De Quincey
Bluelighter
personally, i think i have achieved as much emotional closure as i ever will.
i make the point that this is now a pretty big mess, not so much for me, because all *my* outcomes are basically set. i know how my life has been affected, and i'm free to move on.
but the girl who caused the accident *doesn't know what's going to happen to her*. Will she get sent to jail? for how long? will she cop a massive fine? will she get her arse sued off? Has she needed therapy to help her comes to terms with what she's done? Imagine living for more than 6 months without knowing whether your life is going to be affected in a major way, because of your own stupid acts?
i just don't think it's worth it. but you all knew that already.
i make the point that this is now a pretty big mess, not so much for me, because all *my* outcomes are basically set. i know how my life has been affected, and i'm free to move on.
but the girl who caused the accident *doesn't know what's going to happen to her*. Will she get sent to jail? for how long? will she cop a massive fine? will she get her arse sued off? Has she needed therapy to help her comes to terms with what she's done? Imagine living for more than 6 months without knowing whether your life is going to be affected in a major way, because of your own stupid acts?
i just don't think it's worth it. but you all knew that already.