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tell us the story on how you met your current significant other/most recent ex

I met my husband through bluelight 7 years ago. Friends for a number of years, we got together in 2008 and married in 2010. There is now a mini-us on the way, and he/she will make an appearance sometime in late May 2013 <3 <3 <3

Aww that's awesome. Congratulations!!! I just had my first in July. That baby is going to rock your world!!! Kids change everything. For the better :)

Congrats to both of you!
It's awesome how many BL couple stories there are here, had no idea :D
 
well, I met my sig-o on myspace. We talked for some time and met in south Florida for vacation. Hit it off big time. She came to Maine for a few weeks and went home to pack. I flew down there and drove her here. Been almost 4 years. So far so good. :)

Before her, the rest were met at bars. Meh...
 
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Her brother still lives there and really wants us to move there, even if it's only for the winter months. I don't think i could handle the heat tbh. Then again, she isn't a fan of maine winters...
 
Is she a Floridian? I have issues with extreme cold, too. I'm afraid of driving in the snow too. lol The heat/humidity is horrible June-September, so I would love to live somewhere else on those days.
 
I use to comment on my now girlfriend's rave and festie pictures but had never met her in person, until one day the summer after senior year of HS I commented on some wolf hood thing she bought and she sent a message to me saying " I know we don't know each other but we should change that." We started dating a couple months later when I was in college, broke up for a little (fuck my ego, I missed her so much) and then got back together August 1st of last year. She's my soul mate :)
 
I met my bf like four years ago in my glass art class in HS when I was 15 and he was 18. He was gonna try getting with my friend, but he got with me. We broke up like three months later, but almost two years ago we had a play date in my room and took too many k-pins and talked and got together a few days later. Then we both got opiate addictions -.-.
 
Wow I was totally unaware how many successful relationships started online, bluelight especially

I've been looking for 1.5 yrs now, in a college town nonetheless, and had no success. Maybe I should give this whole "real life" thing a break
 
Not even exactly sure..but IIRC, it was pure random happenstance. I was back from overseas, and I was pretty fucked up from it, and I was wandering around downtown, and I dunno..this cute girl just starts talking to me, and asks me whats going on etc. Then ???? we became frienemies for 4 years and constantly trolled the fuck out of each other. (Altho like we really did care about each, we trolled each other hard too). We went thru meth addiction together and had all sorts of strange adventures and experiences. Then one day I started sort of being the all hated, resented and otherwise abominable "other man" and not just banging her while she was still with her BF, but like became the dominant emotional relationship/person in her life...and then she asked me to marry her *right* after we had a HUGE about stuff relating to that issue. Here I am now, with a dope as fuck, extraordinarily intelligent, fun, beautiful S/O.
 
Ya, I think I may have asked SLR for halp back when I first met her, and/or use to rant sometimes when she trolled me particularly hard. It has been a long time, and there have been many fights, and even times when we said we'd never see each other again. But we always came back...
 
^Aw :) I remember when you announced that she'd proposed to you, pretty epic times. I was just thinking 'nah, no way rangrz is only gonna have sex with ONE woman from now on!' You've changed :D
 
most recent ex I met at my NA homegroup. I would catch her glancing at me and when we locked eyes she'd shyly look away. sadly things didn't work out and about a month later she left me... sad panda :( almost led to a relapse too.
 
Aww that's awesome. Congratulations!!! I just had my first in July. That baby is going to rock your world!!! Kids change everything. For the better :)

Thank you <3 This baby has been very wanted for a quite a long time, so both of us are absolutely gagging to meet the little one. Literally and figuratively, i feel something brewing that will fundamentally change our lives, in so many ways <3
 
Met my current gf in a 100 level biology class in the fall of 2009 but never talked to her until the next semester. Come winter term we became lab partners and started sitting next to each other and had lots of sexual tension but I didn't know her name still lol! Decided to ask her for her number for "homework questions" didn't want to ask her what her name was as I had already been hitting on her pretty hard so I asked her for her number and then asked her how to spell her name! Luckily for me she has an unusual spelling for her name so she had no clue so that one worked out. We were assigned to document animals interactions so we went to the zoo on our first date on 04/20/2010 spilled my guts about pretty much everything and we were total opposites as far as how we were raised but there was just something special about this redhead, innocent, smart, understanding girl who I love and care for so dearly. It is crazy after 4 years to see how much we have both changed for the better!
 
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