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Teen recovering after drug overdose story goes viral
By JESSICA FIRGER
April 9, 2015,


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Brayden Travis, 18 years old, has struggled with drug addiction since age 15, and has been hospitalized for weeks after an overdose that doctors say should have killed him. His devastated family chose to share their sad news on social media with hopes that their son's story could serve as a cautionary tale.

An emotional account first posted last month has garnered more than 400,000 shares on Facebook. In the family's latest update, Brayden's father says the teen "has been steadily improving. Praise God! He is laughing out loud, and his health is close to normal."

He appears to have come a long way since the terrible night his mother first wrote about in March, when Brayden overdosed on a potentially fatal combination of heroin and Xanax.

"My son's first choice of drug was marijuana, which in time led to other drugs. The ultimate dead end road drug for my son was heroin, as is for a lot of teens/adults. He used last Wednesday at some point in the night and overdosed from a very deadly cocktail of heroin & Xanax," she posted on Facebook.

He lay unconscious for at least seven hours until someone called 911. Doctors determined that by that point his lungs and kidneys were only functioning at 10 to 20 percent and his body temperature had dropped to 90 degrees.

"Medical personnel believe my son should have been dead long before he was able to get the medical attention he needed, but for some unknown reason he has stabilized," his mother wrote.

He developed pneumonia and doctors believed he wouldn't make it through the night. His doctors said he also suffered a stroke as a result of the overdose, which resulted in significant brain damage.

At first, neurologists told his parents their son would never emerge from his vegetative state. But last Saturday, his father shared on Facebook that Travis had come out of his coma.

"I'm learning how to be more patient, giving, and loving," he wrote. "God gives his greatest challenges to his strongest children. There is nothing that will ever make me take a step back ward's [sic]."

The Missouri family says they're sharing their son's story because they wish to raise awareness about drug abuse.

"If my son's story and picture can save one life or contribute to the education and awareness of drug abuse, then he and I are very happy! He wouldn't want this for anyone else and he would tell anyone not to use drugs...ever! I can tell you he tried to fight this addiction and I pray this time it hasn't won!"

continued here http://www.cbsnews.com/news/teens-drug-overdose-story-goes-viral-online/
 
Its always a sad story when this happens. A friend of one of my cousins brother basically had the same thing happen to him, overdosed, doctors were amazed he didn't die but he didn't come out of his coma the same. He has like no short term memory, weak on one side, he had a stroke and I think that's what is causing the neurological issues.

Really weighs one thinking of the few times I od and could have ended up a vegetable if it was severe enough. Sounds morbid but I'd rather be dead than not to be able to use my mind and body.
 
Sounds morbid but I'd rather be dead than not to be able to use my mind and body.

I don't think it's morbid at all, and I've had the exact same thought. I also wonder about the subtle damage that could have occured due to less severe oxygen deprivation. I mean if there were times when I had to be shaken awake while getting high with friends because my lips were turning blue while I was nodding off, how many times did it happen when I was getting high alone and I just didn't notice? Then there are the times I'd wake up after a shot with the needle on the floor and blood drying on my arm (stupid fentanyl - it didn't even feel that good :| ). Ugh.

But I can type and talk and as far as I can tell I'm fairly coherent, and if my memory isn't great I'm on a daily dose of valium, so I'll just be glad I'm alive and functional.
 
Every chance we take in this world has risks.

Every decision we make has short and long term benefits, as well as potentially adverse effects.

I'm guess I'm sorry for trying to be realistic here, but while I do empathize with the OD victim; while I am glad to read that he's made a miraculous recovery, I am not moved one bit by what I believe to be his parents' typical and misguided reactions to such an incident.

Yes, I'm sure they're traumatized, and they shouldn't have to experience what it feels like to lose a child (due to anything), and to have to bury him. It's truly an unimaginably heartbreaking scenario. And for that reason alone, once again, I'm glad that it sounds like he has been making remarkable progress.

That being said however, it really frustrates me that his parents appear as if they aren't investigating the core reasons behind their son's decision to continue experimenting with and habitually using certain mind altering substances. Because it appears to me that, even after all this, they are still fundamentally focused towards the fact that he "abused drugs" and that's it. Please correct me if I'm wrong though, as I'd truly love to be in this case.

As a result, even after what their kid has just gone through, chances are that he will eventually decide to use again if the fundamental reason(s) why he chooses to do so in the first place is/are not addressed, but rather ignored with the same type of arrogance you hear from a parent who says "walk it off" or "stop being a wuss" when his child is genuinely hurt and suffering. It's like an unexpected slap in the face, and it can have long term repercussions (such as drug use).

Of course, apart from all the drug war propaganda and such being ingrained into the public's collective heads for so many years, there is also the dire issue on top regarding parents' drug war-influenced refusal or denial to make such a change (focusing on the root cause of the drug use instead of solely the drug use itself). As the saying goes, "you can't teach an old dog new tricks." And I'm afraid these parents may be no exception - again though, I hope I'm wrong.

Round and round we go, till this two-faced taboo of certain drugs is over, things won't change for the better.
 
I am not moved one bit by what I believe to be his parents' typical and misguided reactions to such an incident.

Are you a parent ro? Why do you feel thier reactions and "misguided"?

Drug OD's kill and they almost did in this instance. Cant see how this figures into drug war propaganda?
 
I think he's addressing the fact that they made a media spectacle out of the whole thing, put it down to God and blamed the drug itself instead of investigating why their son ended up becoming a drug addict in the first place. As a rule, people don't become addicted to heroin because they're happy and well adjusted. But the parents are, as far as we know, ignoring that whole question in favor of blaming it on the heroin and "trials sent by God" and so forth.
 
Are you a parent ro? Why do you feel thier reactions and "misguided"?

Drug OD's kill and they almost did in this instance. Cant see how this figures into drug war propaganda?

Yes, I have one very special and precious little guy, and I love him to death. And I would not think twice about sacrificing everything including my life for him if need be. And there may be a second one on the way.

It's funny really - 10 years ago, I was saying how I would never have kids or get married. Now, after experiencing what it feels like to be a father, I couldn't imagine living without my son. I couldn't imagine losing him in some way. And it would really, really hurt me if I ever find out he has resorted to the recreational use of mind altering substances. But if that ever comes to pass, I am confident that I will be searching endlessly for the reason(s) why he resorted to them in the first place, and attempt to properly address them. And while that's taking place, I wouldn't demand that he stops, or else. Instead, I would try to make sure he knows about the dangers of 'street drugs' with respect to how adulterated they can be, but enough about us.

I believe that the apparent fact that this story went viral undermines what we've been trying to achieve by affecting public opinion of the risks of drug misuse.

When society - for whatever reason - becomes completely fixated on the coping mechanism - in this case, that meaning the drug use itself, perhaps I'm mistaken but I strongly believe it undermines rational thinking.

According to a study I recently read, parents - especially new mothers - tend to be the most vocal supporters of the war on drugs. It makes sense right? Well, it soon becomes apparent that by trying to do the right thing, they end up doing the wrong thing by way of emotionally ingesting such a story as this one and then stubbornly concluding for years or decades afterwards that 'drug abuse' is inherently evil, and that the war on drugs is completely rational. And perhaps they'll also believe in Cannabis as being the 'gateway drug' it is not (Alcohol takes that title IMO). So as they get older, chances are that it'll be harder to change their views on the controversial drug-related topics aforementioned in this paragraph.

I hope that makes sense..?

Re. the kid - I not only sympathize, but I also sincerely empathize with him, because I was in a similar situation ~11 years ago. And I suppose that in the eyes of some people, I was too weak; I was a coward for not "walking [my problems which stemmed from a troubled childhood filled with physical and sexual abuse] off," but I soon went back to the same drug use pattern (albeit more cautiously) after I recovered, which I really regret now (with a few exceptions).

In hindsight, the reasons why I chose to habitually consume certain mind altering substances once again after being on the mend in a hospital for days - and from a near death experience according to what the presiding physician told me - was because the underlying reasons for my destructive behavior were not addressed. Although some of my family members may think differently about it, as if I was lured back by a 'bad' friend, I am absolutely 100% certain of this.

My older brother who I attempted to look up to for guidance and support would tell me to "stop wallowing in self pity" when I'd try to talk about my problems with him. He, along with my parents, were too focused on the drug use itself for so long. Luckily, I've recently managed to fundamentally change their views after several years of discussion and debates with them, but it was damn hard to do so in this prohibitionist era we're living in.

They'd love to hear or read stories about drug users (and drug dealers) being locked away for something as benign as non-violent possession of what basically amounted to a small amount of a fucking plant (Marijuana).

Only after they saw for themselves how much more damaging, the war on drugs is to countless families, and how a criminal record for the conviction of simple possession with no victim in sight is treated like other felonies including rape and manslaughter, did they change almost completely. They are now against the war on drugs, which I consider to be a personal victory for me, but I apologize for babbling so much about myself and my family - I'll stop now.

Back to the OD victim - frankly I don't believe he wanted to kill himself by combining Xanax (Alprazolam) and Heroin. Although this combo is - in my opinion - very high in terms of risk (particularly suppressed breathing and profound sedation leading to a severe overdose), I'm wondering if the Heroin he used was adulterated with Fentanyl perhaps?

God I talk too much - please pardon the wall of text =D

Crankinit said:
I think he's addressing the fact that they made a media spectacle out of the whole thing, put it down to God and blamed the drug itself instead of investigating why their son ended up becoming a drug addict in the first place. As a rule, people don't become addicted to heroin because they're happy and well adjusted. But the parents are, as far as we know, ignoring that whole question in favor of blaming it on the heroin and "trials sent by God" and so forth.

Exactly - right on, thank you very much :)

And if I might add, the whole religious part of the parents' post on Facebook reminds me of whenever someone who doesn't have an answer to give regarding a religious question ends up saying that "God works in mysterious ways." I mean, would it kill the person to simply and calmly state that (s)he doesn't know, or that (s)he doesn't have an answer? I think such pride-free, humbling honesty can be very admirable indeed.
 
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Actually if you read carefully, first the dad blames marijuana as a gateway drug, then he blames heroin, then he says god gave his son a special test in life.

Dad is obviously so deep in denial about his culpability as a bad parent that he will blame everything else, and the media will be all too happy to frame it as part of their usual propaganda. If you get addicted as an adult that's your fault but if you're 15 years old and getting hooked on things while still under parental care then the parents are responsible.

No normal teenager just goes and gets hooked on heroin. Wake up.
 
Actually if you read carefully, first the dad blames marijuana as a gateway drug, then he blames heroin, then he says god gave his son a special test in life.

Dad is obviously so deep in denial about his culpability as a bad parent that he will blame everything else, and the media will be all too happy to frame it as part of their usual propaganda. If you get addicted as an adult that's your fault but if you're 15 years old and getting hooked on things while still under parental care then the parents are responsible.

No normal teenager just goes and gets hooked on heroin. Wake up.

I agree - 15 year old with drug addiction issues culminating to this incident... something's not right at home, school, or both, it seems. And considering the typical response from his dad... it's sad.

While I openly acknowledge that I'm not some special individual who has all the answers to life's mysteries (admittedly I see myself as nothing more than average), I still sort of wish I knew the kid, so that I could try to talk to him about what is causing him to resort to drug use, because unfortunately I don't think his parents have or will do so anytime soon.
 
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So I'm not a parent, but I'm pretty sure if my hypothetical kid was taking heroin at 15, I'd want them to NOT be using substances of unknown content and quality, especially with the majority of their education about drugs coming from other users or the internet instead of sources that reliably covered things like poly drug use and actually safe injecting?

That's the link I see to the drug war, at any rate.
 
In fairness, they don't exactly sound like they come from an area with a deep seated harm reduction movement. It's easy for us to talk about how stupid their attitude is, but after a century of propaganda, it's going to take more than a few years to reverse the overriding narratives on drugs and drug addiction.
 
i hope this kid can move to a different state or country or something for a while. there is nothing worse than having everyone look at you like you are damaged goods and that at any second you will go crazy or treat you differently.

really dirty move by the parents, turning a personal matter into a public circus
 
In fairness, they don't exactly sound like they come from an area with a deep seated harm reduction movement. It's easy for us to talk about how stupid their attitude is, but after a century of propaganda, it's going to take more than a few years to reverse the overriding narratives on drugs and drug addiction.

I think this is part of what Ro(et.al.) are saying - and if not it does seem to agree.

i hope this kid can move to a different state or country or something for a while. there is nothing worse than having everyone look at you like you are damaged goods and that at any second you will go crazy or treat you differently.

really dirty move by the parents, turning a personal matter into a public circus

Yes, this is what I walked away from in the article. I'm fucking glad as hell neither of my biological or otherwise parents decided to do this with me. I mean, I don't need (and neither does she) my 92 year old bubbie knowing some of the shit I've done or been through. That's a very dangerous proposition too of course, to just insulate whomever from the world in an attempt to protect them, but a degree of sensitivity, shall we say, - exactly because of the more common believed myths prohibition has wrought - is certainly required.
 
In fairness, they don't exactly sound like they come from an area with a deep seated harm reduction movement. It's easy for us to talk about how stupid their attitude is, but after a century of propaganda, it's going to take more than a few years to reverse the overriding narratives on drugs and drug addiction.

You bring up a good point.

To keep it short, I'll just state that I am somewhat conflicted when people exhibit this sort of behavior, because I'm thinking that they simply don't know any better than to react in this manner after so many decades of biased propaganda shoved down their throats.
 
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