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^ i get the same feeling....about posting that is.
Sometimes i want to and dont know what to say, other times i feel i can offer little advice or comfort, shitty feeling and just plain cant bring myself near the comp other times. On an upnote it's nice to sign bak in and see what everyones been upto... My muffins never happened :(
 
Why do I repeat the same mistakes over and over and over and over again? I'm such an idiot. I really am. I really fucking am. When will I learn.
 
after 2 days - my room is finally cleaned out , so stoked for this furniture ! Also looking forward to a lil flat party!

........ Ahhhhh the plur begins <3 :D !!!
 
n3ophy7e said:
Man, what's up?? PM me if you wanna talk <3
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Thank you for the offer, n3o. One of these dark times I will take you up on it. I was lucky enough to "talk it out" with another equally beautiful bluelighter today. If my predisposition toward repeating the same mistakes over again continues, you just might hear from me (as depressing as that sounds).

edit: I've always been forgiving of others; learning not to hold grudges has made life simpler. Unfortunately, it's forgiving myself that I have the most trouble with. It's a constant struggle and something I've been battling with, but I know if I work on it the results would have a very positive effect on my life. Just thought I'd post that in here as a reminder, in hopes that it might help anyone reading. Sometimes we forget to forgive ourselves for the mistakes we've made. I don't beat my friends up over their slip-ups and hang it over there head, so why should I do it to myself?

:\ Now if I could only listen to my own advice . . .
 
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@Max: forgiving yourself is one of the hardest and most important life skills to learn. I've been at it actively for about a decade now, and am still not that great at it. Most people have trouble with it. But, you're seeing these mistakes as opportunities to learn lessons (whether or not they are learned at the time ;)), meaning that you're a good head and shoulders above a large chunk of the population at large.

Nice to see you in TDS by the way. Usually the circumstances that bring people here are unfortunate, but it's always a pleasure to see people from the greater community come by. Stick around... we have cookies!
 
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