THECATINTHEHAT
Bluelighter
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Bluelight mods in gigantic overreach shocker

Disagree entirely, they are entirely within their rights to voice their concerns here imo.This is a private matter and should be dealt with privately. I could completely understand why the mods might make this thread only visible to staff.
If something happened on discord then you need to ask one of the senior staffers who is active there and have it dealt with.
These threads do nothing but create drama and misinformation as people are getting bits and pieces of the details rather than a full picture.
I can totally see your point @Tranced but this is the wrong place to deal with it.
If they went through the private channels and nothing was done and they still had cause then maybe I’d agree with you.Disagree entirely, they are entirely within their rights to voice their concerns here imo.
I’m well aware, I was a mod here 15 years before you even joinedIf they went through the private channels and nothing was done and they still had cause then maybe I’d agree with you.
The admins and mods need to at least be given the opportunity to fix an issue before a big drama is made out of it. I think people don’t realise how hard it is to run a site with volunteers who are literally giving up their time to make things work. Mistakes are going to be made, nowhere is perfect but at least give the staff time to make things right before churning up the water. Ye know?
Glad you see my point.That’s not to say that I think trying to fix it through the proper channels first is not the prudent thing to do![]()
Glad you see my point.
I’m 38, I was reading this forum for a long long time before I ever joined btw.![]()
Did'ya ask her to come and sit on daddy's lap?I got told "aren't you, like, 40 or something" (no but that's fine if I was; I'm just not?).
I got told it was barely legal; scathing.
It made me feel and sound dirty, like a pervert. Turns out they were 19, and just to clarify again, I'll request nudes from a consenting 19 year old however I desire, much like I have before. But not from across the fucking Atlantic Ocean when I don't even know them?
One of my big surprise this year is to have found BL.I love it.Now I.m trapped to, I hope it doesnt become an addiction.lol
Yeah, ortfon scratchGood for you Kongoman. Love your avatar - is that an Ortofon (I used to have 2 Concordes on my SL1200's)?
well turns out, im gonna be an unclethat was a surprise and a half when my sister was back over home and had previously said she'd never wanna go through the pain of child birth. Whilst we all got covid at her wedding, she got knocked up! (and all i got was this lousy t-shirt lol)
No way! Congrats!!!Congratulations mate!
I found out the other day that I'm going to be a Grandad. Don't congratulate me though, I'm fuckin dreading it...
Congrats to you too!! Exciting times to come.well turns out, im gonna be an unclethat was a surprise and a half when my sister was back over home and had previously said she'd never wanna go through the pain of child birth. Whilst we all got covid at her wedding, she got knocked up! (and all i got was this lousy t-shirt lol)
Congratulations mate!
I found out the other day that I'm going to be a Grandad. Don't congratulate me though (applicable to Matt only), I'm fuckin dreading it...