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TDS Social Thread v. RIP tobala & junctionalfunkie, we love you both

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het im here for a few. sober now almost 120 days. emotins are coming back. sucks because i dont know how to handle them without drugs. any advice? thanks yal
 
JF- Sounds amazing and I reallllly look forward to the pix.

D's- <3 You might think about trying to get your feelings out either by talking to someone or maybe starting a journal or Blog? Burying them or ignoring them won't solve the issues that wind up leading people to use.....You gotta deal with the emotions even though it can be hurtful or hard <3
Proud of you on your 120 days man!!!:)
 
heyyo , how you guys n gals doin on this lovely sub 40 degree boston night *grumble* , miss summer already.
 
It's a lovely 25C (80F) in Sydney today. I wish it stayed like this all summer!! NOT looking forward to the 40C+ (110F) days :!
 
n3ophy7e said:
Whoohoo!! How're the travels going jf?? Incredible?! <3
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It's wonderful! Main dilemma is deciding what to do next... 3 girls in my course have invited me to 3 geographically disparate places to stay with them after the course ends... decisions, decisions!

I have to renew my visa in 2 weeks; really want to go to Angkor, but we shall see. May get a house with a couple friends and lay low while searching for jobs.
 
TAOW - I did see your message the other day but have been rockslammed busy. Stay warm and drop me a PM, it's always great to hear from you. :)

D's! 120 days is no small feat! Another BLer and I are sending you a package as soon as I finish a letter to you. You should enjoy the contents tremendously. No contraband or triggers are inside.

I still miss Tobala too and probably always will. I still have his number saved in my phone. We had never met in person (were planning on it when I go to the east coast) but we talked regularly. He always had the ability to bring me out of dark places in my mind. I talked to him a couple days before he died, never spoke an unkind word to each other, and hearing about his death totally crushed me. I then realized he would not want me to be sad but to celebrate his life. He was an inspirational figure to me, we had a lot of laughs too.

For those of you who did not know him well, he was a great man who was a motorcycle enthusiast, father, healer, and a true-blue friend. I know he looks over me and protects me from harm. I am grateful for his presence in my life and believe he is at peace now.
 
junctionalfunkie said:
Phuket. I'll be here until early November, then heading up to Chiang Mai.

Planning to ride the Trans-Siberian Railway from Moscow to Vladivostok in the Spring! :)
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Oh shit man i would fucking love to do that! That would be so fucking cool. Maybe i should save up lol ;)

It's a lovely 25C (80F) in Sydney today. I wish it stayed like this all summer!! NOT looking forward to the 40C+ (110F) days
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I wanna move to Australia damnit :! . You aussies have it way to easy lol. Im not looking foreward to winter even though after staying in ottawa winter here looks really mild. It was -35C up there where as here it's barely -10C.

But i want heat, sun and beaches damnit :X
 
paranoid android said:
I wanna move to Australia damnit :! . You aussies have it way to easy lol. Im not looking foreward to winter even though after staying in ottawa winter here looks really mild. It was -35C up there where as here it's barely -10C.

But i want heat, sun and beaches damnit :X
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Hahahaha maaaaan 45C is NOT easy!!! :D
Granted, -35C isn't easy either. But 45C is not cool hahaha
 
I think it made it up to 75 in Chicago today. Beautiful day and a perfect night, still have a window open with a nice breeze. Full Moon starts tomorrow, shame it will miss Halloween by 1 or 2 days.

peace.
seedless
 
bagochina said:
I think it made it up to 75 in Chicago today. Beautiful day and a perfect night, still have a window open with a nice breeze. Full Moon starts tomorrow, shame it will miss Halloween by 1 or 2 days.

peace.
seedless
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I've been hearing many good things about Chicago lately.

Maybe I'll be able to save some loot and check your city out some day. I'm kinda inspired by juncyionalfunky's travels and, to tell the truth, his ability to initiate such exciting adventures.

much respect, JF!
 
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