Tantric services - real experience reports please. Ill update with mine in 4 days too

[Wiserthanearlier]

Would love to hear of anyone's experiences?
I have searched all options where I live very thoroughly for over a year before deciding to book,this week. It was a no brainer where I have booked in the end. A Dakini for healing.

I am so excited.
With my partner, over many many years we have enjoyed exotic drugs with sex. But not so much last decade with kids etc.
I'm blessed to be excellent with my hands, I can massage ailments and help expedite the healing quickly so have been quite drawn to erotic enjoyment combined with massage etc.
I have practiced a fair bit of erotic massage and basic go of yoni massage (I have technique but not worked out being more open and healing yet)

Anyway, I have my first tantra session with a Dakini who it seems from all I have read, is simply amazing.
To clarify as the word tantra can have a lot of different meanings and differ for many depending on their exposure to the true history of tantra.

So in this context, it is a session that is highly sexual in nature, however, it does not include intercourse, or perhaps what is generally full service in the world of paid sex.
It will have a lot of other deeply connecting and energetic flows occurring both physically and on a deeper level as opposed to what intercourse is.
This is not about a destination but the journey.
Tantra in this sense can range from light body to body and more sensual touches, to light bondage (that is in the sense of heightening awareness, not restricting the person as some bondage can be aimed for)
This session is more aimed for a first timer so will be on the lighter end of this.

Would love to hear if anyone has experiences like this, or lingam massage or yonj massage.
Or dearmoring..

 

[M!$TER-ED]

Not experienced with tantra, you say it's light bondage?

 

[Wiserthanearlier]

Tantra as a belief system, not specifically.
Tantra in a westernised version, it can form part of the experience. The focus is on that connection and energy using some restraints to heighten some aspects.
But to just focus on that misses the depth of what it offers... lol

 

[Wiserthanearlier]

It is generally more akin to erotic massage than dungeons with whips and chains

 

[M!$TER-ED]

interesting channeling sensitivity seems beneficial

 

[Deleted member 591706]

kundalini yoga is quicker

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

Tantra as a belief system, not specifically.
Tantra in a westernised version, it can form part of the experience. The focus is on that connection and energy using some restraints to heighten some aspects.
But to just focus on that misses the depth of what it offers... lol

Tantra from The Sanskrit meaning "To Weave"
You can't have "Western Tantra" & "Eastern Tantra" & yet again you use this term / word with NO CONTEXT of what you are actually talking about.

Chinnamasta who I'm sure you will be aware of being part of the Mahavidyas says it all in her imagery when linked to sex, and let us not get into the Matrikas.

Aghori Tantrics have been known to have Necrophilia to break the link with sex in the mind & reach a None-dual state so you talk rubbish & speak about something you know nothing about.

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

the irony is you care enough to read it all then click on an emoji @bookmused
Don't hide in the shadows, feel free to point out a single thing I said which is wrong.

 

[Deleted member 591706]

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the irony is you care enough to read it all then click on an emoji @bookmused
Don't hide in the shadows, feel free to point out a single thing I said which is wrong.

I'm not critiquing, I haven't thought about any of this in a long time. My perspective would be only informed by the material I have collected and studied from Crowley's recommended syllabus for the inner college of A.'.A.'. Specificlaly, Raja Yoga by Swami Vivekananda. I don't really have that much to say about it because there's a broad stretch there to dig into and I'm working on something else but interesting conversation. The comment I made about kundalini yoga was entirely tongue in cheek and so my apologies if it were not clear.

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

Specificlaly, Raja Yoga by Swami Vivekananda.

Raja / Ashtang / 8 Limb Yoga of The Yogasutra.
You aware of Baba Ram Puri? The first Western man to become a member of Juna Akhara (Naga Baba tradition)

The comment I made about kundalini yoga was entirely tongue in cheek and so my apologies if it were not clear.

No need to be sorry, sadly way too many people in The West use words like "Tantra" & "Yoga" etc with no direct experience of it & kundalini is another one.
A local group who are active just outside the 2nd city of The UK called Birmingham say they can awake that form of Shakti in anybody & you'll feel it as a cool breeze on your hand which made me laugh till I had tears coming from my eyes. When that Shakti works it has extreme effects on the body, the kriyas alone are enough to shock someone who isn't expecting it.

After evening Aarti last year at the Mandir I have been going to for a few years the Baba asked me to stay behind & he was doing a Puja to Kali for some guy & the Baba knows I'm drawn to the Shakti path of The Mahavidyas, he was half way through the Nama Mantra the Shakti moved in me with such force I was literally tossed into the air at random, my body temperature shot right up & I turned Tomato red from the heat, I felt like I had shit myself literally & had to go check my underwear, I was sweating, felt weak & just so weak.
The Baba who is born to a brahmin family has seen many things but he said it's rare for someone to be born with Shakti active like I am, nothing good has ever come from it to say the least which is why I laugh when people speak about it & it's clear to me they have no idea about the subject they speak on.

I was sure for decades the Shakti kriya effect scared me & when it would move people would look at me with a very concerned look on heir face& offer to get me medical help, it wasn't till I was in my mid 20's I learned what it actually is & what causes it.


I guess you heard this before a few times


Jai Maa Smashan Kali, Hara Hara Mahadev. Jai Aghor.

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

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I'm not critiquing, I haven't thought about any of this in a long time. My perspective would be only informed by the material I have collected and studied from Crowley's recommended syllabus for the inner college of A.'.A.'. Specificlaly, Raja Yoga by Swami Vivekananda. I don't really have that much to say about it because there's a broad stretch there to dig into and I'm working on something else but interesting conversation. The comment I made about kundalini yoga was entirely tongue in cheek and so my apologies if it were not clear.

He said many times the title is a play upon the book "Autobiography of a Yogi" by Paramahansa Yogananda which I think most people who are aware of Raja Yoga have read.

This interview with Aki Cederberg about his book "Journeys in the Kali Yuga: A Pilgrimage from Esoteric India to Pagan Europe" in which he tells his experience of becoming a member of Juna Akhara like Ram Puri did in the late 1960's. His book is amazing & essential reading for anyone who has a calling to the path of Tantra, Yoga, Sadhana & Sadhu culture.


Really good doc on The German Sanyasi & Yogani Uma Giri-ji.

 

[Deleted member 591706]

He said many times the title is a play upon the book "Autobiography of a Yogi" by Paramahansa Yogananda which I think most people who are aware of Raja Yoga have read.

This interview with Aki Cederberg about his book "Journeys in the Kali Yuga: A Pilgrimage from Esoteric India to Pagan Europe" in which he tells his experience of becoming a member of Juna Akhara like Ram Puri did in the late 1960's. His book is amazing & essential reading for anyone who has a calling to the path of Tantra, Yoga, Sadhana & Sadhu culture.


Really good doc on The German Sanyasi & Yogani Uma Giri-ji.

I'm just getting to watch that YouTube video. I have had a very busy morniing so my apologies for not getting back to you sooner. Thank you!

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

I'm just getting to watch that YouTube video. I have had a very busy morniing so my apologies for not getting back to you sooner. Thank you!

no need for an apology in regard to posting a reply, people have a life offline and have tasks to do.

no need to thank me, I've been "Hindu" for several years despite not being born to the faith but its something I had a deep calling to in weird ways and took to their practices very quickly, The Shivya Ling / Linga is 1 form of worship I feel deeply inside me, the system of faith along the line of Shakti is something I just "knew" for some reason and to use mantra in my Sadhana & my Sanskrit is quite good too. The first Pujari I got to know was still shocked how well I took to it all.

a few weeks ago at The Mandir the Hari Krishna lot were there doing Kirtan & when it was an hour before Aarti began they did a talk all about Karma, Yuga etc, due to being the only "white man" in The Mandir they kept putting thr focus upon me and asking questions, my love of Nisargadatta didn't go down too well with them for some reason.

when I said Krishna was nothing but an avatar they got upset, they asked if I'm so into None Duality why would I do Sadhana at The Shivya Ling which I snapped back "Rama Krishna was a Pujari at a Kali Temple and held the Shakti tradition deeply in his heart so go figure" them smiled at them.
The whole temple went silent for a good 30 seconds as everyone else was in shock but I can't take gibberish and games when it comes to Faith.