Heart.
Wanted to invite Donna to dinner with family within a day of meeting her, after staying with her for two days in a row after first meeting. She requested. I was, taken. Didn't know what to do. I didn't invite her though because I didn't want to push us into anything serious, but it already felt like we were supposed to be together in some way. Or it felt right to invite her, is all I can say. I fought it. I didn't. Held back feelings. Fear.
She had asked me to help her remove storage from a space she rented. I met her the day after she moved in to her new place. I wanted to help. First plan was to do it before the month was over, but then she changed her mind, or something, and I didn't catch it in a communication in text from her. I still thought we were supposed to do it a certain day. She went back to work, stripping, and I didn't really hear from her again. This was all around the same time that I thought I was helping her with this. I waited for her text or call that day, as I thought she was going to. Missed vital information not a day before. New information that had only I paid attention I wouldn't have got worried after not hearing from her. I wouldn't have tried to contact her... As it happened, while she was at work. I wouldn't have come of as insecure and checking up on her, jealous, or what. I imagine she already put a distance between anything real, while being at that place. I pushed myself away, as it happened. Days passed, no communication. I was genuinely worried something happened... Not so much that I had been rejected. I was worried that if something had happened, that I had done nothing.
Much happened in that time apart, after spending many days with her in a short period of time, getting to know her. I thought about her. I delved into numbers, like the number 23, finding it everywhere. No, you really can't do it with just any number, in any situation. 23 is "really good at this game". But (shakes my head), getting back to reality, while with her, some voice in my head told me loudly that she was my wife. I had feelings like that about her. But the voice was loud. And numbers, according to how I found them, found her to come to the same number as my mom, leading me to find, in the first place, that my mom's name, coming to the number 184, by most common methods of calculation, of letter to number, has a sum of 23 times 8, 2 to the 3rd power. I had been "obsessed" (I don't really like to call it that, when you just see it everywhere it doesn't mean you're obsessed, it just happens... but obsession can also happen) with the number for years. It has all been one culmination, one after another. Each validating the previous ones even further into a matrix as sound as the ground I walk on- my experiences, with this number easily found. Now it's not such a big deal. I mean, I accept there are many patterns... But a human gives 23 chromosomes to another 23 chromosomes to create another human. Their number system 0123456789, used most commonly... The 9th prime number is 23. The highest single digit to work with is 9. The highest hour is 23. The 24th hour is always referred to as zero. The most common shape in the known existence is a circle. It's simple. It's inclusive. You want something. Circle it. Your heart pumps circular objects with particles in sort of spherical shells or round orbits in blood which is also made up of particles following similar movements, in basic... "circles" through the body. This also takes place in tubes, which are circular. I don't mean to go on and on. Simple is best. 0, 6, 8, and 9 in this standard form can sum to this number, 23, as well. Just observation. 9 and 6 can look a little like sperm. 8 like cell-division. When you've been seeing 23 in everything for years and then the number systems themselves reveal it, as they come, it can be exiting. In hindsight, I move on. I remember notes. Perhaps they are clues, to something. Who is to say?
I met Donna on 1/23. I met her 203 weeks before 12/21/2012, a date which I was sort of looking forward to at the time. I was born 203 days before the end of the year, at 22:03 EST/02:03 GMT. 161 full days had passed, which can be factored to 7x23. Right yayyyy. Anyways. Later on I found that my ex gave me a watch 161-162 weeks before I met Donna. From meeting Donna, on 1/23/2009, I came up with the date of December 23rd, 2005, as being exactly 162 weeks from that date. So, "Christmas", falling where it does at the end of the year, and time being marked "Before Christ" and whatever is after, and time. And the girl who gave me the watch was Marilyn, my last "girlfriend". It was a cuff design, and felt... It felt like I was cuffed, restricted, marked, attempted-to-be controlled. I didn't like it. My mood toward her changed, although I knew that... or felt it was crazy. Suddenly I didn't really want to be with Marilyn. I had had feelings from time to time before then, but that was a very strange feeling. Like it was over. Though we went 9 more months.
It's hard to tell this story because it can branch a lot and there's back-story to this.
Moving forward, forgetting that for this bit.
I met a girl named Gabrielle that summer, after meeting Donna. Donna and I had not spoken since when. I had tried communicating with her. But nothing really got through. I saw Gabrielle at a Nine Inch Nails concert, on 5/30- Donna's birthday. One thing in common with them is that they both have red hair. So did Marilyn. Marilyn 888 days before Donna (or 880), something significant in occurrence. Another was that Donna was heavy into Angels, and believed greatly in them. She sort of introduced me to even considering their existence as much as I have since, yet still deny, I find, when I see. Gabriel/Gabrielle is of course an angelic name. Anyways, I see Gabrielle there. I know who she is and I don't even think I have seen her face, fully. I am walking behind her, as we enter the main area. A man flanks either side of her. I recognize her, from MySpace. She had been on my favorites for about a year or so, at that point. Just never talked to her. Didn't make contact here, either. But then days later- only a couple, I do. I ask her if she went to this concert, and that I thought I saw her. She writes me back, giving me her phone number. I wait a few days to call, and then I do. And perfect timing, a man very close to her has just died. She is crying. She opens up to me about him. Called him family- like a close uncle, but was a friend somehow. Acted as an uncle. I visit her the day of his funeral. I park, without knowing, in a town I have never been in, one parking lot away from the restaurant we were eating at. I was at Subway's getting internet access from, in my car, and this place was the next lot. No sign. The building looked abandoned, actually. Like nothing. We did already decide to eat Mexican. Here it was. Like a magnet. Automaton. Brainless. I park directly across from a storage unit, my car facing it-- The number 203 above it. A fence between. I think of Donna. 5/30- Day I see Gabrielle, Donna's birthday. Storage. What fucked it up. What. What.
A year after Donna, exactly 1 year after I thought was the deadline to remove her things from storage, to avoid paying another month (but she changed her mind and I didn't catch it- her message), I had what resembled a heart attack. I went to the hospital. I believe now it was an allergic reaction that happened to get bad due to weather, and timing. The next year, I made sure I took it easy that day, but the first day back at work- the next day, the first order I took that day was to a "Hart" family. The next year after that, also on 1/31, my Grandmother died. And that night/morning that she died, I had conversations with one girl who I found was born basically on the 203rd day of the year (202.85 lets call it), who contacted me on OkCupid, and another, born on the 23rd day of some month... same site. As she died, I was talking to the one born on the 23rd, about death, spirituality. Deep conversation. Existence. She gave me her number at the end of the conversation, which I have never called, due to the timing, sort of. I later found my Grandma died around 5:30 in the morning, right around the time her- the girl and I signed off. I forget her name. Lacey. The girl prior, revealed herself. Got naked, wanted me to, as well. Doesn't happen every day.
I ate beef liver the night before my Grandmother's funeral. During it, I had extreme chest pain. I thought I might just die, during. I think it was an allergy to the beef liver, but the end result was this. My heart pained, again, and things close to me.
There's more stuff that happened, of course, all through varied levels. Some noticed. Some not. Just the way things flow. It's hard putting it all down on here. Symbolism in life. Hidden languages. Just to hear it speak.
I got a job, finally, after years of sitting on my ass living off of my parents, after Donna. Part of the reason I was insecure, with her, was that I was unable to support a relationship, and I met the girl of my dreams. Way to go. So she motivated me to work. I started out at Dominos, as a delivery driver. A guy named Dustin Dye (say it? try? fun) hired me. First dream I remember with her, first night together, I was shot in my chest by a guy, as we laid together. She tried to protect me. He just laughed, and walked away. She seemed to know him, not that she was happy about this. Almost like, powerless somehow before him, perhaps dependent somehow. I don't want to speculate though. Donna had ordered Dominos the night before I met her- her first night in her new place, and I mentioned the thought of getting a job driving there. Easy work, livable money. That night before we first met was 1/22/2009. The first girl I met working at Dominos, was Raven. Raven, I found, was born 1/22. She was also the only girl that I found at all attractive, who worked there. Black. Then I met Donna. Donna not the red-haired Donna that I fell in love with. Donna, another black girl. Older. 40s. The only other female driver. The only other girl to work there was named XiXi, pronounced KiKi (Key Key), short for Xiamara. This goes on and on, and in my head it goes together but I can realize- or do, that you won't get it. If you do. Wow. I love you. I should love you anyways. But I'm just saying.
Anyways, I am told to use XiXi's box-- Drop box/money box for the time being, to store my cash so I don't get robbed for it... before I get my own. KiKi is away at school at the (that) moment. When I do choose my lock box, I choose the very center one in the bunch, which happens to be right above (or below... I am more confident) "Donna"- the name marked on there (mine later has a name put on it by Dustin, "23"). It's the cleanest one, and doesn't have a bent or sharp rusty edge/surfaces quite like others might. I choose it for the right reasons, despite the memory of Donna that I find hard to let go of, or something I saw/felt, you know... and this constant reminder. Now- too, every time I try to close my box, it get's caught on a big lock from Donna's box, which hangs over mine in a way that I have to move it, to close my own. The largest lock in the bunch. Symbol. I could go into their names, and craziness in that, too, like Donna at work's name having the word "Hair" in it- how it's pronounced... and having a very hairy chin (also shares my mothers rare to hear- to me, middle name, Faye, and my sister's birthday), and Raven with a last name beginning with "Man" (KiKi ending in man, and her sister Moriah...), and her upper lip has more of a mustache than some men can grow. I am not saying this to be mean. Or anything. And I know, this is kind of a mess, but I hope you see some of it. If you don't, I'm sorry.
I don't know. Donna put up some image with the number 23 as prominent in it. And it was one of four numbers, totaling to 92. 92/4=23. 23 was the only one that repeated, occurring twice. My friend's dad died on 10/23. She put this image up on 10/20, or so. My friend, who was one of my best, his name is Richard Donald (last name withheld), and Donna's father's name is/was Donald Richard. I grew up with Richard. His dad's funeral was at a 1840 something street, in Jeffersonville, IN. 184 is a number I clearly associate with Donna, as it was a number that I found to correlate with my mother. Through her, perhaps I didn't finish it before- the thought, I found this number, had she really been my wife, and traditionally took my name- her name coming to 184 if I calculated it to number, this way. 184 I had seen before, and tried my mother. It was hers, and by this, I found the connection to 23, validating.
Please, don't judge me. Please.
I waited forever to take the rock, a piece of jet, that she allowed me to choose from her collection of gemstones, to be evaluated. Years. Or a year. I finally took it to be looked at, to ask what it was, exactly (I didn't know). Upon leaving, and exiting onto the main road, I got behind a car with the number 159 and letters LEG. 159 is associated to her (Her name sum as it is), in my neural wiring and chemical yada, and the first image I saw of her, to spark Hubba Hubba-ness from me, was an image she posted of herself holding her leg up in a way, sexy. That day was the big earthquake in Haiti. It happened at around the time I was there at that store, asking about what she had given me. The last thing I told her, somewhat jokingly/playfully, but serious to my feeling, also, in ways, was "Hate You". It was an indirect communication. It was one of the last "names" that I chose for myself on Myspace, perhaps, before quitting/separating (trying to, sort of, I guess). I wanted her to see it.
The first Earthquake that I experienced occurred when I was playing the game Quake, which I hadn't played in many years, at that point, and was only playing because my Xbox got the red-ring of death and was in for repairs. There was one girl, named "Batgirl" (and Bat=23 by numbering methods often used, just to squeeze that in here), in there, and a lot of guys... In this Quake server. I remember falling into a pit, into some magma (we were underground), and seeing her character down there as well. Her avatar had a text box above it denoting that she was typing a message. ";-)" is all the box says, while this is happening. I have a shot of thought that asks/says, "You must be a red-head", generally connecting the fire- the fire-pit, being in it, meeting her down there, uhh, I don't know, attempted flirtatious funny stuff. I decided to not ask the question though. It ended up coming up minutes later, in her conversation with one of the other guys (Yes, red-head). Then the earthquake happened. I live in Indiana, so it's rare.
I found out she was from Toronto. I got a map and drew a line from Toronto, through Indy, and that line if continued on would pass very close to the epicenter of the quake. Hadn't played in years, and it happens to happen when I am playing the game- my first quake, and my first quake.
I apologize for how hard this might be to read. If you did manage to make it through, please know that I am not attempting to connect one thing to the next, in here, but in segments talking about things that occur, and just following thoughts/memories as I have them. Some might reflect/connect, and be related, though. For now, I need a rest. I feel with what I have inside, it is possible I could find the right format for everything to be understood by others the way I want it to, but maybe that's just for me to get. I still do this, though.
I notice I omit a lot of details that to me are important to it, my memory, of how it has "connections". Just to mention, again, that I leave a lot out, so that I can write it down, and so that people might read it. In the process of trying, I might butcher it. I am sorry. And I may try to edit it. Sometimes I think I should just not hold back. But that would take a lot of time, and I might get more frustrated with trying to make sense in word, and the stuff I didn't remember, but did when I was past it, in writing, and how to implement.
Anyways, enough, for now.
Thanks for reading.
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Edited in from what was separate post, and intended to be separate:
About three years ago, voices, repeating "Alicia Keys!" as I am running, and over the course of a few days, or weeks. I can't remember. I hear Alisha's voice sometimes- an ex girlfriend, in my mind, at times. Very clearly. Most clearly when I ran/exercised. Many voices recognized but she was prominent. My mind couldn't let her go, either. This was after I met Donna, down the line, that this happened.
I had not heard from Alisha- an ex, in months (9?). Within days of hearing these voices, little, "fairy" voices... I get a text from her. "Do you have the corporate key? It's really important!!!"
It was to the wrong person, I guess...