanted to let my ex vent and not hate him and make it an understanding kind of deal and he was a complete dick the whole time but he could tell he was full of shit...because he's smart. and can see through my ex's bullshit. and just feels like a bad friend.

SO. i am now with this guy i saw famous on the interwebs because my ex showed me his youtube and myspaces back when we were first together. and this guy's stage name at one point in his career (the one that stuck with him and kind of haunts him now) was always in my head and i feel like i know why now...

anywho i am likely transferring my job (global huge evil corporation) to cali and heading out there in a matter of a month or two after he leaves and i save up more money. and. being stuck in the the midwest, and having the weight of worshiping this old idea where my first love and i work out forever is lifted..............and suddenly all of these amazing doors open up and i'm actually laughing and smiling and feeling things and dreaming again.

and that's been my recent thing that happened. the end.
 
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Most recent ex- okcupid. Ug. I'm torn on it cuz its great for getting laid but its basically like a dozen or two guys sleeping with the same dozen or two girls. And rotating. But meh it works, probably gonna hit it up again once I'm feeling more confident.

The girl I'm talking to now I met playing SketchIt (an online drawing game, its pretty cool check it out if you have android). I've been talking to her online for like 3 months...who knows if she's real or I'm being catfished but if she is real she's probably the coolest chick ever.
 
so...i was in love, or what i thought was "in love" (i must hold onto the good times like they are still happening now and they must happen in the future or no one else can matter). with my ex. who was recently in contact with me where he was putting us in this like really forced feeling weird limbo stage that went beyond "let's see if it can work again" and went way more towards "i can be a dick whenever to say you haven't changed so put off acting like i'll ever be a useful boyfriend with a real life and just blame you and wait until you get your shit together and then live off that again." so this was the sitch with my ex.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnd then

his OLD friend who has been in a lot of bands and is a pretty big deal in san fransisco in "the scene" or whatever bullshit you want to call something like that, came back to this city from cali to try to play in a band with old friends here...anyway, i added him on facebook, we exchanged some messages and i met him. and right off the bat....there was just chemistry and awesomeness and understanding in this weird, bizarre, out of nowhere way. the next day i actually wept in my roommates arms because i didn't think i would ever be good enough for this guy.

well. my ex shows up one day before i've told him i've given up and moved on.....to his OLD FRIEND who has obvs made a conscious choice that he is going to choose me, and there was this weird walk about town with my new guy, my ex, and my friend who has been an old mutual friend of both of theirs. it was so fucking weird. my guy says he wanted to let my ex vent and not hate him and make it an understanding kind of deal and he was a complete dick the whole time but he could tell he was full of shit...because he's smart. and can see through my ex's bullshit. and just feels like a bad friend.

SO. i am now with this guy i saw famous on the interwebs because my ex showed me his youtube and myspaces back when we were first together. and this guy's stage name at one point in his career (the one that stuck with him and kind of haunts him now) was always in my head and i feel like i know why now...

anywho i am likely transferring my job (global huge evil corporation) to cali and heading out there in a matter of a month or two after he leaves and i save up more money. and. being stuck in the the midwest, and having the weight of worshiping this old idea where my first love and i work out forever is lifted..............and suddenly all of these amazing doors open up and i'm actually laughing and smiling and feeling things and dreaming again.

and that's been my recent thing that happened. the end.

amazing and fucking awesome. Good for you.

I assume this guy meets your very high standards you posted a long time ago. :p
 
that post was so full of shit and just like this list of things about my ex but made to look good instead of bad,

anyway, this guy has *some* things in common with my ex but like only if my ex wasn't this horribly selfish, given up on life un self sufficient and unappreciative dick .....who did creative things.....and was really motivated....and talented...and knew really cool people and things he could introduce me to ....in a city that doesn't kill me. okay, he's 100% times better than my ex. and i never thought i'd say that about ANYONE. and he still has this innate respect for the good things we both see in my ex but also see that they have died away...and our understanding on that is so much better than some stupid macho "garrrr pulll cavewoman into cave with me now garrrr" scenario.
 
lol it's all good. No worries. I just remember your standards post and thinking "Dayum....I thought I was bad!"

They are *all* better than some loser ex. It's just we are too "in love" and stupid about it to see it until the right dude comes around.
 
Met my current boyfriend a little over a year ago through an online drug related dutch forum I had been a member of for years; him even longer but we never talked much; for some strange coincidence (I know he wasn't aware of this) I had just ended a 3 year relationship 10 days prior and had also recently posted a photo of me on that forum; after which he (current guy) started sending me music and talking through PM occasionally; on the chat related to the forum we then talked a bit, he sended me a photo of him and invited me to visit him at his place a week later.. well I did that. After that the story becomes proper weird; not sure if I should mention all the details. I went to visit him but on the way of picking me up from the station he crashed his car... I still visited though and just sat there feeling mildly awkward; then I did a lot of Ketamine and so did he and the next thing I recall is regaining conciousness from a K-hole.. while having sex :p After that I OD'd on GHB (first time I did it ever) and figured the order of events was a little odd. Didn't go home until 3 days later and was back the weekend after; the 4th week of knowing him we decided to call this thing a relationship, and even thats been more then a year now; I count that first evening of ever seeing him as the day things started, weird as it was; there was a good connection straight away and its only gotten better since then; typing this from his house now :p
 
These stories are all so cute =D They make me kind of jealous haha <3
 
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